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- Izinhloso zobudlelwano bemibhangqwana ebucayi
- Ukuqondanisa imisebenzi
- Izidingo zomshado
- Uhlelo lwezemfundo
- Uhlelo lokukhula
- Yiba namaqiniso
- Sebenzela imigomo yezithandani zakho emuva
Ungakuthola kuhlekisa, kepha iningi labashadikazi ababizwa ngokungathi sína abanazo izinhloso zesikhathi eside kulokho abakufunayo ebudlelwaneni babo.
Abeluleki bemishado nabelaphi bezobudlelwano bayavuma ukuthi iphesenti elikhulu labashadikazi lihlangene ngoba nje liyathandana futhi lijabulela ukuba ndawonye. Akukho okunye okudlula lokho.
Ukushoda kwezinhloso zezithandani kungezinye zezizathu eziyisisekelo zesehlukaniso. Abesifazane abaningi banecala lokuthi inhloso yabo enkulu ebudlelwaneni ukumane bashade, ngenkathi amanye amadoda engajulile, bafuna amalungelo akhethekile emzimbeni womlingani wabo. Lokho kungakwanela ukuqala ubudlelwano, kepha ngeke kwanele ukubenza buqhubeke.
Izinhloso zobudlelwano bemibhangqwana ebucayi
Imigomo yehlukile emaphusheni.
Izinjongo ziyizinhloso ezinqunywe kusengaphambili ezigcwaliswe ngohlelo lokusebenza lokuthi ungazifinyelela kanjani. Amaphupho yinto eyenzekayo lapho ulele noma uvilapha kakhulu ukusebenza ezinhlosweni zakho - ngokufanayo kufana nokulala.
Imibhangqwana ebucayi inohlelo olusebenzayo nolungokoqobo lokuthi ungafinyelela kanjani ekugcineni kwezimpilo zabo ndawonye. Akugcini lapho beshada noma benza ucansi.
Lokho kumane kungumlando wobudlelwano, futhi kunokuningi okubaluleke kakhulu, njengokugubha iminyaka engama-50 noma ukuphothula iziqu kwaseKolishi kwengane yabo encane.
Lezi izinhloso zobudlelwano zemibhangqwana ezimisele ngokukuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo ngokudlula ngocansi olukhulu ndawonye.
Ukuqondanisa imisebenzi
Uma omunye wabalingani efuna ukuba yisosha lomsebenzi futhi ezonikezwa ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomhlaba ngenxa yohlobo lomsebenzi, kanti omunye ufuna uthango olumhlophe lwamapikhethi edolobheni elincane ngenkathi eqhuba ibhizinisi elincane lokubhaka kulungile. Kepha qonda ukuthi ngokwenza njalo, bazosebenzisa iningi lobudlelwano babo behlukene.
Uma omunye noma omunye enenkinga ngalokho, khona-ke umuntu kufanele anikeze.
Izidingo zomshado
Kulula ukushada, Iya eVegas futhi ukwenze ngehora. Uma ungafuni ukuya eVegas, ihholo ledolobha lasendaweni lingakwenza lishibhile. Kepha akulona iphuzu lelo, ezinye izinto kufanele zibekhona ngaphambi kokuba izithandani zikhulume ngokubopha ifindo.
Nalu uhlu olungakhethi.
- Indlu efanele ukukhulisa izingane (I-bachelor's loft ayibalwa)
- Imali engenayo eqinile
- Isibusiso somzali
- Indawo yabashadikazi lapho izingane zabo zingakhula futhi zikhule khona (Indawo yempi e-Afrika ayibalwa - imibhangqwana esiza abanye)
- Inqubomgomo yomshuwalense wokuphila
Akusilo uhlu oluphelele, kepha ukuba nakho konke okungenhla kuyisisekelo esihle lapho uqala umndeni. Umshado nocansi kugcina kuholela ezinganeni, futhi izingane zenza izinto eziningi zibe nzima.
Uhlelo lwezemfundo
Amazwe amaningi omhlaba wokuqala ahlinzeka ngemfundo yamahhala, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi imfundo exhaswe nguhulumeni ingcono kakhulu ezinganeni zakho. Uma kungenzeka ukuthi uphethe ubuhlakani noma izingane ezingakhubazekile ngokwengqondo kufanele kube nohlelo olubekiwe lokuthi ungasisingatha kanjani isimo ngokukhula nentuthuko yazo.
Uhlelo lokukhula
Akuzona izingane zakho kuphela ezidinga ukukhula nokukhula.
Ukwehla kwamandla emali kanye neqiniso kuzobamba ngokushesha uma abazali bengenalo uhlelo lokukhula nentuthuko ngokwabo. Izinjongo zezithandani akufanele zivele ziphele uma nihlala ndawonye.
Ukuphila kusho ukuthi impilo iyaqhubeka, futhi impilo iphonsa ama-curveball amaningi. Ukuba yisinyathelo esisodwa noma ezimbili ngaphambi kwazo kuzokuvimbela ukuguqula inyunyana yakho ibe ubudlelwano obunobuthi.
Yiba namaqiniso
Enye yezinhloso zombhangqwana ezikhululekile kucabanga ukuthi umasipala wama-hippy enithanda nobabili nithandana ukulwa nobugovu benkampani bukhulu. Kuthandana, uze ube nezingane.
Ukukhulisa izingane endaweni enama-Amish amancane kungazwakala njengokunamathela endodeni, kepha futhi uvimbela ingane yakho ukuthi ikhule ibe yindoda. Umhlaba usushintshile, abayisikhombisa kwabangu-10 abacebe kakhulu e-Forbes emhlabeni abazalwanga emindenini ecebile.
Ukukholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzohlinzeka noma omunye uDeus Ex Machina uzovele avele enze impilo yomndeni wakho iphelele nakho akunangqondo. Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlangane noMthetho kaMurphy kunensindiso yaphezulu.
Sebenzela imigomo yezithandani zakho emuva
Kuzwakala kunzima ukuhlela impilo yakho yonke lapho izinto zishintsha unyaka nonyaka, futhi awazi ukuthi amaZombi azothatha nini umhlaba.
Lokho nje kuyizaba abantu abavilaphayo abathi, ngakho-ke akudingeki bakwenze. Izinhlelo zingashintsha futhi ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kuyingxenye yokuvuthwa nempumelelo yomuntu siqu.
Izinhloso ezingokoqobo zesinyathelo ngesinyathelo imibhangqwana enazo zizokwenza ubudlelwane bazo buqine. Ngokusebenza njengeqembu, ngombono ocacile wokuthi bafuna ukuya kuphi, nokuthi bangafika kanjani lapho, kuqinisa izibopho zanoma yiliphi iqembu labantu, imibhangqwana esondelene kakhulu ifakiwe.
Kwi-movie ye-Disney UP, lezi zithandani zifuna ukuhlala nokuthatha umhlalaphansi ndawonye eParadise Falls (kususelwa endaweni yangempela ebizwa nge-Angel Falls eVenezuela). Izinhlelo zabo zashintsha lapho bengakwazi ukukhulelwa, kepha basebenza ngakho kwaze kwenzeka. Ukuguqula indlu yabo ibe ibhaluni lomoya elishisayo super blimp kuyahlekisa, kepha kuyisinyathelo esidingekayo sokufika lapho.
Yonke imigomo yezithandani ezibucayi kufanele ifane. Khetha indawo yokugcina oya kuyo nomndeni wakho. (Ngiyethemba, hhayi ikhaya lasebekhulile eFlorida). Bese uthola ukuthi yini oyidingayo ukuze ufike lapho. Uma wena noma umlingani wakho efuna ukuchitha ezinye izinsuku zakho esiqhingini saseGrisi noma eMalta. IGoogle izobiza malini, bese ubheka ukuthi kungabiza malini eminyakeni engama-30-40.
Ukusuka lapho, unomgomo ohlukile, ake sithi kubiza amadola ayizigidi eziyishumi (izindleko zokuphila zifakiwe), hlela ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi ezokhiqiza leyo mali bese uyonga eminyakeni elandelayo engama-30 kuya kwengama-40. Imaphi amakhono owadingayo ukwenza leyo misebenzi? Ngemuva kwalokho kukuholela enhlosweni ehlukile yesikhathi esiphakathi.
Yikuphi ukuqeqeshwa, isipiliyoni, imfundo ongayidinga wena noshade naye ukuthola lawo makhono. Ngemuva kwalokho kuholela emgomweni wesikhathi esifushane ngaphezulu. Uzohlala kuphi okwamanje? Kungakanani ongakuthola, ukusebenzise, futhi ulondoloze ukuphila impilo ethile?
Hlanza bese uphinda uze ufike eqophelweni lapho usuvele uhlonyiselwe ukwenza isinyathelo esilandelayo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuhlelile konke nomlingani wakho, manje usunomgomo wezithandani ongokoqobo futhi osebenzayo noma yibuphi ubuhlobo obufanele okufanele bube nabo.