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- 1. Landa isiphuzo kumlingani wakho ngaphandle kwesizathu
- 2. Khombisa uthando
- 3. Beka ucansi kuqala
- 4. Ncoma oshade naye
- 5. Bhala oshade naye inkondlo
- 6. Yenza ikhadi elenzelwe umlingani wakho ikhadi elenziwe ngezandla
- 7. Yenza ukudla okunezithandani noshade naye
- 8. Hamba ugibele ibhayisikili nomlingani wakho
- 9. Dala uhlu lwadlalwayo lwezingoma zothando
- 10. Ukuphunyuka ngempelasonto
- 11. Kushintshe ekamelweni
- 12. Shower ndawonye
- 13. Qalisa ucansi
- 14. Ukudlala ngothando obala nomlingani wakho esidlangalaleni
- 15. Thatha ikilasi lomdanso we-ballroom ndawonye
- 16. Azisekho iziphuku ezijulukwayo ngempelasonto
- 17. Zitike ngothando lwemizuzwana engu-10
Ukuzinika isikhathi sokwengeza ezothando ebudlelwaneni bakho kubalulekile ekubugcineni kunempilo futhi kujabulile.
Uma umbhangqwana ungakunaki ukujova ngemibono yothando nemisebenzi yothando usuku nosuku, ungazithola uzizwa umile, ungaphefumulelwe, futhi ungaba sengozini yokuthandana nomuntu obenza babheke ngothando ngezikhathi ezithile isikhathi.
Ngakho-ke, ungathandana kanjani kakhulu? Noma ungangeza kanjani ezothando ebudlelwaneni bakho?
Awudingi ukuya omkhulu ngezenzo zothando ngaye noma kuye.
Nayi imibono emincane kodwa ephawulekayo yothando ngaye nangaye engeza ezothando ebudlelwaneni bakho futhi ezogcina ubudlelwane bakho buhamba kahle impela.
1. Landa isiphuzo kumlingani wakho ngaphandle kwesizathu
Ufuna izinto zothando ongazenzela isoka lakho noma intombi yakho?
Letha ikhofi likazakwenu, isiphuzo esibandayo, noma isiphuzo esidala "ngoba".
Isikhathi sasekuseni yisikhathi esihle sokubanika ubhiya abawuthandayo ngendlela abathanda ngayo. Beka inkomishi ngqo ku-nightstand ukuze bakwazi ukuzitika ngaphandle kokuthola ama-slippers kanye nengubo yabo.
Ntambama eshisayo? Lungisa ingilazi ende kalamula eneqhwa eliningi neminti yabo.
Isikhathi sama-cocktails? Dlala u-bartender uphinde uhlanganise isiphuzo esikhethekile "sothando" sesithandwa sakho.
2. Khombisa uthando
Enye yezindlela ezisobala kakhulu zokwengeza ezothando ebudlelwaneni bakho ukubonisa uthando olwengeziwe kumlingani wakho.
Kwenze iphuzu ukunika owakwakho ukwangana okude, okuqinile nokuqabulana okukhulu ezindebeni lapho nibonana njalo kusihlwa ngaphambi kokuba niqale ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa.
Izokuxhumanisa futhi ikukhumbuze ukuthi lo ngumuntu wakho okhethekile, futhi uyababonga.
3. Beka ucansi kuqala
Ukhathele kakhulu ukuya ocansini? Kwenze noma kunjalo. Isifiso sizozenza saziwe uma uqala nje.
Imibhangqwana idinga ucansi ukuze izizwe ixhumekile, futhi uma ubeka lokhu isikhathi eside kakhulu, ukuxhumana kwakho kuzoba buthakathaka. Ukwenza uthando akudingeki ukuthi kube yinde, kepha uma usuqala, ungazithola usulula ngoba nje muhle kakhulu!
4. Ncoma oshade naye
Kwenze umkhuba ukuncoma oshade naye okungenani kanye ngosuku. Akudingeki kube isitatimende esikhulu, kodwa nje ukuthi “Umuhle kanjani kuleyongubo!” noma "Yum, isidlo sakusihlwa osiphekayo sinuka kamnandi!" ngizokwenza njalo.
Kwesinye isikhathi siyakhohlwa ukuthi noma kubudlelwano besikhathi eside, sonke sidinga ukubonwa nokuqinisekiswa.
Bona okuthile okukukhumbuza owakwakho? Thenga ubanikeze manje.
Akunasizathu sokulinda usuku lwabo lokuzalwa ... isipho esimangazayo sithi, “Lokhu kungenze ngacabanga ngawe, futhi bengazi ukuthi kuzokujabulisa.” Lokho kuthumela umyalezo wothando kubo.
5. Bhala oshade naye inkondlo
Akuyona imbongi? Azikho izinkinga! Ngisho nokuzama nokuyiqiniso "amaRoses abomvu; Ama-Violets aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ... ”lapho isiphetho osikhethile sizohlasela.
6. Yenza ikhadi elenzelwe umlingani wakho ikhadi elenziwe ngezandla
Ufuna ukwengeza ezothando ebudlelwaneni bakho? Yenza umlingani wakho ikhadi elenziwe ngezandla ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa / usuku lwakho lokuzalwa.
Yebo, akhona amakhadi amahle atholakala esitolo, kepha cabanga ukuthi uzothinteka kanjani umlingani wakho lapho ebona isikhathi, umzamo, nobuciko obufakile ukumenzela ikhadi lothando.
Ngakho-ke thatha isitoko sekhadi nezinye izibaya ezizwakala ngombala, bese uthola amajusi wakho wobuciko egeleza!
Futhi bukela: 4 imibono yedina yothando yobusuku bosuku
7. Yenza ukudla okunezithandani noshade naye
Ukudla kwasekuseni? Kuthiwani ngama-pancake amise okwenhliziyo ane-oda eliseceleni lebhekoni olisebenzisile ukubhala i-XOXOXO? Isidlo sasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa?
Kuthiwani ngendaba "ebomvu" (yezinhliziyo, uyithole?) Ngesiqalo sesaladi sikatamatisi, isidlo esikhulu se-spaghetti esinososo obomvu, nekhekhe elibomvu le-velvet le-dessert? I-champagne epinki iyadingeka ngalesi sidlo!
8. Hamba ugibele ibhayisikili nomlingani wakho
Ingabe uhlala lapho kunezindlela zebhayisikili? Zama ukuqasha ibhayisikili elihamba ndawonye ukuze uthole isipiliyoni sokugcina sezemidlalo sothando.
9. Dala uhlu lwadlalwayo lwezingoma zothando
Dala uhlu lwadlalwayo lwezingoma zakho ozithandayo zothando bese ushisa iCD. Yibize ngokuthi "Umculo Wokuncibilika." Yigqoke, fiphaza izibani, bese ubheka ukuthi kwenzekani ...
10. Ukuphunyuka ngempelasonto
Paka izingane nogogo nomkhulu noma abanye abangane futhi umangaze oshade naye ngempelasonto yothando. Mlande emsebenzini ephethe ipotimende lakhe eselipakishiwe bese usuka uye kuleyo ndlwana encane okade ufuna ukuyizama.
Gxila ngokukhethekile komunye nomunye ngempelasonto yonke-Akukhulunywa ngomsebenzi, noma izingane, noma yini ethatha ukunaka kwakho ekuthandeni othandekayo wakho.
11. Kushintshe ekamelweni
Asikhulumi ngezocansi, lapha, kepha ilense yakho yombhede. Thenga amashidi amahle wokubala ngentambo avele akucele ukuthi ugxumele embhedeni bese uphumule ekuzizweleni kwawo okunethezeka (Ungawathatha ngentengo enhle ngoJanuwari White Sales.)
Faka eminye imicamelo yokuphonsa enhle (uboya obumbumbulu bu-sexy!), Futhi usanda kudala isikhala sothando wena nomlingani wakho.
12. Shower ndawonye
Ngabe ufuna imibono yezothando ngaye?
Ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho umlingani wakho egeza khona ekuseni, vula lapho naye. Shampoo izinwele zakhe bese ufaka ukubhucungwa okuhle kwekhanda. Ukuqala kwakho kosuku akuthandi kakhulu kunalokho!
13. Qalisa ucansi
Uma imvamisa kungeyena ozoqala ucansi, hamba! Umlingani wakho uzomangala ngalesi senzo sothando (nokushaja kwe-libido).
14. Ukudlala ngothando obala nomlingani wakho esidlangalaleni
Ngisho noma nenza nje ukuthenga izinto ndawonye, ukwenza imizwa yothando kuyindlela enhle yokwengeza uthando ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Uma udlala ngothando nomlingani wakho esidlangalaleni, kuzobenza babone ukuthi ubathanda kangakanani futhi kubasondeze nakakhulu kuwe.
15. Thatha ikilasi lomdanso we-ballroom ndawonye
Lawa makilasi aya ngokuthandwa kakhulu, njengoba imibhangqwana ifuna ukuzisondeza ngenkathi ifunda i-tango noma i-salsa. Kuyindlela esabekayo yokungena kumlingani wakho kanye nezaba ezinhle zokuthinta!
16. Azisekho iziphuku ezijulukwayo ngempelasonto
Yebo, siyazi ukuthi zikhululekile. Kepha futhi zingabulala inhlansi yothando.
Awudingi ukugqoka ingubo kanokusho, kepha kuthiwani ngamabhulukwe amahle, afakwe kahle e-yoga, noma lawo mathayithi wokuzivocavoca anezingxenye ezithile zawo, kanye ne-camisole eqinile.
Uyayithanda le sweatshirt yakudala yasekolishi, kepha uyigcinele lapho oshade naye ephuma edolobheni, kulungile?
17. Zitike ngothando lwemizuzwana engu-10
Uhlala efulethini elinekheshi? Sebenzisa leso sikhathi sodwa ukwenza, ucindezele ndawonye futhi ushise izinto. Imizuzwana eyi-10 kuphela, kepha yimizuzwana eyishumi yothando.