-Delile
- 1. Ukuyekethisa esihlokweni
- 2. Dala izikhala ezizimele
- 3. Hlela ifenisha ezungeze ukuhamba kwezimoto
- 4. Thatha amathiphu ku-feng shui
- 5.Faka iziphimbo zokudala
Noma ngabe usanda kubopha ifindo likasofasilahlane noma umane wakhetha ukuhlala ndawonye, wena noswidi wakho manje ninomsebenzi omnandi wokuhlobisa indawo yokuhlala entsha ndawonye. Kepha ngenkathi omunye umlingani ephupha ngendawo yokuhlobisa esepulazini egcwele imifanekiso ebaziwe yenkukhu, omunye angacabanga ngendikimba encane enemigqa ebukhali nezinkulumo ezimnyama ezimnyama.
Ungahlobisa kanjani ndawonye uma uyizwe elincane futhi umlingani wakho eyidwala elincane?
Ukuhlobisa nomlingani wakho kungahle kungabenzi noma kubuqede ubudlelwano bakho, kepha kungadala izingxabano, ukudumazeka nemizwa elimele.
Ukugwema ukuqala i-WWIII ngenkathi uphaphe isidleke sakho sothando esisha, gcina lawa macebo engqondweni.
1. Ukuyekethisa esihlokweni
Ukusebenza ngokubambisana kusho ukuyekethisa ezindaweni eziningi, kufaka phakathi ukuhlobisa kwasekhaya. Ukuyekethisa okusebenzayo kuqala ngokubamba izidingo nezifiso zomlingani wakho ezibaluleke njengezakho.
Ukuyekethisa ngempumelelo akudingi ukufuna ukwahlukaniswa okungu-50/50 kukho konke. Kwesinye isikhathi, umlingani oyedwa angacela okuthe xaxa endaweni eyodwa kepha angakhathaleli ezinye izinto. Isibonelo, omunye umlingani angakwazisa ukudala indawo yokulala enothando neyokuphumula, kepha engenayo intshisekelo enkulu yokuthi isikhala sehhovisi lasekhaya sibukeka kanjani. Noma, umlingani oyedwa angagcizelela esitofini segesi esikhundleni semodeli kagesi ekhishini, kepha kungenzeka angabi nentandokazi ethile ngokubeka phansi.
2. Dala izikhala ezizimele
Ngisho nemibhangqwana esondelene kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi idinga isikhathi sodwa, futhi kucatshangelwa izimvume zesikhala, ukudala isikhala ocabanga ukuthi ukuhleleka kwakho komuntu siqu kugcina umuzwa wobuntu. Imibhangqwana eyabelana ngesitudiyo isengadala izikhala ezizimele ngokusebenzisa abahlukanisi begumbi lokugoqa ukuze bahlukanise isikhala sabo kuyo yonke indawo yokuhlala.
Uma umlingani oyedwa eya egonzo ngazo zonke izinto ezihlobene neqembu labo lezemidlalo abalithandayo, kwakheka umhume wendoda - noma umhume womfazi! - Ibavumela ukuthi babonise imemorabilia ethandekayo ngaphandle kokuminyanisa igumbi lomndeni.
Ngokunjalo, umlingani oyedwa angeke ajabulele lutho ngaphandle kokuphumula ebhavini enhle, eshisayo, ngakho-ke ukuvumela lowo mlingani ukuthi akhethe isikimu sombala nezesekeli zokugeza okuyinhloko kunengqondo. Noma ngabe iyiphi ifomu ofuna indawo yakho yangasese eyithathile, qiniseka ukuthi unekamelo - noma okungenani ingxenye yelinye - lakho lapho kuqubuka ingxabano yomthandi ongenakugwenywa.
3. Hlela ifenisha ezungeze ukuhamba kwezimoto
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuhlobisa, ifenisha inikela ngendwangu openda kuyo indaba yempilo yakho yasekhaya nomlingani wakho. Noma nini lapho kungenzeka khona, tshala imali kwizicucu zekhwalithi ezizohlala iminyaka ezayo.
Gcina injongo yegumbi ngalinye engqondweni lapho unquma ukuthi uyibekaphi ifenisha yakho. Amakhaya amaningi aqukethe izindawo zomlilo njengezindawo zokugxila ezindaweni zokuhlala, ngakho-ke uma lokhu kunjalo kuwe, ukutshala imali ku-TV eyisikrini esiyisicaba ongayifaka ngenhla kweziko kukuvumela ukuba ushise umlilo ngenkathi ubukele ukuphindelela kwabangane bakho obathandayo.
Noma ngabe iyiphi itimu yokuhlobisa oyamukelayo, qiniseka ukuthi unikeza isikhala setafula lokuphela elanele ezindaweni zokuhlala. Awufuni ukuthi usethe ingilazi yakho yeCabernet kukhaphethi bese uyichitha!
4. Thatha amathiphu ku-feng shui
UFeng shui ubhekisa kubuciko bokuhlela ikhaya lakho ngendlela evumela amandla, noma i-chi, ukuthi igeleze endaweni yakho yokuhlala. Ukusebenzisa izimiso ze-feng shui ekuhlobiseni kwakho kwasekhaya kudala ukuzwana okuhambisanayo endaweni yakho yokuhlala.
Sebenzisa izici zamanzi njengama-aquariums nemithombo ezindaweni zokuhlala, kodwa uzigcine zingaphandle kwegumbi lokulala. Amanzi avuselela ukugeleza kwe-chi, ongakudingi ngaphambi kokuphumula ikhanda lakho elikhathele. Izibuko zenza ukucabanga kwesikhala esithe xaxa futhi zibonise amandla abuyele egumbini, ngakho-ke cabanga ukubeka into yokuhlobisa oyithandayo maqondana nengilazi yakho ebukekayo ukudala umuzwa wokuthula.
5.Faka iziphimbo zokudala
Ukhethe iphalethi yombala wakho wahlela ifenisha yakho. Manje usungaba nokuzijabulisa okuthokozisayo okufana nemidwebo, izithombe ezibaziweyo nezinto eziyigugu ezibonisa ubuntu bakho njengezithandani.
Izitshalo zasendlini zigqamisa cishe noma yiliphi igumbi ngokuphelele futhi futhi zithuthukisa ikhwalithi yomoya yasendlini ngokuphefumula isikhutha futhi ikhulule umoya-mpilo. Uma wena nomlingani wakho nibazisa ubuciko obuhle, cabanga ukufaka amalambu okugqamisa ukugqamisa imidwebo oyithandayo. Ama-Knickknacks akhombisa ubuntu bakho kepha qaphela ukuthi ungadali imfuhlumfuhlu eningi kakhulu - uma kungenjalo, ukumboza yonke intshi eyisikwele ngama-baubles kwenza uthuli lube ngumsebenzi owengeziwe.
Wamukelekile ekhaya!
Lapho usuqedile ukuhlobisa iphedi yakho entsha nomlingani wakho, sekuyisikhathi sokugubha! Phumulani i-champagne bese nigomoshelana othandweni lwenu nasekhaya olikhonzayo manje.