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- “Ngikuthatha ube ngumyeni wami oshadile ngokusemthethweni”
- "Ukuba nokubamba"
- “Kusukela namuhla kuqhubeke”
- “Size sihlukaniswe ukufa”
Sizwile kaningi, kumabhayisikobho, kuthelevishini, nasemishadweni, ukuthi singazisho ngekhanda: izifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo.
"Mina, ____, ngikuthatha, ____, ukuba ngishade (umyeni / unkosikazi) wami ngokusemthethweni, ukuba ngibambe futhi ngibambe, kusukela kulolu suku kuqhubeke, kube ngcono, kubi kakhulu, kucebe, kubampofu, kunokugula nasempilweni, size sihlukaniswe ukufa. ”
Iningi lethu aliqondi ukuthi asikho isizathu esisemthethweni sokufaka la magama angcwele emkhosini womshado. Kepha baba yingxenye "yokusebenza" komshado futhi bangumbhalo olindelekile kuleli qophelo. Kukhona okuthintayo ngezizukulwane nezizukulwane zabantu abathi izifungo zomshado zendabuko.
Lezi zifungo zomshado ezijwayelekile ziqukethe amagama afanayo komunye nomunye, amagama azixhumanisa nayo yonke imibhangqwana eye, kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, yasho lezi zithembiso ezifanayo ngethemba elifanayo emehlweni abo ukuthi, empeleni, bayoba nabalingani babo baze bahlukaniswe ukufa.
Lezi zifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo, empeleni ezaziwa ngokuthi “imvume” emcimbini wobuKristu, zibukeka zilula, akunjalo?
Kepha, lezi zifungo zomshado ezilula ziqukethe umhlaba onencazelo. Ngakho-ke, ziyini izifungo zomshado? Futhi, iyini incazelo yangempela yezifungo zomshado?
Ukuqonda okushiwo izifungo emshadweni kangcono, ake sikhiphe izifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo bese sibona ukuthi hlobo luni lwemiyalezo oludlulisa ngeqiniso.
“Ngikuthatha ube ngumyeni wami oshadile ngokusemthethweni”
Lesi ngesinye sezifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo okufanele ngabe uzizwe kaninginingi emicimbini eyahlukahlukene yomshado ngisho nakumabhayisikobho.
Olimini lwanamuhla, “thatha” lisetshenziswe kakhulu ngomqondo wokuthi “khetha,” kusukela wenze inketho ngamabomu yokuzibophezela kulo muntu kuphela.
Umqondo wokuzikhethela unika amandla futhi umuntu abambelele kuwo uma ufika ezikhathini ezinzima ezingabaleki ezingaba khona kunoma imuphi umshado.
Zikhumbuze ukuthi ukhethe lo zakwethu, phakathi kwabo bonke abantu oseke wakhetha ukuchitha nabo impilo yakho yonke. Akakhethwanga wena, futhi akazange aphoqelelwe kuwe.
Eminyakeni eminingana wehla ulayini, lapho ubheka owakwakho enza okuthile omtshele ukuthi angakwenzi izikhathi eziyizigidi, khumbula zonke izizathu ezinhle zokuthi ukhethe yena njengomlingani wakho wempilo. (Kuzokusiza wehlise umoya!)
"Ukuba nokubamba"
Yeka umuzwa omuhle! Ubukhazikhazi bempilo yomshado bufingqwe ngalamagama amane, akha izifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo.
Uthola ukuthi "unaye" lo muntu omthandayo njengowakho, ukuze ulale uvuke eduze kwakhe kuze kuphele izinsuku zakho ndawonye. Lo muntu umbamba asondele kuwe noma kunini lapho uzwa isidingo ngoba manje usengowakho.
Ama-Hugs aqinisekisiwe, noma kunini lapho udinga khona! Kuhle kanjani lokho?
“Kusukela namuhla kuqhubeke”
Kukhona indawo yonke yethemba kulayini, futhi ijwayele ukusetshenziswa cishe kuzo zonke izifungo zomshado ezijwayelekile.
Izimpilo zakho ezihlanganisiwe ziqala manje, kusukela kulo mzuzu oshadile, futhi zelulekela ngasekugcineni kwekusasa.
Isisho sokuqhubekela phambili ndawonye siphethe isithembiso esiningi salokho okungafezwa abantu ababili lapho behlangana ndawonye othandweni, bebhekene nendlela eyodwa.
“Ngcono, ngokubi, ngokuceba, kwabampofu, ekuguleni nasempilweni ”
Lo mugqa uchaza isisekelo esiqinile lapho kuhlala khona umshado omkhulu. Kuyindlela ye- isithembiso sokuhlinzeka umlingani wakho ngokusekelwa ngokomzwelo, kwezezimali, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, noma ngabe ikusasa lingaletha ini.
Ngaphandle kwalesi siqinisekiso, umshado awukwazi ukukhula endaweni ephephile neqinisekisayo, futhi umbhangqwana udinga ukuqinisekiswa ukuze unikeze futhi uthole ukusondelana okujulile ngokomzwelo.
Kungaba nzima ukukhula i- ubuhlobo uma ungenakho ukwethemba ukuthi umlingani wakho uzoba lapho nawe, ebunzimeni nasebubini.
Lokhu kungenye yezinkulumo ezibalulekile ezabiwe kumongo wezifungo zomshado, njengoba kuyisibambiso ukuba lapho ukondla omunye, hhayi ngezinsuku ezimnandi kuphela, lapho kulula kepha futhi nasebubini, lapho kunzima.
“Size sihlukaniswe ukufa”
Akuwona umugqa ojabulisa kakhulu, kepha kuyiphuzu elibalulekile ukucaphuna. Ngokufaka lokhu, uvala uphawu lwenyunyana impilo yakho yonke.
Ukhombisa kubo bonke abezele ukuzofakaza ngokuhlangana kwakho ukuthi ningena kulo mshado ngenhloso, futhi leyo nhloso ukwakha impilo ndawonye izinsuku zenu zonke lapha eMhlabeni.
Ukusho lo mugqa utshela umhlaba ukuthi noma ngabe ikusasa likuphatheleni, noma ngabe ubani noma yini engazama ukukuhlukanisa, uzibophezele ukuthi uzohlala nalo muntu, ozomthanda kuze kube yilapho uphefumula okokugcina.
Buka le vidiyo:
Kungumsebenzi onenzuzo ngokudiliza izifungo zomshado nokubhekisisa ukuthi yini engaphansi kwalolu limi olulula lwezifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo. Cishe kuyihlazo ukuthi incazelo ecebile ingalahleka ngoba sikujwayele ukuzwa ulayini.
Uma uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ufuna ukusebenzisa lezi zifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo, kungahle kube kuhle ukucabanga ukungeza ukutolika kwakho, ngokususelwa enguqulweni enwetshiwe lapha, yokuthi umugqa ngamunye usho ukuthini kuwe.
Ngale ndlela, awugcini nje ngokugcina isakhiwo sakudala sisebenza kahle emcimbini wakho, kepha futhi ungeza inothi elithe xaxa wena nomlingani wakho eningabelana ngalo nalabo abaze ukuzogubha inyunyana yenu.
“Injongo yokuphila kwethu yinjabulo, exhaswa yithemba. Asinaso isiqinisekiso ngekusasa, kepha sikhona ngethemba lokuthile okungcono. Ithemba lisho ukuqhubeka, ngicabanga, 'Ngingakwenza lokhu.' Kuletha amandla angaphakathi, ukuzethemba, ikhono lokwenza okwenzayo ngokwethembeka, ngeqiniso nangokusobala. ” Lesi sicaphuno sivela kuDalai Lama.
Akukona ngokukhethekile ngomshado kepha kungaqondwa njengokukhombisa kwalezi zifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo. Manje, uma ucabanga, yiziphi izifungo zomshado, ekugcineni, lezi zifungo zomshado eziyisisekelo zimayelana nalokho okuchazwa nguDalai Lama.
Ubachaza njengenjabulo, ithemba, beqhubekela kokunye okungcono, isiqinisekiso sokuthi wena nomlingani wakho "ningakwenza lokhu," kanye nokuzethemba ukuthi ngokuthembeka, iqiniso, nokwenza izinto obala, uthando lwenu luyoqina ngamandla kusukela kulolu suku kuqhubeke.