-Delile
- Kungani ubungani bubaluleke kangaka kwabesifazane
- Umngane womkakho omkhulu nokuthi kungani kungahle kube nezinkinga
- Okufanele ukwenze lapho umngane omkhulu womkakho engekho eceleni kwakho
Umngani omkhulu womkakho angaba umlingani wakho omkhulu noma isitha esikhulu. Ukuthi iyiphi kuzoya ngezici eziningi, futhi eziningi azikho emandleni akho okuthonya. Noma kunjalo, kukhona futhi izinto ezimbalwa ongazenza ukukhulisa ubungani nomngani omkhulu womkakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi awulinyazwa yithonya lakhe.
Kungani ubungani bubaluleke kangaka kwabesifazane
Kukhona, ngeshwa, amadoda amaningi athi futhi akholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi abesifazane abakwazi ukuba nobungane beqiniso. Yize isihloko esivame ukuba yisisekelo sokuphawula okuningi kwabagxeki mayelana nomhlaba, lesi simangalo sikude kakhulu neqiniso. Yebo, ubungani obuningi besifazane buyahlukana, kepha kanjalo nobungani besilisa. Eqinisweni, yize ubungani besifazane buvame ukuhlupheka ngaphansi komthwalo wezibopho zansuku zonke, umndeni, uthando olusha, futhi imvamisa umona nokuncintisana lapho abesifazane beba ngabangane beqiniso, imvamisa luhlobo lwesibopho olungalingana nalokho phakathi kodade abasondelene kakhulu. Futhi wonke umuntu wesifazane unenhlanhla yokuba nomngane omuhle wokumeseka nokumduduza.
Isibopho abesifazane abahlanganyela nabo lapho bengabangane abakhulu kwesinye isikhathi kungaba yitshe lesisekelo senhlalakahle yomkakho. Futhi akukho lutho okufanele ube nomona ngalo, kodwa gubha leli qiniso. Abesifazane badinga ukwabelana ngemizwa ethile kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuvame ukuqondana nomunye wesifazane kuphela. Abangane abakhulu besifazane bakhona ukulalela izinkinga zomunye nomunye, ukunikeza induduzo kanye namazwi afanele. Lokhu kuholela kumuzwa wokwaneliseka empilweni jikelele nokuphila kahle.
Yize kunabesifazane abaningi abashadile abagomela ngokuthi abayeni babo bangabangane babo abakhulu, abaningi futhi bayamazisa umngani wabo wesifazane. Njengoba ucwaningo lubonisa lapho umuntu enelisekile ngobungani babo, ukwaneliseka kwempilo yabo kukonke kuyakhula. Ukuba nomngane osondelene naye umuntu angahlanganyela naye ukukhungatheka kwabo futhi anciphise umthwalo kufakazela ukuthi kungesinye sezici ezibalulekile zempilo yengqondo nenjabulo.
Umngane womkakho omkhulu nokuthi kungani kungahle kube nezinkinga
Manje, njengoba kungenzeka wake wahlangabezana nakho, umngani omkhulu womkakho angaba nesandla emshadweni wakho noma anikele ezinkingeni ezikuwo. Isizathu sichazwe esigabeni esedlule - umkakho mhlawumbe uzokwabelana ngokukhathazeka kwakhe nomngani wakhe, futhi okunye kwalokhu kukhungatheka kuzobe kumayelana nomshado wakho. Akuvamile ukuthi amadoda akhononde kumeluleki wezemishado ngethonya umngane omkhulu womfazi analo ebuhlotsheni babo. Lokhu kungahle noma kungabi yiqiniso, njengoba kwesinye isikhathi kungenzeka ukuthi uhumushe ngokungafanele izenzo zomkakho njengeziwumphumela wezeluleko zomngani kunokucabanga kwakhe. Lokhu kuyalinga ngoba kulula ukuthukuthelela umuntu ongaphandle kunokucasukelana nomlingani wakho wempilo.
Masithi kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kungenzeka futhi kube yiqiniso. Futhi kungahle kungabi ngenxa yezinhloso ezimbi. Abesifazane bavikela kakhulu labo ababathandayo. Akuvamile ukuthi umngane athathe isimo sengqondo sokuzivikela ngokweqile futhi aqale ukusebenza ngokumelene nawe. Ukungenelela okunjalo kungahle kufake umshado engcupheni, ngoba abangane bangaba nethonya elikhulu kumuntu.
Okufanele ukwenze lapho umngane omkhulu womkakho engekho eceleni kwakho
Yize mhlawumbe ukhungathekile futhi uthukuthele kufanele, khumbula ukuthi umngani omkhulu womkakho mhlawumbe akabi mubi. Eqinisweni, ucishe akholelwe ukuthi wenza okuhle kakhulu kumngani wakhe omkhulu. Lokhu kungacasula futhi kube buhlungu, futhi kusongele. Kodwa-ke, ukuhileleka ngokungqubuzana kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, nomkakho noma nomngane wakhe omkhulu, akusona isixazululo esihle kulokhu. Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukuzuza kulesi simo.
Qala ngokuzibuza ukuthi yini ongayifunda kuyo. Ake sikusize - noma ngabe izinga lapho umngane abona okuthile okwenzayo njengenkinga kungenzeka lihaba, iqiniso ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi unkosikazi wakho akaneliseki ngezici ezithile zobudlelwano bakho. Ngakho-ke, thatha lokhu njengethuba lokuqinisa umshado wakho nokwenza ngcono indlela ophatha ngayo umkakho.
Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu? Njengenjwayelo, ukuxhumana kuyisihluthulelo. Zimbili izinto odinga ukuzidlulisela kumkakho. Okokuqala intshisekelo ezifisweni zakhe nasezidingweni zakhe, kanye nokuzimisela ukwenza izinto zibe ngcono. Okwesibili yimizwa yakho uqobo ngokwenzekayo. Ngokuxhumana okuqondile nokuzethembayo, nobabili ningafinyelela emshadweni ongcono futhi nifunde izinto ezintsha ngomunye nomunye.