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- Ngabe i-handsome dude eminzayo ihlangana ngani nanoma yini?
- Konke kuhle kodwa ke ...
- Iyini ncamashi incazelo yombhali wezidakamizwa?
- Okufanele ngikwenze? Nakhu ukuqala:
- I-NPD ingelashwa
- Yiluphi uhlobo olulodwa lokwelashwa kwe-NPD?
- Bathini ochwepheshe
- Ngakho-ke ngingaluhlakulela kanjani uzwela kumuntu one-NPD?
- Yiziphi ezinye izindlela zokwelapha ze-NPD?
Kwenye indawo ezinkungwini zesikhathi, igama lizwakala lijwayelekile ngokungafani. Iyasesha ... iyasesha .... INarcissus? Akuzona yini lezo zimbali ezinjenge-daffodil? Yebo, kepha lokhu kuyisici sobuntu, ngakho-ke akusikho lokho. UNarcissus ... Ah, yebo ... okuthile okuphathelene nalelo banga lesiNgisi elisanda kufika kudala. Omunye wabalingiswa kuleyo ncwadi eminyene. Ngabe uNarcissus wayengeyena omunye wabalingiswa ezinganekwaneni zamaGrikhi noma zamaRoma? Ima kancane ... usezogxila ... Yebo! Yilokho-ke: UNarcissus wayengumuntu oshisayo owathandana nokuzibonakalisa kwakhe ngenkathi ezibuka echibini. Yebo, yilokho kuphela! Kepha linda. Angithi lowomuntu wawela echibini wafa? Ibhingo !!!
Ngabe i-handsome dude eminzayo ihlangana ngani nanoma yini?
Umbuzo omuhle.
Ake sicabange ngakho. Sonke sazi (futhi mhlawumbe sangomunye umuntu) owayecabanga ukuthi bayisipho sikaNkulunkulu emhlabeni.
Ekuqaleni, ukubukeka kwabo okuhle nokuzethemba kungenzeka kube yingakho sikhangwe kubo kwasekuqaleni. Futhi ngiyavuma, sasicasukile ngasese lapho abantu eqenjini lethu labangane babesho izinto ezinjengokuthi, “Uyashisa kakhulu,” noma “Izembatho zakhe! Ahlala ephuzu njalo.! ”
Lezi zinhlobo zamazwana zisinikeze imizwa yokuziqinisekisa. Silithandile iqiniso lokuthi lo muntu ubonakala enamandla kazibuthe, ephelele impela.
Konke kuhle kodwa ke ...
Ubulokhu ubona lo muntu omuhle obonakala ethanda ukuzibandakanya kakhulu, kepha noma kunjalo, amaphuzu amahle ngalo muntu adlula amaphuzu amabi ... kancane yize lelo bhalansi lishintsha. Uvuka ekuseni ngandlela thile bese uthola ukuthi uyabandakanyeka, uzibandakanye noma ushade nalokhu okutholile ukuthi ungumqaphi. Okufanele ngikwenze?
Ngabe umuntu othanda ukushintsha izinto angashintsha noma aguqulwe, noma wake waba ngumuntu othanda ukwanelisa izihibe, ngaso sonke isikhathi ungumqaphi?
Iyini ncamashi incazelo yombhali wezidakamizwa?
Ngokusho komtholampilo odumile emhlabeni iMayo Clinic, i-narcissist ngumuntu otholwe ene-Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), "okuyisimo sengqondo lapho abantu benomoya wokubaluleka kwabo, isidingo esijulile sokunakwa ngokweqile futhi ukuncoma, ubudlelwano obunenkinga nokungazweli kwabanye. ” Ukuthola incazelo eningiliziwe, ungafunda lapha.
Futhi yini enye okufanele ngiyazi nge-NPD?
- Kuvame kakhulu kwabesilisa kunabesifazane.
- Imbangela yayo ayaziwa kepha ososayensi bacabanga ukuthi izimpande zayo ngokwengxenye ziyizakhi zofuzo futhi ngokwengxenye zibangelwa imvelo.
- Imvamisa kuqala ebusheni noma ebudaleni, yize kukhula, izingane zitholwa zine-NPD.
- Njengoba izimbangela zayo zingaziwa, ayikho indlela eyaziwayo yokuvimbela ukukhula kwayo.
- Uprofesa waseHarvard, uDkt David Malkin, ukholelwa ukuthi kukhona ubhadane lwe-narcissism. Uma ungathanda ukwazi kabanzi ngalokhu nolunye ucwaningo kule ndawo, uzofuna ukubheka incwadi yakhe.
Okufanele ngikwenze? Nakhu ukuqala:
Ngakho-ke ukhona. Ekuqaleni kwakuphuphuthekiswe yilokho owawucabanga ukuthi ukubukeka okuhle komlingani wakho, ubuhlakani, ubuhlakani, amandla, isitayela, njll, manje uyabona ukuthi umlingani wakho empeleni uhlushwa yi-NPD. Lo muntu, obukade uthatheka kangaka ngaye manje, manje ubonakala ezikhukhumeza, ezikhukhumeza, ethanda ukuzithoba futhi ehlisa abantu abaningi ngendlela engenakwenzeka.
Babonakala bekhathazeka ngokweqile ngesimo, impumelelo yabo kanye nokunethezeka ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo. Babonakala njengengane poster ye-NPD.
Kepha, ngokuyisisekelo, usakhangwa yilowo muntu ukuthi wenzeni? Okokuqala, xhumana nomlingani wakho ngemizwa yakho (ngokuhlakanipha!) Ungahle uthande ukuqala lapha.
I-NPD ingelashwa
Lokho kuhle futhi kuhle, kepha abantu abaningi abane-NPD bazohluleka ngokuphelele ukubona ukuthi kukhona okuncane okungalungile ngabo. Kungenzeka ukuthi uxhumane nomlingani wakho ukuthi kunenkinga eyisisekelo, kepha ngenxa yesimo se-NPD, abakwazi nje ukucabanga ukuthi kunenkinga. Lokhu kungaletha inkinga enzima kakhulu, kepha uma inkinga ekugcineni yamukelwa, kunezindlela zokwelapha eziphumelelayo.
Yiluphi uhlobo olulodwa lokwelashwa kwe-NPD?
I-Psychotherapy (kwesinye isikhathi ibizwa ngokuthi ukwelashwa kokukhuluma) ibhekwa njengokwelapha okungcono kakhulu kwe-NPD. Kufanele wenze ucwaningo ngaphambi kokukhetha umelaphi – musa ukukhetha nje umelaphi wokuqala omthola ku-Yelp noma ngokugaya "Abelaphi be-NPD".
Bathini ochwepheshe
Ngokuvamile, labo ngoti be-NPD bazoba nezeluleko ezifanayo. Abantu abahlushwa i-NPD bagcwele ngokwabo. Bacabanga ukuthi yonke into futhi wonke umuntu emhlabeni uzungeze bona, ngakho-ke into yokuqala okufanele bayifunde ukuyibona ukuthi lokhu akulona iqiniso.
Kumele bafunde ukuzwelana – amandla okuzibeka ezicathulweni zomunye umuntu. Uzwela kufanele luthuthukiswe kumuntu one-NPD.
Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu?
Umelaphi angakunika amasu amahle kakhulu wokuthuthukisa uzwela, kepha kunezindlela ezithile ongakhuthaza ngazo uzwela.
Ngakho-ke ngingaluhlakulela kanjani uzwela kumuntu one-NPD?
Ungasebenzisa lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "ukwenziwa kozwela." Le yimibuzo eyenzelwe ukwenza umuntu one-NPD ukuthi acabange ngokuthile noma ngomunye umuntu ngaphandle kwakhe. Nasi isibonelo:
“Ngikuthatha njengomngani obalulekile. Uma ufika sekwedlule isikhathi kaningi, ngibona sengathi awusazisi isikhathi sethu ndawonye. ” Lokhu kubenza bazi ukuthi uyabazisa, kepha futhi kuguqula ukugxila kuwe. Usho ukubaluleka komunye umuntu, bese ugudla omunye umuntu ukuthi acabange ngawe futhi ekugcineni thina.
Yiziphi ezinye izindlela zokwelapha ze-NPD?
Ukuthola uhlobo olufanele lokwelashwa kwezifo zengqondo kunzima kakhulu. Nge-NPD, lokhu kunjalo kakhulu ngoba ezikhathini eziningi umuntu ophethwe yi-NPD akakholelwa ukuthi kukhona uhlobo lwenkinga. Lolu cwaningo lokuthola uhlobo olufanele lwezokwelapha lwe-NPD luchazwe lapha.
Ukwelashwa kweqembu kungenye indlela yokwelashwa kwe-NPD. Lokhu futhi kungabiza kakhulu kunokwelashwa okukodwa.
Akunandaba ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokwelashwa olufunwayo, qiniseka ukuthi ama-narcissists angashintsha.
Bheka lapha ukuthola eminye imininingwane ngokuba nobuhlobo obuyimpumelelo.