Izinyunyana zomphakathi kanye nobudlelwano basekhaya bekuyizindlela ezithandwayo zomshado kule minyaka eyishumi edlule, ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni bobulili obufanayo. Ngesinqumo seNkantolo Ephakeme yase-US sango-2015 esasigunyaza ngokusemthethweni ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kuzo zonke izifundazwe zase-US, lobu budlelwano buseseyingxenye yemithetho okungenani ezifundeni eziyishumi nambili.
Njengemithetho eminingi, leyo ephathelene nezinyunyana zomphakathi kanye nokusebenzisana kwasekhaya kuyahlukahluka ezifundazweni ezisazivumela futhi zizihloniphe. Isibonelo, abanye badinga ukuthi imibhangqwana ibe ngabobulili obufanayo kanti abanye bavumela imibhangqwana engabesilisa nabesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izifundazwe (ezifana neCalifornia) zidinga ukuthi abalingani basekhaya bafake intela ngokuhlanganyela ngezinhloso zombuso (ngaphandle kokufaka kwabo intela yenhlangano).
Ngakho-ke, lapho konke kulungiswa, yini umehluko phakathi kwalezi ezinye izindlela zomshado?
Nayi eminye umehluko ojwayelekile:
- Izinyunyana zomphakathi zaziwa njengokubambisana 'okubhalisiwe' noma 'komphakathi', kanti ukusebenzisana kwasekhaya kuyizimo lapho abalingani behlanganyela khona impilo yasekhaya.
- Izinyunyana zomphakathi zamukelwa ngokomthetho futhi ziyafana nomshado, kanti ubudlelwano basekhaya imvamisa buyisimo esisemthethweni esingafani nomshado.
- Izinyunyana zomphakathi zinikezwa izinzuzo eziningi zombuso ezinikezwa imibhangqwana eshadile, kanti izinzuzo ezinikezwa ukubambisana kwasekhaya ngokuvamile zincane kakhulu. Ezinye izinzuzo zifaka: isibonelelo sezingane, imihlomulo yentela yombuso, ukubambisana kwabazali nokuningi.
- Izinyunyana zomphakathi kumenyezelwe ukuthi zishintshelwe emshadweni wabantu bobulili obufanayo, kanti ubudlelwano basekhaya abukwenzile lokho.
- Izinyunyana zomphakathi zamukelwa ezifundazweni ezi-6, kanti ubudlelwano basekhaya baziwa ezi-11.
- Uma kukhulunywa ngezinzuzo zombuso, lezo ezivame ukunikezwa izinyunyana zomphakathi zifaka izinzuzo ezifanayo zentela, ukwesekwa kwengane nomlingani, izinqumo zezokwelapha, umshuwalense wezempilo, isikweletu esihlanganyelwe, ifa, ukuba ngumzali kanye namalungelo omshado ezingeni likahulumeni. Ubudlelwano basekhaya, ngakolunye uhlangothi, babelana ngokumbalwa kakhulu emshadweni, kufaka phakathi ilungelo lokwenza izinqumo zezokwelapha, ukuhlala ndawonye, ukutholwa kwabazali bokutholwa, ukunakekelwa kwezempilo kanye nefa.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi imithetho kanye nezinzuzo zezinyunyana zomphakathi kanye nokusebenzisana kwasekhaya kuzohluka phakathi kwezifundazwe ezizibonayo. Uma ucabanga ukungena kunoma yikuphi kwalobu budlelwano obuhlukile, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ngemithetho yangakini neyesifundazwe.