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- Yini eyenza abantu bafune ukuthola isehlukaniso
- Kungani ufuna ukuthola isehlukaniso?
- Phinda uhlole imizwa yakho
- Khulumisanani!
- Thola umbono wochwepheshe
- Izimo Ezimbi Kakhulu
Umshado uyisibopho esihle kakhulu futhi esingcwele. Ihlanganisa abantu ababili ebunyeni abangaqhathaniswa nomunye. Lokhu akuyona into ozalelwe kuyo, kuyinto ozikhethela yona. Ukwakhiwa ngothando, ukuzinikela nesifiso kungenye yobudlelwano obuthandwa kakhulu ukuba khona.
Njenganoma yibuphi nje obunye ubuhlobo, umshado awukhululekile ezihlahleni nasebunzimeni bawo. Lokhu kungokwemvelo kubantu kuphela. Thembeka ngokuphelele kuwe, ubungeke yini ukhungathekiswe kancane ukube yonke into ibilungile futhi inesidumo ngaso sonke isikhathi?
Lokhu kwehla nokwenyuka kuyadingeka ngempela ukuze ubudlelwano buqhubekele phambili futhi bukhule bube yinto enamandla futhi enhle kakhulu. Kukusiza ufunde kabanzi ngomunye nomunye futhi kukwenza uqaphele ukuthi umthanda futhi umdinga kangakanani omunye umuntu empilweni yakho.
Kodwa-ke, kunezikhathi lapho kungafani nalokho. Izikhathi lapho ubuza ukuthi ngabe uthathe isinqumo esifanele ngokwakha lobu budlelwano. Lezi yizikhathi lapho abanye baze bacabange nokuhlukanisa.
Yini eyenza abantu bafune ukuthola isehlukaniso
Yize isehlukaniso singeyona into enhle kunoma ngubani sekuvame kakhulu emiphakathini yethu. Kuletha imizwa okungekho muntu ofuna ukudlula kuyo. Ubuhlungu, ukuzisola, ukulimala, ukwesaba, ukungavikeleki, yonke le mizwa nakanjani izofika nesehlukaniso ngokuqina okuhlukahlukene.
Ngakho-ke, yini eyenza abantu bafune ukuthola isehlukaniso futhi kufanele yini ukuthi uthole isehlukaniso noma cha?
Kungani ufuna ukuthola isehlukaniso?
Zibuze. Hlala phansi ucabange ukuthi ufuna ngempela yini isehlukaniso. Cabanga ngazo zonke izinto ezikuphoqa ukuthi ucabange ngesehlukaniso bese uzibhala phansi. Manje zibuze ukuthi ingabe lezi zinto ozibhale phansi empeleni ziyinto ozohlukanisa ngayo?
Manje cabanga ngazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngomlingani wakho. Izinto ezikwenze wafuna ukuchitha impilo yakho yonke unabo. Ngabe lezo zinto azinendaba kangako ngokwazi kwakho? Ingabe lezo zinto sezinyamalale ngokuphelele? Ngabe umlingani wakho akahlali ngumuntu owashada naye?
Cabanga ngazo zonke lezi zinto ngengqondo ehluzekile. Ngokuphelele nangokufanele. Uma ngemuva kwakho konke lokho ufinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi okubi kudlula okuhle, khona-ke kufanele ubheke okuthile okunzima kangako.
Phinda uhlole imizwa yakho
Buyela emuva lapho kuqale khona konke. Buyela emuva esikhathini lapho wanquma ukuchitha impilo yakho nalo muntu. Yini eyayihluke kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi? Awusakuthandi yini umlingani wakho? Ingabe imizwa yakho ishintshile? Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungachitha impilo yakho ngaphandle kwabo?
Uma udidekile ngempela, zama ukuthatha isikhathi sihlukaniswe. Ukuba nesikhala esithile kungakusiza ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi yini oyilahlekile nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Kungakwenza futhi ucabange ngekhanda elicacile. Lapho uzungezwe abantu, wonke umuntu unombono ohlukile, futhi ngamunye angazwakala ephoqelela ngokulinganayo.
Kodwa-ke, kuwe isikhathi sakho wedwa cabanga ngobudlelwano bakho futhi ulalele okushiwo yinhliziyo yakho.
Khulumisanani!
Vele ukhulume nomunye. Tshela umlingani wakho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani futhi ulalele ukuthi nabo bazizwa kanjani. Khuluma ngezinkinga zakho ngendlela yomphakathi. Uma kunzima ukwenza kanjalo, vakashela ikhansela. Ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe kuhlale kungumqondo omuhle.
Mhlawumbe izinto empeleni azizimbi njengoba zibukeka. Mhlawumbe izinto zisengalunga. Mhlawumbe ukungabikho kokuxhumana okubangela izinkinga eziningi! Zama ukucabangela lezi zinto ngaphambi kokwenza isinqumo sokugcina.
Thola umbono wochwepheshe
Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, khuluma nomkhandlu womshado. Hlanganyela nabo izinkinga zakho. Cishe bazokwazi ukuphakamisa isenzo esingcono.
Izimo Ezimbi Kakhulu
Ngenkathi isehlukaniso siyinqubo ebuhlungu kunezikhathi lapho ukuhlala emshadweni kulimaza kakhulu. Lezi ngezinye zezimo ezimbi kakhulu. Isibonelo, uma umlingani wakho ekuhlukumeza futhi ekucindezela ngakho kuyingozi ukuhlala kubudlelwano.
Ngokufanayo, uma umlingani wakho ehileleka ebudlelwaneni obungaphandle komshado wakho, naphezu kokuxolelwa kaninginingi. Lesi ngesinye isimo esingadinga ukwehlukana ngoba akulimazi ukuzethemba kwakho kuphela kepha nempilo yakho yengqondo.
Umshado nakanjani awulula. Kunemihlatshelo eminingi kanye nokuyekethisa okwenziwa yizinhlangothi zombili. Lokhu kwesinye isikhathi kungacindezela kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kokuthi uthathe noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezinqala kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kungani wadala le bond.
Kwesinye isikhathi, isehlukaniso singabonakala njengokuwukuphela kwento enengqondo, kepha kufanele ume ucabange ukuthi ngabe ubuhlobo bakho bonakele ngempela yini. Cabanga kahle ngomshado wakho futhi uma ingekho neze indlela yokuwulungisa. Ungagijimeli kuwo.
Ekugcineni noma yini onquma ukuyenza khumbula nje ukuthi akudingeki uzifake ebuhlungwini nasosizini olungadingekile.