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- 1. Mema uNkulunkulu empilweni yakho
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- 2. Yiba yisixazululo
- 3. Yenza impilo yabo ibe ngcono
- 4. Ungayeki ukuzama
Ungazizwa sengathi uhambelana kahle nomlingani wakho nokuthi izinto zilungile, kepha futhi ungaba nesikhathi lapho kufanele ucabangele ukuthi ungawusindisa kanjani umshado esahlukanisweni.
Lokhu akuyona into ofuna ukuyithatha njengenketho, kepha uma ukwazi ukusho ukuthi 'lena indlela engiwusindise ngayo umshado wami esehlukanisweni' kuzokuqinisa kuphela njengabantu abashadile.
Futhi, ungalokothi ube nalokhu kungabaza engqondweni yakho, ‘sekwephuze kakhulu ukusindisa umshado wami?’ Eqinisweni, akukaze kwephuze kakhulu. Ungasesha kwi-Intanethi ukuthola 'izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokusindisa umshado wami esehlukanisweni.'
Kholwa noma ungakukholwa, kungaba yindaba yokuthola umbono nokuthola ugqozi kusuka phezulu. Yilapho ukuphendukela emandleni 'omkhuleko wokusindisa umshado wami,' futhi ukufuna izindlela zokwenza umlingani wakho ajabule kungenza umehluko emhlabeni!
Uma ufana nami, khona-ke uyazi ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi umshado ungaba nzima. Ungaba yizithandani ezihamba phambili ephepheni futhi ungahle ube nezinkinga njenganoma imuphi omunye umbhangqwana. Kepha uma uzinikele enkambisweni futhi ufuna ukwenza umshado wakho usebenze, kuzofanela ushintshe leso simo sengqondo.
Kumane nje kuyindaba yokuthi isehlukaniso akuyona inketho.
Ngakho-ke zinikele futhi uthi ngizowusindisa umshado wami futhi ngenze lo msebenzi usebenze. Yebo, ungakwenza, noma ungahle ucasuke noma ukhungatheke endleleni ngezinye izikhathi futhi lokho kulungile!
Uma uzizwa sengathi udinga ugqozi noma ugqozi, nazi ezinye izindlela zokusindisa umshado esahlukanisweni engincoma kakhulu ukuthi usibheke.
Ungawusindisa kanjani umshado esahlukweni
1. Mema uNkulunkulu empilweni yakho
Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele unikele konke kuNkulunkulu. Kunamandla amakhulu emthandazweni futhi kungakusiza impela ukukulandela.
Uma uzizwa sengathi ushaye udonga lwezitini, noma udonsa kanzima emshadweni wakho, lokhu kungaba yindlela yakho enhle kakhulu. Ungahle uthukuthele futhi ungazibuza ukuthi kungani uNkulunkulu ekubeke kulo mshado onezinkinga, kodwa esithombeni esikhulu, umthandazo wakho ungakusiza.
Mema uNkulunkulu angene futhi uzothola ukuthi uyakwazi ukusho, njengami, ukuthi le yindlela engiwusindise ngayo umshado wami esehlukanisweni. Lapho konke okunye kwehluleka, kunikeze uNkulunkulu bese uthandazela usizo lwakhe. Lokhu kungenza umehluko emhlabeni futhi kukusize impela ukuthi uthole ukucaciseleka ukuze uhambe ngendlela efanele.
Ukuthandaza kungakugcina uzolile.
Futhi, ukukhuluma noNkulunkulu kukusiza ukuthi ubone ukuthi yisiphi isinyathelo esilandelayo okufanele sibe yiso sokubuyisela izinto emgqeni unomphela.
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2. Yiba yisixazululo
Impela, oshade naye mhlawumbe unamaphutha abo, kepha ekugcineni lokhu kumayelana nokuzithuthukisa. Ngiyazi ukuthi mhlawumbe umelana nomqondo wokuthi uyingxenye yenkinga, kodwa sonke sinecala lalokhu ngokwezinga elithile.
Ngenkathi ngichitha isikhathi esiningi ngihlala kulokho okwakwenziwa ngumuntu engishade naye, bengingagxili kakhulu emaphutheni engangiletha wona etafuleni.
Ngazifaka emqondweni wabo ngase ngikucubungula kahle engangikwenza okwenza ukuthi umshado ubhidlike.
Bekuhlangene kakhulu nokuhlonza izindawo zami ezinkulu ezinenkinga, ukumisa umdlalo wokusolwa, bese ngithatha isinqumo sokuthi ngizolungisa izingqinamba ebengizifaka ebezibeka engcupheni umshado wethu ojabulisayo.
Uma kufanele ugcine umshado esahlukanisweni, kufanele uqale ukugxila ezinkingeni zomshado futhi uthole izixazululo ezifanele zokubhekana nazo.
3. Yenza impilo yabo ibe ngcono
Yebo, oshade naye kufanele akwenzele lokhu futhi uzomangala ukuthi bazokwenza lapho uqala ukugxila kakhulu kubo. Qala ukubuza ukuthi ungenzani ukuze wenze impilo yabo ibe ngcono.
Qala ukucabanga ngezindlela zokuxazulula izinkinga futhi ubekhona ngokwengeziwe, ngaleyo ndlela unakekele izidingo zabo. Uzobona ukuthi ngokwemvelo bafuna ukuphindisela ngoba bayabona ukuthi uyakhathala futhi wenza umzamo.
Ngokusebenzela ukwenza owakwami ajabule, kwangijabulisa futhi konke lokhu kuyingxenye enkulu yokuthi ngiwusindise kanjani umshado wami. Konke kumayelana nokuba ngulowo oshade naye obehlose ukuba njalo futhi ufunde nokwenza impilo yabo ibe ngcono.
Yebo, ufanelwe into efanayo, futhi uzothola lokho lapho bebona ukuthi unendaba kakhulu. Ngakho-ke kungumjikelezo omuhle onizuzisa ngempela nobabili!
Bheka izithombe zakho zomshado futhi. Uma ulinde isikhathi lapho ungasho ngokuziqhenya ukuthi umcabango wesahlukaniso usindise umshado wami, khona-ke umane ubambe umhlanga wokugcina ungenalutho.
Nguwe ongasebenzela ekutholeni izindlela zokonga umshado wakho.
4. Ungayeki ukuzama
Ngokwami, nginqume ukungalokothi ngiyeke ukuzama. Nginqume ukuthi ngiboshiwe futhi ngizimisele ukujabulisa umuntu engishade naye, ngakho-ke ngosizo lukaNkulunkulu, ngalwenza uhlelo lwami nenhloso yami. Kunezinsuku ezinhle nezimbi, kepha sikulokhu sindawonye futhi angisoze ngayeka ukuzama.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, anginakulindela ukuthi ingelosi yehle ivela ezulwini futhi isindise umshado wami esehlukanisweni. Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, kufanele uqhubeke uzama futhi uthole izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuthi ungawusindisa kanjani umshado wakho ngaphambi kokuba uqhekeke.
Ngizohlala ngisebenza ukujabulisa abanye. Ngakho-ke, ngiyazi ukuthi ngokubambisana singabekezela ngamandla omkhuleko kanye nogqozi lweqiniso lokwenza omunye nomunye ajabule — futhi yileyo ndlela engawusindisa ngayo umshado wami esahlukanisweni unomphela futhi nawe ungakwenza!