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- Kungani kumnandi ukuphemba umlilo wobudlelwano
- Izinhloso zobudlelwano obuhlekisayo nekusasa lakho
- Umehluko phakathi kwezinhloso zobudlelwano obuhlekisayo nobumnandi
Akuvamile ukuthi umuntu athandane futhi abe nohlelo oluningiliziwe lokuthi uzokuchitha kanjani impilo yakhe yonke naloyo muntu. Ngaphandle kokuthi uwuhlobo lwe-stalker olukhathazayo, inhlansi eziningi zothando ziyinto yokubabaza nokukhanuka (kwesinye isikhathi notshwala) okuxubene ndawonye.
Okuningi kubandakanya ukucabanga ukuthi kungasetshenziswa kanjani ukuchitha isikhathi nalowo muntu. Akunandaba ukuthi kuvela njengenganekwane eyodwa noma ubudlelwano obunenjongo; isidingo sobumnandi asipheli.
Lo mbhalo wethula ukuhlukaniswa uhlu lwezinhloso zobudlelwano lokho kungakusiza ugcine izinto zithakazelisa.
Kungani kumnandi ukuphemba umlilo wobudlelwano
Uma umbhangqwana uphelela ebudlelwaneni obuthile, noma ngabe kuhileleke uthando, isilinganiso esithile sobumnandi sidinga ukuba lapho. Imibhangqwana eminingi yesikhathi eside iyahlukana ngoba ubumnandi buphelile ebudlelwaneni. Yingakho uma kukhona uhlu lwezinhloso zobudlelwano, iningi lalo kufanele lifake ukuzijabulisa okuningi.
Izinhloso zobudlelwano ezihlekisayo akusoze ukuchitha isikhathi. Noma ubudlelwano, umshado, kanye namandla omndeni kuyibhizinisi elibucayi, akusona isizathu esenza ukuthi yonke le nqubo ingabi mnandi.
Ibhizinisi elibucayi, elihlobene nezothando noma okunye, kungumsebenzi ocindezelayo. Ukucindezeleka kungumngane omubi; kuhlale kuza ephathini nabanye abangane babo ababi njengezinkinga zempilo nezengqondo.
Ukuzijabulisa ukuphela kwendlela yangempela yokugcina ukucindezeleka kude; labo bobabili bayazondana futhi kuyaqabukela endaweni eyodwa ngaphandle kwalapho besebenzisa izidakamizwa ezingavunyelwe.
Ngakho-ke uma usebudlelwaneni futhi ufuna ukuthi igcwale ubumnandi noma ukucindezeleka, lokho kungukukhetha kwakho. Abantu abaningi abanengqondo bangakhetha ukuzijabulisa, kepha futhi, akubona bonke abantu abanengqondo. Kunenqwaba yama-masochists laphaya.
Ngakho-ke engeza ubumnandi kukho konke, yebo ngokoqobo konke. Uma uyi-asswipe elukhuni, enesicefe, leyo inkinga yakho. Kepha ubumnandi bungobokuzithoba, okujabulisa izithandani ezifundisayo ezinomqondo kungenzeka kungafani nakubantu abacebile abonakele abaphila esikhwameni sethemba.
Ngakho-ke hlela izinhloso zakho zobudlelwano obumnandi nencazelo yakho yobumnandi engqondweni. Okubi kakhulu okungenzeka ukuthi akumnandi njengoba ubuthemba ukuthi kuzoba njalo, futhi lokho akuzwakali kubi kakhulu.
Izinhloso zobudlelwano obujabulisayo ziyajabulisa kusuka ebhodini lokudweba kuze kube impumelelo. Yilolu hlobo olugcina uthando luvutha. Ngisho ucansi alubalulekile uma lungemnandi.
Izinhloso zobudlelwano obuhlekisayo nekusasa lakho
Zimbili kuphela izinhlobo zabantu ezibona ikusasa elingamthokozisi - labo abayiziphukuphuku ezihlanyayo neziziphukuphuku ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke uma uhlela ikusasa lakho elizophela osizini, ungomunye noma omunye noma nina nobabili.
Faka phakathi izinhloso zobudlelwano be-goofy ohlelweni lwakho lwempilo. Ukuba nokuthile okuhlekisayo ongakulindela empilweni akukaze kube yinto embi. Qiniseka ukuthi akubandakanyi ukuqamba ingane yakho ngokuthi i-Airwrecka noma iGaylord.
Isithombe esiphakanyisiwe lapha
Okuthile njengokundiza ku-Angel yaseVenezuela kuwela usebenzisa indlu enikwe amandla ibhaluni kungazwakala kuyisilima, kepha okuthile kulelo zinga kuyajabulisa ngempela. Okungenani, kuyisiqeshana sengxoxo esijabulisayo sabashadikazi.
Okuthile okungokoqobo njengokulingisa usuku lwakho lokuqala kwisikhumbuzo seminyaka engu-50 kungathakazelisa.
Ukuthatha usuku lwakho lokuqala alukho kudrive-through cinema nasesihlalweni esibuya esihlalweni semoto sikanyoko. Izinsuku eziningi zokuqala kungenzeka zisalingiswa. Ukuhlela ukuyisondeza ngangokunokwenzeka kuyingxenye yobumnandi.
Uma kwenzeka uzibuza ukuthi kungani leso simo singenakwenzeka kulezi zinsuku:
- Iningi labantu alazi nokuthi yini idrayivu edlula nge-cinema.
- Imibhangqwana eshade iminyaka engama-50 cishe izokuthola kuyinselele ngokomzimba ukugoqa esihlalweni esingemuva evenini
- Ukuboleka i-minivan kumama wakho uma ususeminyakeni yama-70s kushiya kakhulu ongakufisa.
Ngaphandle kokuthi ugcine iveni futhi usenayo isesimweni esihle sokusebenza, uma kunjalo, kudos kuwe!
Kepha kunokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ngakho konke ukuzidela kwemithwalo yemfanelo yomshado nokukhulisa izingane. Ungahlala uzama iSusan Boyle futhi inhlolokhono ye- {Somewhere Simon is a Judge} ithole ithalente.
Ungalindeli ukuwina, kepha ukuba lapho nje ubumnandi yinto enhle ongayithola eminyakeni yokugcina yempilo yakho. Uhla lwamabhakede lwemibhangqwana kuwumqondo omuhle. Ukuba nokuthile okujabulisayo ukubheka phambili kungenye yezindlela zokuqhubeka nokuvuka ekuseni ohlangothini lwesokudla lombhede.
Akunandaba ukuthi iyiphi inkambo yakho yomsebenzi, uma usebenze iminyaka engama-50 futhi uthathe umhlalaphansi ngemuva kokunikeza inkampani iminyaka engcono kakhulu yempilo yakho. Noma usomabhizinisi ozisebenzelayo ongakaze enze okungaphezu kwesisebenzi esijwayelekile.
Ukuba nokuthile ekugcineni kwayo kufanele kukwenze uzuze konke. Qaphela ukuthi angishongo ukuthi ngabe ugcine ungumuntu ophumelele uber. Abantu abanjalo abadingi uhlu lwamabhakede; bangakwazi ukuqoqa futhi bakwenze.
Okukodwa kwe izinto ezinhle kakhuluinkululeko yezimali enikeza inkululeko yangempela - amandla okudebeselela imithwalo yemfanelo isikhashana futhi abe nomthelela omncane empilweni yabo. Ungaba kanjani umuntu onjalo kungenye yesihloko ngokuphelele.
Umehluko phakathi kwezinhloso zobudlelwano obuhlekisayo nobumnandi
Ngoba nje into ethile imnandi lokho akusho ukuthi kuyahlekisa. Amahlaya ngenxa yamahlaya ayahlekisa. Ubumnandi abuchazeki. Ukudubula izibhamu kulokho okubhekiswe ephepheni ngesibhamu somshini, noma ukweqa ibhuloho eliboshwe ngentambo entwasahlobo, kungaba yinto ejabulisayo kwabanye abantu, kepha akukho lutho oluhlekisayo ngakho.
Ngasohlangothini lwe-flip, ama-stand-up akhuluma ngoMongameli Trump nawo angahlekisa, kepha kungahle kungabi mnandi kwilungu eliphethe ikhadi le-NRA ezilalelini. Uma egcina enza incazelo yakhe yobumnandi, isimo-ke singahle singagcini sijabulise noma sihlekise noma ngubani.
Izinhloso zobudlelwano ezihlekisayo kukhona uhlu lwamabhakede ngenhloso yokuhlekisa. Okuthile njengokuhamba nosuku epaki lokuzijabulisa ukuze udlale yonke imidlalo efanelekile kungenye ye imigomo emihle kakhulu. Akukona ezingeni lokugoqa yonke ifenisha endlini, kepha lokho kuyabheda kunokuhlekisa.