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- 1. Isikhathi sakho
- 2. Ukuphepha nokuvikeleka
- 3. Lalela futhi uqonde
- 4. Dala izinkumbulo
- 5. Isikhathi 'esithile' sami
- Uthando alukho ngosuku olulodwa nje
Usuku lukaValentine selusondele futhi uyawazi umkhuba.
Mnike izimbali, umkhiphele isidlo sakusihlwa, umnike ubucwebe bese ebiza usuku. Kodwa ingabe kufanele ngempela kube njalo? Ikakhulukazi, lapho ungenza okuningi futhi umenze azizwe ethandwa futhi enakekelwa!
Nazi izindlela ezinhlanu zokukhombisa uthando lwakho ngomkakho othandekayo futhi uvule iqabunga elisha.
1. Isikhathi sakho
Uhlelo lwakho, umsebenzi, nezinsuku zakho zokugcina kuyaqondakala.
Uma kunguwena wedwa ondlayo emndenini, kunzima kakhulu kuwe ukuthi uziphilise futhi ngenxa yalokho, ubeka umzamo ophindwe kabili kungekho nesikhathi esiningi sokuchitha umndeni wakho nawe.
Lolu suku luka-Valentine, ngaphandle kokuthola izimbali zakhe, qinisekisa ukuthi ucisha iselula yakho futhi ubone impilo yakho idlula izaziso.
Ngokuqinisekile angakuthokozela ukuhambahamba nawe kusihlwa kunosuku lokudla kwakusihlwa lapho uchitha khona isigamu sesikhathi ubuka iselula yakho.
2. Ukuphepha nokuvikeleka
Ukuphila njengamanje kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze uhlale ujabule.
Noma kunjalo, akusikhokhi isidingo sokuphepha. Udinga isithembiso sokuphepha nokuphepha kwakhe nezingane zakhe esicini ngasinye kungaba ngokwezimali, ngokomzimba noma nangokomzwelo.
Lokhu akuyona into okufanele ngabe uyayenza nge-V-Day kuphela, kepha ungaphinda isithembiso sakho kuye ngalolu suku.
3. Lalela futhi uqonde
Lokhu kungaba yisisekelo sobudlelwano obunempilo futhi obujabulisayo.
Imvamisa, sihlangana nezinto zocansi nezokweyisa ezigoqwe ngendlela yamahlaya, sihlekisa ngabesifazane ngokuthi bahleba futhi baxoxe kanjani. Kodwa-ke, ababaningi bethu abazihluphayo ngokulalela futhi bakudlulise lokhu njengombhedo nje.
Lolu suku luka-Valentine, ukuze ushintshe, lalela bese uzama ukuqonda ukwesaba kwakhe, ukungaqiniseki, nokukhathazeka kwakhe. Mbuze ngomsebenzi wakhe, izinto azithandayo nokuthi kukhona yini okumkhathazayo. Mhlawumbe akazethembi ngekusasa lakhe lobuchwepheshe noma mhlawumbe ufuna ukuba ngusomabhizinisi. Mnike ithuba lokuthi akuvulele isifuba.
4. Dala izinkumbulo
Mnikeze izinkumbulo angazikhohlwa futhi umbonise isikhathi esihle. Khuluma naye, umlalele, ubuke i-movie yakhe ayithandayo bese umphekela.
Yenza lolu suku ngaye futhi udale ezinye izinkumbulo ayohlala ezazisa.
5. Isikhathi 'esithile' sami
Uyazi ukuthi kungaba nzima kanjani ukuthola isikhathi wedwa uma usebenza, unezingane ekhaya noma uhlala emndenini ohlangene.
Manje, zicabange usesicathulweni sakhe. Ngemuva kokukhandleka kanzima emsebenzini, kufanele athole okuthengwayo bese epheka futhi. Akunakwenzeka ukumnika impilo ngqo ngaphambi komshado, kepha impela ungazama ukumnika isikhala nesikhathi 'sami'.
Uma unezingane, cela ogogo nomkhulu ukuthi bazinakekele ngezimpelasonto. Ungazama futhi ukugcina ibhalansi yempilo yokusebenza futhi esikhundleni sokuphuma nabangani bakho uye ephathini yobhiya njalo ngoLwesihlanu, ungamsiza ekhishini. Ungashintshana futhi ngokuhlela ukudla nokuningi.
Lezi zenzo zomzimba ezincane zisho lukhulu futhi zingaholela othandweni oluningi oluvela kuye.
Uthando alukho ngosuku olulodwa nje
Zonke lezi zenzo zomzimba zizokutshela into eyodwa noma ezimbili ngokuthanda uhhafu wakho ongcono.
Uthando alukho usuku olulodwa nje. Kungumsebenzi we-24/7.
Ubudlelwano bakheka lapho nobabili nibandakanyeka ngenkuthalo futhi nakanjani akusho ukuthi, ukugeza ngezimbali nobucwebe bakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Uthando lukhulu kakhulu kunokugcwalisa izidingo zezinto ezibonakalayo.
Kuqiniswa ngamazwi, ukuthinta, nokushukuma komzimba. Ungamniki isizathu sokukucasukela wena noma ubuhlobo bakho. Lolu suku lwezithandani, phendula amatafula ngenxa yothando. Kwenze kube yisikhathi lapho ufunga khona ukuthi uzomnakekela, umthande futhi umumangaze ngezimbali nezipho unomphela.
Nakhu ukusayina ufisa ukuthi ugcine ilangabi lothando nezothando lishisa impilo yakho yonke.