Kunezigaba eziningi nemijikelezo ehlukene ehlobene nokulutha ngokocansi.Ngokuqonda kangcono imijikelezo ungathola amandla owadingayo ukuze ungenelele futhi uqale inqubo yokuguqula impilo yakho ibe ngcono.
Kunezici ezine ezihlukile zokulutha ngokocansi noma umjikelezo wokuziphatha kwe-hypersexual -
Ukukhathazeka ukuthi umjikelezo jikelele uqala kanjani. Kulesi sigaba, unemicabango ngokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuyinkinga ngokuqala ukulingisa. Le mibono ingeza ngokushesha noma ihlale isikhashana, kepha ingavusa umlutha.
Uma ungumlutha wezocansi ekwelashweni futhi unale micabango, ungabuyela emuva kumakhono akho okuvimbela ukubuyela emuva. Uma ungakwazi ukusebenzisa lawa makhono ngenkathi usesigabeni se-Preoccupation, ungasebenza ukwephula umjikelezo ngaphambi kokuthi uqhubeke nokukhula,
Njengesibonelo, sizophendukela kwiklayenti eliqanjiwe eliziphatha ngendlela ekhombisa ubuntu bendoda eyimilutha yezocansi. Phakathi nomjikelezo Wokuxakeka, uqala ukucabanga ukuthi ukushayela kwakhe kwansuku zonke ekhaya evela emsebenzini kungafaka kanjani umzila ozomyisa endaweni lapho kunamaqembu amaningi emicu. Ubuye acabange ngesikhathi sokushayela ukuthi angazibuka kanjani izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ekhaya ngoba unkosikazi wakhe usohambweni lwebhizinisi.
Ngalesi sikhathi, angahlanza ikhanda lakhe bese ethatha isinqumo sokubiza umelaphi noma umxhasi wakhe. Angakhetha futhi ukuzindla, ukuzivocavoca umzimba noma ukuzibandakanya kokunye ukuziphatha okunempilo okuzosekela ukululama kwakhe.
Isigaba esilandelayo somjikelezo yiRitualization. Lokhu kulandelana kugxila ezenzweni eziholela ekulingiseni. Izenzo zakho manje sezijwayele futhi "zenziwa ngokwesiko." Kunzima ukumisa izenzo zakho ngalesi sikhathi. Abantu abaningi abayimilutha yezocansi balandisa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokwenza amasiko bazizwa sengathi basenkingeni.
Kunzima ukumisa umjikelezo ngalesi sikhathi, kepha kusalula kunokuthi ulinde kuze kuqale umjikelezo wabalingisi. Umjikelezo weRitualization uholela ekukhohlweni ngemiphumela yezenzo zakho. Ngoba imiphumela iqala ukuhambisa ngemuva kwengqondo yakho, ilahlekelwa ukushesha kwamandla okumisa isimilo.
Ake sibuyele kusibonelo seklayenti lethu langaphambilini. Kuyena emjikelezweni wokwenza amasiko, uphendulela imoto yakhe ebheke emgwaqweni lapho kutholakala khona amaklabhu emicu. Ucisha umakhalekhukhwini wakhe, ngakho-ke akatholakali nge-GPS. Lapho efika ekhaya, uvula ikhompyutha, avale izimpumputhe, bese ebhala ikheli lewebhu lesayithi lakhe lezithombe zocansi alithandayo. Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, usengakhipha isisu bese ukhetha indlela yokuziphatha enempilo. Ngeshwa, kulo mjikelezo, kunzima kakhulu ukumisa kunangesikhathi sokugxila.
Ukuziphatha okuluthayo (ukulingisa) isigaba esilandelayo emjikelezweni. Njenge-Ritualization, lokhu kumayelana nesenzo, kepha kube isenzo esiyinkinga. Lapho usufinyelele kuleli qophelo, kunzima kakhulu ukuyeka ngoba usuvele usesigabeni sokulingisa. Akunakwenzeka kuleli phuzu yize uphazamisa umjikelezo wabalingisi.
Kwiklayenti lethu eliqanjiwe, lesi sigaba sokulingisa sifaka ukungena kwiklabhu yomugqa noma ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile.
Okulandelayo emjikelezweni isigaba sokuphelelwa yithemba. Lesi sigaba sihlangabezana namahloni nokuzizwa sinecala. Imiphumela yenza imilutha iphatheke kabi kangangoba ifaka udonga lwangaphakathi ukuze ishube futhi ingakunaki lokho ekwenzayo. Ngokwakha lolu donga, luyabaqhelelanisa neqiniso lokuba sesimweni sokungalawuleki.
Kwiklayenti lethu, lesi yisikhathi esinesizungu lapho engena khona ohlotsheni lokuzihlukanisa. Lokhu kumenza asuke kude nemizwa yakhe ngoba kunzima kakhulu ukuyamukela. Uzizwa engenamandla okuguqula isimilo sakhe ngakho-ke umjikelezo uqala nje futhi njengoba efuna ucansi njengendlela yokubaleka.
Ngokuqonda imijikelezo ehlukene yokulutha ngokocansi, nalapho ungena kulowo mjikelezo njengamanje, yizinyathelo zakho zokuqala zokuqonda ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha indlela yakho yokuziphatha eyonakalisayo.
Ukubhekana nendawo yakho kulo mjikelezo kungaholela endleleni ekuqhelisela kude nokuziphatha okulimazayo, kuqede umuzwa wecala kanye nehlazo futhi kubuyise ikhono lakho lokugcina umshado onempilo futhi onenjongo nobunye ubudlelwano.