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UDavid K. Williams, obambe iqhaza kumagazini iForbes, wathi “enye yezindima ezibucayi (futhi ezingakacaci) enkampanini yezamabhizinisi akuyona umsunguli noma umnikazi — yindima yomuntu oshade naye obalulekile.” Kepha imvamisa akulula neze. Omunye wabacwaningi abadumile wale ndaba nguTrisha Harp, umsunguli weHarp Family Institute. Ithisisi yakhe enkulu ethi “Spousal Satisfaction in Entrepreneurs Couples” lapho eveza khona isifundo sakhe mayelana nobudlelwano phakathi kwezamabhizinisi nomshado siletha izeluleko eziningi nokuqonda okuhle uma kukhulunywa ngale ndaba ebaluleke kakhulu emishadweni kanjalo nakwezamabhizinisi uqobo.
Uma kubhekwa izikhalazo ezejwayelekile abantu abazinikezayo uma kukhulunywa ngemiphumela yokuba namabhizinisi emshadweni wabo, kungaqashelwa ukuthi lowo abamphakamise igama lakhe uvalo. Lokho kwesaba kuyaqondakala ngokuphelele, kepha ukukulawula kuzoholela ekusetshenzisweni kwamabhizinisi okwakhayo nokungacindezeli kakhulu kanye nomshado. UTrisha Harp, phakathi kwabanye abaningi, wenze umsebenzi wokusikhomba ezindleleni zokuziphatha ezingasebenza kuleyo nhloso.
1. Ukungafihli lutho nokwethembeka
Ezimweni eziningi, lokho empeleni okunikela ekwesabeni nasekuntulekeni kokuthembana akuzona izinkinga zangempela ezikhona noma ezingenzeka, kepha isithombe esinenkungu nesifiphalisayo salokho okwenzekayo empeleni. Lokho kuholela ekukhathazekeni okumnyama, ukufihla nokukhathazeka. Ngakho-ke, uHarp ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokwabelana ngazo zonke izici zebhizinisi, noma ngabe zibukeka ziphikisana kangakanani. Isethulo esineqiniso futhi esibuyekeziwe sokuthuthuka kwebhizinisi yizinto ezisemqoka uma kuziwa ekwakheni ukwethembana, ukuzethemba nobunye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwethembeka nakho kubalulekile lapho kuvezwa ukwesaba nokungabaza. Ukuxhumana okuqinile, okuvulelekile nokudlala “ngamakhadi avulekile” kunikeza oshade nosomabhizinisi ithuba lokushintsha ukwesaba kube nelukuluku.
Ukuba usomabhizinisi kungaba nesizungu kwesinye isikhathi, futhi ukuba nomlaleli omuhle eceleni kwakhe angahlanganyela naye imibono yakhe nokukhathazeka kwakhe, kuveza kakhulu futhi kuyakhuthaza.
2. Ukusekela ne-cheerleading
UTrisha Harp uphakamisa ngokuqinile ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abashadile bazizwe bengamalungu eqembu elifanayo. Ucwaningo lwakhe lukhombisile ukuthi labo ababelana ngezinhloso zabo zebhizinisi nezomndeni bathola amaphuzu aphezulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuzizwa benelisekile ngomshado kanye neminye imikhakha yempilo. Uma omunye umlingani ezwa sengathi ibhizinisi lomunye lingelakhe futhi, ukuthi babelana ngentshisekelo efanayo, uzosebenza ngendlela ekhuthazayo futhi esekelayo.
Ukuzizwa uqondwa, waziswa futhi usekelwa kunendima ebalulekile empumelelweni yanoma yimuphi usomabhizinisi. Akunasidingo sokwazi ngebhizinisi kakhulu njengophathina oziqhubayo ngoba usizo lwengqondo kulula kakhulu ukuluthola kunokwemizwa. Ukubuza nje ukuthi kukhona yini ongakusiza, unikeze impendulo ethembekile futhi ukhuthaze lapho kudingeka, kwanele ngokuphelele ukuba usomabhizinisi azizwe engcono futhi anikele ngokusemandleni akhe. Ngakho-ke, akumangazi ukuthi, njengoba idatha kaTrisha Harp ikhombisa, usomabhizinisi ezimweni eziningi unezinga eliphakeme lokubonga ngalo lonke usizo nosizo abalunikezwa ngabalingani babo.
3. Ibhalansi yomsebenzi wokuphila
Okunye ukwesaba okunengqondo abashadikazi abaningi abanabo ngukuthi ukunikeza isikhathi esiningi namandla ebhizinisini ngeke konge kakhulu emshadweni.Ukuzenzela amabhizinisi nakanjani kudinga ukuzinikela okukhulu nokuzidela okuningi, kepha futhi kunezikhathi lapho yonke leyo mizamo izikhokhela khona. Ngaphandle kwabo bonke ubunzima ababhekene nabo, iningi labashadileyo lathi bazophinde bashade nosomabhizinisi wabo.
Akunasikhathi somndeni noma kwanoma yini okusho kuphela ukuphatha kabi isikhathi. Noma usomabhizinisi engeke abe naso kakhulu njengabanye abantu, ikhwalithi yesikhathi esichithwa ndawonye ibaluleke kakhulu futhi lokho kukuwe ngokuphelele.
UChris Myers, omunye umnikeli weForbes ukholelwa ukuthi, uma kukhulunywa ngosomabhizinisi, le ndaba esezingeni lomsebenzi wokuphila inganekwane. Kepha ayimele inkinga ngoba incazelo yakudala yomsebenzi njengokuthile okumele ukwenze ukuze uthole imali ayihambelani nomqondo wanamuhla wokuhweba.
Osomabhizinisi abaningi, umsebenzi abawenzayo ungaphezu kokuphokophela ukuthola inzuzo. Kuyisifiso sabo, ukuvezwa kwamagugu abo ajulile nothando lwabo. Umugqa ophakathi kwempilo nomsebenzi awusabukhali kangako, futhi ukuzenzela komuntu ngomsebenzi kuzomenza abe ngcono nasempilweni yakhe yangasese.