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- Uthando lwanele kangakanani?
- 1. Ukuxhumana
- 2. Ukuxhumana ngokomzimba
- 3. Impilo yocansi
- 4. Ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo
- 5. Ukuzimela
- 6. Ukuba nothando ngokweqile ekuqaleni kobudlelwano
- Ukwethembana, ukwethembeka nothando kwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile
Uthando lungacatshangwa njenge-thermometer esiza umuntu ukukala intshisekelo yomlingani.
Kodwa-ke, kunabanye abantu abanothando ngokwemvelo kunabanye. Ngakho-ke, lokho okubona njengokujwayelekile, uthando olunempilo kungabhekwa ngumlingani wakho njengokuthimula.
Uthando lubalulekile ukuze bonke ubudlelwano bukhule.
Liyitshe lokuthinta elibalulekile emibhangqwaneni eminingi, futhi aligcini ngezocansi. Kubandakanya ukubambana ngezandla, ukunikezana ukubhucungwa umzimba, ngisho nokuphonsa umlenze wakho phezu komlenze womlingani wakho ngenkathi niziphumulele kusofa futhi nibuka ibhayisikobho.
Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi kube nokukhonjiswa okwanele kothando ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Uthando lwanele kangakanani?
Yize kungekho bha engalinganisa ukuthi kungakanani ukujwayeleka kothando ebudlelwaneni, konke kuncike ekutheni yini enethezekayo kini nobabili. Kuyinto yomuntu ngamunye futhi iyahlukahluka kuye ngezithandani nezithandani.
Okungasebenzela umbhangqwana owodwa kungahle kunganeli omunye umbhangqwana.
Ayikho indinganiso yegolide, kepha uma omunye umlingani efuna ukuqabulana nokugonana ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenkathi omunye engakhululekile ngalelo zinga lokusondelana, lapho-ke kungenzeka kube nokungafani. Ngakho-ke uma ulungile ngezinga lothando, ngakho-ke konke kuhle.
Kodwa-ke, uma ungekho kufanele ukhulume nomlingani wakho.
Ungalithola kanjani izinga elijwayelekile lothando? Ngokusho kochwepheshe, izinto ezilandelayo zingakusiza -
1. Ukuxhumana
Kufanele ukwazi ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile nomlingani wakho ngezinto okhululekile ngazo.
Ukufundwa kwengqondo nokucabanga okuvame ukuholela emizweni elimele nasekuqondeni kabi.
Uma nikwazi ukukhuluma ngezinto enikhululeke ngazo, nozakwenu, khona-ke nobabili nizokuzwa nikhululeke ebudlelwaneni benu.
2. Ukuxhumana ngokomzimba
Ngabe uyamanga futhi uqabule umlingani wakho ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini? Ingabe kuyingxenye yenjwayelo yakho?
Ngokusho kochwepheshe imibhangqwana kufanele inikeze uthando ngezikhathi zokuthula zosuku. Uma ningabashadikazi ababambana ngezandla ngenkathi uhamba emgwaqweni, phakathi kwezifundo endaweni yokudlela, ngenkathi ubuka i-movie, noma uzama ukugcina ukuthintana ngokomzimba, lokho kukhombisa ukuthi unezinga elihle lokusondelana ngokomzimba ebudlelwaneni bakho.
3. Impilo yocansi
Abantu abahlukene banamashayela ocansi ahlukene futhi inani lezikhathi abantu abaya ngalo ocansini ngesonto liyahlukahluka kuye ngezithandani nezithandani. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi izidingo zakho zenziwe.
Ucansi luvame ukubhekwa njengento esingahamba kalula ngaphandle kwayo, kepha uthando nobulili kuyindlela yokubonisa uthando nobuciko futhi kufanele ivezwe ngokuphelele.
Uma unempilo eyanelisekile kwezocansi nomlingani wakho, khona-ke usezingeni elihle lothando.
4. Ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo
Uma ungatholi uthando olwanele ebuhlotsheni bakho uyalulangazelela, uzizwa unesidingo ngokomzimba. Ngokusho kochwepheshe abantu banesidingo esikhulu sokuxhumana nabantu nokuthinta okungajwayelekile ukuhlangatshezwa.
Uma weneliseka ngezinga lokuthinta ebudlelwaneni bakho, lokhu kusho ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho nenza okuthile ngokulungile.
5. Ukuzimela
Imibhangqwana enokusondelana okwanele ngokomzimba ebudlelwaneni bayo ijwayele ukukhululeka futhi ikhululeke nabalingani bayo. Bazizwa bekhululekile ukuveza imibono yabo, ukwenza amahlaya, ukuthembeka, ukuhlala ujuluke usuku lonke, futhi babe yibo uqobo.
Uma ukuthinta umlingani wakho uzizwa ucishe equlekile kusho ukuthi kuwuphawu lokuthi kuhlanganisiwe ebudlelwaneni bakho.
6. Ukuba nothando ngokweqile ekuqaleni kobudlelwano
Uthando lomzimba yilokho okuhlukanisa ubudlelwano be-platonic nobusondelene.
Kuyingxenye ebalulekile yesibalo eletha abantu ndawonye nemingcele enempilo, ukwethembana nezingxoxo eziqotho.
Kepha ukuthanda kakhulu ekuqaleni kobudlelwano akusona isibonakaliso esihle. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi imibhangqwana ethandana ngokweqile ngokwemvelo kusukela ekuqaleni kobudlelwano bayo maningi amathuba okuthola isehlukaniso kunemibhangqwana ekhombisa uthando olujwayelekile komunye nomunye.
Kuliqiniso eliqondakala kahle ukuthi ukuthanda ngokweqile kuyisibonakaliso sokukhokha ngokweqile ngokuntula ukwethembana noma ukuxhumana. Kunzima ngempela ukugcina ubuhlobo obunjalo.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi intshisekelo ife ebudlelwaneni ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho.
Kodwa-ke, uma ukhokha ngokweqile kusukela ekuqaleni, kuyisibonakaliso esiqinisekile sokuthi ubudlelwano bakho abuzohlala isikhathi eside.
Ukwethembana, ukwethembeka nothando kwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile
Ubudlelwano obuhle, obunothando, obuqinile bakhelwe ekwethembaneni, ekwethembekeni nasothandweni.
Kodwa uthando alwanele ngokwalo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, wonke umuntu unamazinga akhe othando abakhululekile ngawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubudlelwane abudingi uthando kuphela ukuze buqhubeke.
Kunezinye izinto ezinjengokwethembeka, ukubambisana, ukuxhumana nokwethembana okugcina ubuhlobo.