-Delile
- Ukuqala, yazi ukuthi lokhu kuvamile
- Ezinye izinto ezilula ukuzama
- Yenza imisebenzi ndawonye
- Beka amagama kulokho obukuthatha kalula
- Khulisa izinhlansi zokulala
- Isipho sendawo
Ngabe seniphenduke “lowo mbhangqwana oshadile”?
Uyazi, lowo onesimiso esihleliwe kangangokuba kunezimanga zero ezisele ongazithola? Uyasebenza, ufika ekhaya, ulungisa isidlo sakusihlwa futhi nidle ndawonye, bese nithatha umhlalaphansi niya emisebenzini yenu ehlukene kusihlwa, bese niyolala kuphela, nivuke nikwenze kaninginingi?
Ungavumeli isithukuthezi nokuphindaphinda kuthinte umshado wakho.
Cabanga emuva eminyakeni yakho yokuthandana. Bekuhlale kunento entsha engazama, indawo yokudlela entsha noma iklabhu ukuthola. Oshade naye ubenamahlaya amnandi kakhulu futhi bekuyimpilo yephathi. Benihleka kalula futhi kaningi nihlangene.
Ufuna ukuthola okunye kwalokhu kungazenzisi nokuhleka emuva? Qhubeka ufunde!
Ukuqala, yazi ukuthi lokhu kuvamile
Bonke ubudlelwano besikhathi eside bungawela enkingeni.
Kujwayelekile impela ukuba nalezi zikhathi lapho konke kubonakala kufana. Akusho ukuthi umshado wakho usuphelile. Ukungeza izinongo eziningi nobumnandi akunzima, kepha kudinga ukuthi nobabili nibe ekhasini elilodwa. Ngakho-ke khuluma ngesimo.
Qiniseka ukuthi nobabili nitshale imali ekukhuphuleni izinga lenjabulo nobumnandi ebudlelwaneni benu.
Uma ngabe kuphela omunye wenu ozimisele ukwenza lo msebenzi, lowo muntu uzozizwa enenzondo. Lokhu kwehlula inhloso yokuzivocavoca, ngakho-ke khulumani futhi niziqinisekise ukuthi nobabili nilangazelele ukwenza ukuthuthuka okudingekayo ukuze niphume ekugayeni kwenu kwansuku zonke.
Ezinye izinto ezilula ukuzama
Ngabe uya njalo endaweni yokudlela efanayo, ngoba nje ilungile futhi ilula?
Veza okuthe xaxa ngokuqhubekayo. Khuluma nombuthano wakho wezenhlalo noma funda ezinye izibuyekezo eziku-inthanethi ukukhomba indawo yokudlela engajwayelekile. Yenza ubusuku bosuku ngalo, ngomzamo wokungena engutsheni yakho, izinwele kanye nezimonyo (zomfazi) kanye nesudi, ikholomu nezicathulo ezinhle (zomyeni).
Khumbula ukuthi ugqoke ngokucophelela kanjani usuku lwakho lokuqala? Yenza okufanayo manje, noma ngabe lolu usuku lwakho lwama-200.
Olunye ushintsho olulula kuyimpelasonto yokubalekela ngokuzenzakalela iye endaweni eningakaze nibe kuyo ngaphambili. Akudingeki ukuthi ibe yinoma yini ezophuca ibhange. Hlola isivumelwano sephakethe eshibhile bese usibamba. Noma ngabe leyo ndawo ibingekho kuhlu lwakho lwamabhakede, iya lapho vele.
Konke ngokuthola okuthile okungaziwa ngesifiso.
Lokhu kuzodonsa umoya-mpilo emshadweni wakho.
Yenza imisebenzi ndawonye
Uma ufana nemibhangqwana eminingi, uhlukanisa imisebenzi ucabanga ukuthi izokwenza umsebenzi uhambe ngokushesha. Kungani ungakwenzi lokhu njengeqembu?
Ngoba amandla akho aphindwe kabili, umsebenzi uzoshesha ukwenziwa, futhi ukwenza lokhu ndawonye kuzoba yinto entsha. Ngeza kulengxube ezinye ama-anecdotes ahlekisayo avela emsebenzini futhi unonge umsebenzi owejwayelekile-ube yigolide yamahlaya.
Beka amagama kulokho obukuthatha kalula
Senibe ndawonye isikhathi eside futhi nizizwa sengathi asikho isidingo sokuveza uthando lwenu olujulile, ukuncoma noma ukubonga ngomlingani wakho. Vele, bayazi, akunjalo? Qagela futhi.
Kungumuzwa owanelisa ngokumangalisayo ukuzwa oshade naye ekutshela hhayi kuphela ukuthi uyakuthanda, kodwa nokuthi kungani ekuthanda.
Khumbula lezo zingxoxo zokuqomisana, lapho ubhala konke obukuthanda ngomlingani wakho, kuze kufike endleleni abacindezela ngayo izibuko zabo phezulu emakhaleni abo lapho benza iphuzu elibalulekile? Kwenze futhi.
Veza uthando lwakho ngqo. I- "Ngiyakuthanda" kungenzeka ukuthi ilahlekelwe yisibhakela sayo esincane, kepha uma ilandelwa ngu “ngoba uyathandeka kakhulu kulezo zincephe zonogwaja” kuzoletha ukuhleka endlini.
Khulisa izinhlansi zokulala
Imibhangqwana yesikhathi eside ingathola umuzwa wendlela ejwayelekile phakathi kwamashidi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, umazi kahle umlingani wakho. Uyazi ukuthi yini ebavulelayo nokuthi bathanda ini nokuthi ungabenza kanjani bafinyelele kuvuthondaba ngokushesha. Lokhu kungaba yinkinga, noma kunjalo, ngoba ingxenye yobumnandi bezocansi ezinhle ukungalindelwa kwayo.
Cabanga kabusha ngokwenza kwakho uthando.
Ulandela iphethini, uyixube noma uyilahle ngewindi. Faka ezinye izinto ezintsha, njengokulingisa, amathoyizi, iphupho, kanye nanoma imuphi umkhuba wezocansi ovunyelwe futhi owamukelwa ngokuzithandela. Ungagcina usubona uhlangothi oluhluke ngokuphelele kumlingani wakho, olusha noluthokozisayo.
Isipho sendawo
Indlela eqinisekile yokusiza ukuphuma ebuhlotsheni bobudlelwano ukuhlinzekana ngesikhala. Kuyaphikisana, kepha ukuthatha isikhathi kude komunye nomunye kungasiza ekwandiseni umuzwa wakho wokusondelana.
Ngakho-ke nikezanani ithuba lokuphuthelana ngokulandela umdlalo wokuzilibazisa ohlukile noma ukuzijabulisa. Asiphakamisi amaholide ahlukile unyaka nonyaka, kepha mhlawumbe impelasonto ehlukile ngezikhathi ezithile nakusihlwa lapho nobabili nizenzela khona izinto zenu.
Uma nibuya ndawonye, qiniseka ukuthi wabelane ngalokho okubonile nokutholile ukuze umlingani wakho ajabule ngolwazi lwakho, futhi. Lokhu kungukuzivocavoca okwanelisa ngokukhethekile uma usebenzisa isikhathi sakho wedwa ukwenza okuthile okuyinselelo enkulu, njengokuqeqeshelwa imarathon noma ukuthatha umdlalo oweqisayo.
Umlingani wakho uzokubuka ngokwazisa okugcwele lapho ebona lokho okufezayo.