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- Kala ukusabela kwakhe okungenzeka
- Cabanga ngalokho ozokusho
- Bekela eceleni isikhathi esingaphazanyiswa sokuxoxa
- Gcina ingxoxo iphucuzekile
- Ungakhombi ngeminwe
- Vumelana ngesinye isikhathi ukuze ukhulume kabanzi
Isikhathi. Ubungacabangi ukuthi kuzofika kuleli qophelo emshadweni wakho, kodwa usuqedile.
Ufake inhliziyo nomphefumulo wakho ekwenzeni ubudlelwano bakho nomyeni wakho busebenze, kepha izinto zibambeke ngokuphelele. Ngeshwa, umshado wakho usuphelile.
Uzitshele ukuthi, "Ngifuna isehlukaniso". Ngaleso sinqumo, ekugcineni uqinisekile.
Manje kuza ingxenye enzima: ukuthi ungamtshela kanjani umyeni wakho ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso?
Noma ngabe ushade unyaka owodwa noma iminyaka engama-25, ukutshela umyeni wakho ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso kuzoba ngenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu empilweni yakho. Kunezindlela eziningi zokubhekana nalokhu, futhi ukuthi ukwenze kanjani lokho kuzoba nomthelela omkhulu ekutheni idivosi idlala kanjani.
Ngabe isehlukaniso sizoba sibi, noma sizohlala sisemthethweni? Yize izinto eziningi zidlala kulokhu, ukuthi utshela kanjani oshade naye ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso kungenye yazo. Ngakho-ke cabanga njengoba uqhubeka nale nqubo.
Nawa amanye amathiphu okuthi ungasicela kanjani isehlukaniso kumyeni wakho:
Kala ukusabela kwakhe okungenzeka
Kunezindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuthi ufuna isehlukaniso. Zama ukukala impendulo yakhe engaba khona ukuze unqume ukuthi uzoxoxa kanjani nomngane wakho womshado ngakho.
Ucabanga ukuthi umyeni wakho unanoma yini umkhondo wokuthi awujabule kanjani? Futhi, khumbula ukuthi kunomehluko phakathi kokungajabuli okuvamile nesehlukaniso. Ngabe kukhona okwenzekile, noma kukhona okushilo esikhathini esedlule okukhombisa ukuthi ufuna ukuphuma noma cha?
Uma engazi lutho, lokhu kuzoba nzima kakhulu; kuye, kungazwakala sengathi kuphume emkhakheni ongakwesobunxele, futhi angalwa ngokusobala ngisho nokushiwo lo mbono.
Kodwa-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi angaba nomkhondo othile, khona-ke le ngxoxo ingahle ibe lula kancane. Uma esevele eshiya, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi usevele ucabanga ukuthi umshado usematheni, futhi le ngxoxo elindile ingazizwa njengokuqhubeka kwemvelo kuye.
Cabanga ngalokho ozokusho
Ngendlela angasabela ngayo engqondweni yakho, sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi uzothini kuye. Esikhundleni sokukhathazeka ngokuthi uzomtshela kanjani ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso, ungaqala ngokuxoxa ngendlela ozizwe ungajabule ngayo isikhashana manje, nokuthi senilahliwe.
Yibe usumtshela ukuthi uke wazizwa isikhashana ukuthi umshado ngeke usebenze nokuthi ufuna isehlukaniso.Qiniseka ukuthi usho igama, ngakho-ke uyacaca.
Lindela ukuthi aphendule. Cishe uzoba nemibuzo.
Hlala ujwayelekile. Uma ecela imininingwane ethile, noma kunjalo zama ukuyigcina ijwayelekile. Uma kufanele, ke usho nje izingqinamba ezimbalwa ezibalulekile, kepha inkulumo jikelele ngokuthi luyimpilo yakho yosuku nosuku engathokozi hhayi lokho okufunayo.
Uma udinga, ngaphambi kokuhlangana, bhala phansi imicabango yakho ukuze ukwazi ukuyihlela futhi ulungele. Ingxoxo ngokutshela oshade naye ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso ngeke ibe lula kuwe nakumlingani wakho.
Kepha, udinga ukuthola ukuthi ungamtshela kanjani ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso ngaphandle kokunikeza isikhala sezingxabano ezengeziwe noma izingxabano phakathi kwenu nobabili.
Bekela eceleni isikhathi esingaphazanyiswa sokuxoxa
Tshela umyeni wakho ukuthi udinga ukukhuluma naye ngokuthile bese usetha isikhathi nosuku. Yani ndawo lapho ningaba yimfihlo khona bese nichitha isikhathi ndawonye nixoxa.
Vala omakhalekhukhwini bakho, uthole umuntu ogcina ingane — noma yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze kungaphazamiseki nobabili futhi ningaphazanyiswa ngenkathi nikhuluma. Mhlawumbe ekhaya lakho, noma epaki, noma kwenye indawo ebekelwe ukukhuluma nomyeni wakho ngesehlukaniso.
Gcina ingxoxo iphucuzekile
Yiziphi izindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokucela umuntu oshade naye ukuthi ahlukanise ngaphandle kokuthola ukusabela okunokhahlo komlingani wakho?
Njengoba ukhuluma, izinto ziba nzima, zifudunyezwe, noma zombili. Indlela enhle yokutshela oshade naye ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso ukuhlala ungumphakathi yize kunguwe wedwa owenza kanjalo.
Uma umyeni wakho enza ngamawala, ungaweli ogibeni olufanayo bese usabela ngemizwa enokhahlo. Uma ungaphenduli, angahle asho izinto ukuzama ukukuhlanganisa, kepha futhi ungakuvumeli.
Khumbula ukuthi ufunani lapha — umtshela kuphela ukuthi ufunani. Inhloso yakho enkulu isehlukaniso, esinzima ngokwanele. Musa ukukwenza kubi ngokwengeziwe ngokuvumela imizwa ukuba ikubuse.
Ungakhombi ngeminwe
Enye yezinto ezibalulekile okufanele uyikhumbule ngenkathi ufuna izindlela zokutshela umyeni wakho ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso ukuthi ungalokothi ukhombe umlingani wakho ngeminwe.
Phakathi kwale ngxoxo, nangesonto elilandelayo, umyeni wakho angakubuza ngezinkinga ezithile noma izimo lapho omunye wenu enephutha.
Angaze akukhombe ngecala ngenkathi ezama ukuthi ukhombe emuva ngeminwe. Ungadlali lowo mdlalo. Ungaya emibuthanweni eza nokuthi bekuyiphutha likabani.
Eqinisweni, iphutha lilele kini nobabili okungenani kancane. Ngalesi sikhathi, okwedlule akunandaba. Okubalulekile okwamanje nekusasa.
Vumelana ngesinye isikhathi ukuze ukhulume kabanzi
Iyiphi enye indlela okufanele ukhulume ngayo nomyeni wakho lapho ufuna isehlukaniso?
Yebo, lokhu ngeke kube lula futhi ngeke kube yingxoxo yesikhathi esisodwa. Imizwa eminingi izovela, futhi uma nobabili nivuma ukuqhubekela phambili ngesahlukaniso, lapho-ke nizobe nikhuluma kakhulu ngezinto.
Le ngxoxo yokuqala ukumane umtshele ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso. Akukho okunye, akukho okuncane! Uma eletha imininingwane, mtshele ukuthi ufuna isikhathi esithile bese usetha usuku oluzayo lokukhuluma ngemali, izingane, njll. Zonke izinto ezinkulu.
Lezi zeluleko kufanele zibeke ukungabaza kwakho ukuthi ungamtshela kanjani umyeni wakho ukuthi ufuna isehlukaniso siphumule. Ukubhekana nesehlukaniso akulula neze. Kepha okwamanje, ungaphumula wazi ukuthi uthe ukuthula kwakho futhi ekugcineni ungadlulela phambili.