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- Yenza umshado wakho uze kuqala
- Khululeka lapho uhlala nezingane
- Zama ukuhambisana nesitayela sokuba ngumlingani wakho
- Thola umuntu noma okuthile ngaphandle komndeni ozophumula naye
- Hlonipha abazali bezingane
Isiphetho
Ukuba ngumzali kungenye yezinto ezimnandi nezibusisiwe empilweni yomuntu. Kodwa-ke, ukuba usingamzali kungenzeka kungabi yinto ejabulisayo kubo bonke.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwemindeni emibili ehlukene kungaba nzima, futhi wonke umuntu angahlangabezana nezithiyo eziningi. Imvamisa kuthatha iminyaka ukuthi imindeni enjalo ihlangane futhi ikhululeke ekugcineni komunye nomunye ekugcineni.
Ukukhulisa umzali kudinga umzamo omkhulu, ikakhulukazi eminyakeni yokuqala. Kulesi sigaba, umuntu kufanele asebenze ebudlelwaneni nomlingani wakhe futhi akhulise ubudlelwano babo nezingane zokutholwa.
Ukwamukela izingane zomunye umuntu njengezakho bese uzinikeza ngothando olufanayo, ukukhathazeka nokusekelwa kuyisinyathelo esikhulu sanoma yimuphi umuntu. Kwesinye isikhathi noma ngabe uzama kangakanani, kuzofanele ubhekane naphezulu naphansi.
Izinkinga zokuba umzali wesinyathelo ziningi. Ukuba usingamzali kuvame ukubonwa njengomsebenzi onzima futhi kungadinga ukubekezela okukhulu ngaphambi kokuba ukwazi kahle.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza, ungaba kanjani usingamzali omuhle, nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezingane zokutholwa, ungabe usaya phambili. Kulesi sihloko, uzothola izeluleko ezibalulekile zomzali ongakusiza ekubhekaneni nezingane zosingamzali ngothando.
Okushiwo ngezansi yimihlahlandlela ebaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umzali omusha / onenkinga.
Yenza umshado wakho uze kuqala
Bobabili abashadile kumele baqinisekise ukuthi ubudlelwano babo buhlala bushelelezi yize kunenkinga evamile yokuba usingamzali nezingane zokutholwa.
Imindeni yokutholwa ijwayele ukuhlukana ibe umzali wayo obeka ukuthembeka ezinganeni zayo kunomshado wayo. Lokhu kungaqondisa ubudlelwano entukuthelweni, intukuthelo, umona, nokungamukeleki.
Ozakwethu kudingeka bahlanganise futhi basebenze njengeqembu ukusiza ukuvala igebe phakathi komzali omusha nezingane. Lapho ungena endimeni yomzali wokutholwa, kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi ubeka umshado wakho phezu kobuhlobo bakho nezingane.
Yibani nesikhathi sozakwenu futhi nixhumane njengabantu abashadile, nibe nobusuku bezinsuku, futhi nibe nesandla engxenyeni yenu ukusiza ukwenza izinqumo zokuba ngumzali. Lokhu kuzokusondeza kumlingani wakho futhi kugweme noma yiluphi uhlobo lwengxabano yomshado noma ukungezwani.
Khululeka lapho uhlala nezingane
Ukukwazi ukuxhumana kahle futhi ube nesikhathi esihle nezingane zakho zokutholwa kuyinto ebalulekile kunoma yimuphi usingamzali. Yize ezinye izingane kungaba lula ukuzijabulisa nazo, ezinye izingane zivame ukubona usingamzali njengosongo, okungenye yezinkinga ezibaluleke kakhulu ezibhekene nabazali bokutholwa.
Ukuze ukhululeke lapho uhlala nezingane, okumele ukwenze nje ukuthi ube nguwe. Ukwamukela ubuntu obumbumbulu ukuze ube mnandi ngokwengeziwe kungahle kubuyele emuva, ikakhulukazi uma uhlala nezingane zokutholwa ezikhulile.
Esikhundleni salokho, beka phambili umuntu onguye futhi uvumele ingane ikhule ithande lowo muntu. Kancane kancane, isibopho esisekele entshisakalweni yemvelo nasothandweni sizokwakhiwa phakathi kwakho nengane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, sebenzisa ukuhleka nokudlala komzimba ukwakha ukusondelana nokuqeda ukungezwani. Yiba yi-goofy bese ubheka izindlela zokubenza bahleke bese uqhubeka nokuhleka kwabo. Bayeke banqobe phakathi nemidlalo nemidlalo futhi babuke ukuhlangana komndeni wakho wokutholwa.
Zama ukuhambisana nesitayela sokuba ngumlingani wakho
Khumbula ukuthi lezi yizingane zomlingani wakho, futhi zinelungelo lokuzikhulisa ngokwemithetho yazo ebekiwe.
Udinga ukwazi ukuzibumba ngokwendlela yobuzali bomlingani wakho futhi usebenzise indlela efanayo.
Ngakho-ke, enye yezinto okufanele usingamzali angayenzi, ukubeka imicabango yabo kanye nesitayela sabazali esakhiweni somndeni esivele sikhona futhi esisebenzayo.
Uma uphonsela inselelo nganoma iyiphi yezindlela zabo noma uletha isitayela sakho sobuzali, ngeke nje konakalise ubudlelwano bakho noshade naye kepha futhi kuzodala ukudideka kwengane ngenxa yemikhawulo ehlukene nokulindelwe ekhaya.
Uma unganelisekile ngokuthile umlingani wakho akwenzayo njengomzali, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nabo ngakho.
Thola umuntu noma okuthile ngaphandle komndeni ozophumula naye
Ukuba ngumzali kungakhathaza futhi kukhungathekise. Ungazinikela ngokweqile ezinganeni zakho zokutholwa; uzogcina usudinga okuthile ukuze uqhume umusi.
Yenza lokhu ngokumane uthathe inoveli noma uphume uhambe uzungeza ibhulokhi. Ungahle ufune nokuthola abangani nomndeni obubeke esikhaleni sangemuva ngenkathi uzama ukuthuthukisa umshado wakho nobuhlobo bakho nezingane zakho zokutholwa.
Phuma uyodla isidlo sasemini noma uye kuma-movie noma umane uthole umuntu osondelene naye ongakhuluma naye. Kukonke, zijabulise futhi ufake uphethiloli ngaphandle kwezingane noma umlingani wakho.
Hlonipha abazali bezingane
Lokhu kungenye yezinto ezisobala kakhulu okufanele zenziwe. Ayikho ingane efuna ukuzwa abazali bayo bengahlonishwa, noma ngabe izinto sezijike kabi kanjani phakathi kwabo.
Zonke izingane zifuna ukubona abazali bazo bendawonye, kepha kwesinye isikhathi lokho akunakwenzeka. Qiniseka ukuthi uyabahlonipha abazali futhi ukhumbuze izingane ukuthi abazali bazo bayazithanda ngisho noma behlukene noma bengasenabo.
Ungakuthola futhi kuwusizo ukukhuthaza izingane ukuba zichithe isikhathi nabazali bazo bangempela. Lokhu kuzosiza ingane ibone ukuthi uyabazisa ubudlelwano bomndeni futhi ugcine uqinisa isibopho esiphakathi kwakho nengane.
Buka le vidiyo ukuze uqonde ubuhle bokuhlala emndenini ohlangene. Kakade, akukubi ngempela ukuba usingamzali noma ingane yokutholwa.
Isiphetho
Ukuba usingamzali, imizwa nakanjani iyokwanda. Ungaqedela ukweqisa kwesinye isikhathi futhi udlale ngezinye izikhathi. Ukukhulisa umzali uqobo kungaba yinselelo kepha yinike isikhathi esithile; konke kuzowela endaweni.
Ungacabanga futhi ngokujoyina amaqembu wokusekelwa komzali wesinyathelo uma uzizwa unesidingo sokwenza kanjalo. Akufanele neze ube namahloni okufuna usizo lochwepheshe uma kudingeka.
Isihluthulelo sokuba usingamzali omuhle ukuthi ube ngumngane ezinganeni ezizithandayo futhi ozisekelayo kunokuba umuntu osongela ubudlelwano bazo nomzali wazo noma abe ngumuntu wangaphandle oqinile noma ofuna ngenkani.