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- 1. Abantu bayashintsha ngothando
- 2. Ubudlelwano nomngani wobulili
- 3. Ubudlelwano nomuntu okusebenzisayo ukwenza i-ex yakhe ibe nomona
Ubani ongathandi ukubuka i-movie yothando ezwa kahle elele kusofa womndeni nama-popcorn neziphuzo ezithile ngeSonto elinobuvila. Ama-Rom-coms ahlekisa ngawe, akwenze ukhale, kukonke akwenze uzizwe ujabulile futhi ulula. Zimnandi ukubukwa. Ukuhlanganiswa kwendaba yokufudumala kwenhliziyo, ukucwebezelana kwamakhemikhali phakathi kokuhola kanye nokuhlekisa yilokho okuqukethe i-rom-com ephelele futhi thina njengezilaleli, siyijabulela ngokuphelele.
Kepha wake wazibuza ukuthi ngabe kukhona yini ukungafani ngendlela ubudlelwano obuvezwa ngayo esikrinini sesiliva nokuthi empeleni bunjani. Yikholwe noma ungakholwa ukuthi i-hollywood inamandla okuthonya umphakathi futhi lawa ma-movie wothando 'angenacala' athinta lokho abantu abakucabangayo nabakulindele ebudlelwaneni empilweni yangempela.
Amabhayisikobho ezothando ajwayele ukwenziwa azungeze abantu ababili, abenzelwe ukuba ndawonye. Umkhathi ubaphusha ndawonye futhi yonke into iwela endaweni ngomlingo. Ekupheleni kwe-movie bayabona ukuthi basothandweni futhi kufanele babe ndawonye. Kodwa ingabe lokho kwenzeka empeleni? Cha. Ubudlelwano abuzenzekeli bodwa futhi indawo yonke ayikukhuthazi igama lomuntu ohloselwe ukuba naye. Kufanele usebenze ukwakha nokugcina ubudlelwano, akugcini nje ngokuthakazelisa nogqozi, kumayelana nokusebenza kanzima nokuzinikela. Lesi sici asinikezwa ukubaluleka okukhulu esikrinini, okuqondakalayo ngoba abantu baya kuma-movie ukuze bazijabulise futhi bangaboni izingqinamba zempilo yangempela. Amabhayisikobho abukeka njengengxenye engenabungozi, ejabulisayo yezimpilo zethu kepha noma kunjalo bayaphambanisa ngendlela esibona ngayo ubudlelwane bethu. Ubukhazikhazi ne-adrenalin rush esihlangabezana nayo ngama-rom-coms kusenza sizizwe sinesidingo sokuthile okufanayo ezimpilweni zethu zothando, zikhulisa ngokungenabulungisa okulindelwe kwethu ebuhlotsheni.
Nayi eminye imibono yobudlelwano engenangqondo ama-rom-coms athandwayo abelokhu esabalalisa isikhathi eside:
1. Abantu bayashintsha ngothando
Kukhona ama-n-number wama-movie we-hollywood lapho umfana omubi ethandana nentombazane enhle futhi azishintshe ngokuphelele ukuze abe naye. Ama-movie adumile afana neGhost of Girlfriends Past, Made Of Honor kanye nama-First Dates angama-50, wonke anomholi wesilisa ongumdlali ngokwemvelo aze ahlangane nentombazane ahlose ukuba nayo. Uguqula abe ngumuntu onobuhlungu futhi ozwelayo futhi intombazane ikhohlwa konke ngobuntu bakhe obudlule futhi ihlangane naye.
Eqinisweni, akukho okungaba kude neqiniso. Amabhayisikobho anjalo abelokhu ebhuqa izimpilo zothando zabesifazane abasha abaningi isikhathi eside manje. Abantu abaguqukeli noma ngubani ngaphandle kwabo. Yebo, kukhona abantu abangahle benze sengathi bayashintsha ukuze bazuze inhliziyo yabathandekayo babo, kepha lokho akuhlali isikhathi eside.
2. Ubudlelwano nomngani wobulili
Ezikhathini zanamuhla, leli lungiselelo selithandwa kakhulu. Abantu basondelana ngokomzimba nabangane, abangenabo ubuhlobo obukhethekile nabo futhi lokhu akunamphumela wothando ebudlelwaneni babo. Kepha kumabhayisikobho afana ne-Friends with Benefits and No Strings Okunamathiselwe ukuhola kwabesilisa nabesifazane abangani abahlanganyela ocansini ngaphandle kwemizwa yothando kodwa ekugcineni bangene ebudlelwaneni bothando. Lokhu kunikeza umbono kubantu wokuthi labo abaqala ukuhlanganyela ocansini bagcina sebethandana. Baningi abantu abasha abavuma leli lungiselelo lomngane wobulili ngethemba lokuthi umngane wabo ngesikhathi esithile uzowawela. Kepha lokho kungenzeka kungenzeki futhi kungabashiya benenhliziyo ngaleso sikhathi.
3. Ubudlelwano nomuntu okusebenzisayo ukwenza i-ex yakhe ibe nomona
Abantu basebenzisa zonke izinhlobo zezindlela zokubuyisana nabangaphambili babo futhi enye yazo ukubenza babe nomona ngokusondela komunye umuntu. Abahlangani nomunye umuntu empeleni, bayazenzisa bese bebeka umbukiso nge-ex yabo. Omunye umuntu akanalusizo ngalokhu. Kepha kumabhayisikobho afana ne-A Lot Like Live ne-Addicted to Love, akhombisa ukuthi ngenkathi bezenza ngathi bayathandana, bobabili abaholayo empeleni bayathandana. Ngakho-ke ngalolu lwazi abantu abathandana nomuntu ngasese bayavuma ukubamba iqhaza kulo mdlalo wokuzenzisa. Abangaqapheli ukuthi umngani wabo kungenzeka angaphindiseli imizwa yabo, engabashiya belimele.
Lezi izingoma ezimbalwa ezivamile zama-movie ezithandwayo, ezisisuse kude nokuthi ubudlelwano bangempela kufanele bube njani. Lokhu kuholela ekuphoxekeni nasekucasukeni, futhi kusishiya sinokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu okungadingekile. Yiba nokulindela okungokoqobo futhi ungavumeli ama-movie enze ubudlelwano bakho bothando bube nzima.