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- Gcina ukusondelana kobuhlobo bakho emsebenzini
- 1. Finyelela
- 2. Beka imingcele ecacile
- 3. Thatha ikhefu
- 4. Gwema ukucabanga okumnyama nokumhlophe
- 5. Khuluma usebenzisa izitatimende "Mina"
- 6. Khulisa ukuxhumana nabasebenzi bakho
- 7. Nyakazisa izindima zakho
Kuvame ukuba nezinkinga ezihlukile ezizodlala lapho sisebenza nalabo esibathandayo.
Njengombhangqwana oshadile, isinqumo sokusebenzisana singavela kalula, isidingo sezezimali, noma ukuhlangana njengomphumela wokuba senkambu efanayo. Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, ukuhamba ngemingcele phakathi kwempilo yasekhaya nempilo yomsebenzi kungaba yinselelo kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana. Awufuni ukuthi umuntu omthandayo abe umuntu osebenza naye ongeke wasuka kuye noma uzizwe uphethwe umoya. Futhi awufuni ukweqa umngcele futhi ubudlelwano bakho bomuntu siqu buvulekele ezenzweni ezingenzi kahle emsebenzini.
Gcina ukusondelana kobuhlobo bakho emsebenzini
Amasu alandelayo ayi-7 azoqinisekisa ukuthi uzosiza ukugcina ukusondelana kobudlelwano bakho ekhaya ngenkathi uhlala ukhiqiza futhi ugxile emsebenzini.
1. Finyelela
Ungakhuluma nobani uma oshade naye ekuhlupha? Ingabe kukhona abangane bobabili abafuni ukuzwa ngokungezwani okungami? Siza ukuphatha ngokuba nengxoxo yokuthi ukhuluma nobani ngaphandle kokwenza abanye bangakhululeki noma kwephule ubumfihlo bomlingani wakho. Yiba nomthombo ohlukile kwabanye. Lokhu kungaba ngumelaphi noma umuntu omaziyo ongamethemba ongazukungena phakathi kwenu nobabili. Qaphela ukuvulela abantu osebenza nabo noma abangane bobabili abangangeniswa ngokungathandeki emdlalweni wobudlelwano bakho.
2. Beka imingcele ecacile
Imvamisa, lapho usebenza namalungu omndeni, izingxoxo ezifana nesikhathi somholo ezinsukwini zeholide, izinsuku zokugula ziwela eceleni kwendlela. Izikhathi eziningi, lapho kusebenza nomndeni, abantu bazochitha amahora besebenza futhi basebenze ngamahora angajwayelekile futhi abazizwa benesikhathi sokuphumula. Ukuba nesinxephezelo esifanele nezinsuku ezithile zemingcele kuzosiza ukuqoka isikhathi osebenza ngaso kanye nezikhathi ongakhululeka ngazo. Qaphela izikhathi osebenza ngazo “ngoba kuwumndeni.” Ngokuvumelana ngenani lamaholide nezinsuku zokugula, kanye nesimiso sansuku zonke izimpi eziningi zingavinjelwa lapho imithetho icacile.
Umbhede ngowocansi nokulala. Isikhathi.
Ungavuki futhi uhlole ngokushesha ama-imeyili, gwema ama-imeyili embhedeni ngokuphelele. Akukho ukubikwa kwesheduli yosuku. Indawo yangasese neyomphakathi idinga ukuhlukaniswa futhi ichazwe ngokusobala.
3. Thatha ikhefu
Khumbula izikhathi lapho udinga khona ukuphumula. Uma usesigabeni sokusebenza ekhaya nasehhovisi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola “isikhathi” sokuba uzinakekele. Uma bobabili abalingani bezinakekela izidingo zabo zomzimba, ezingokwengqondo nezenhlalo ngaphandle, bazokwazi ukuthi ngamunye anikele kakhulu ebudlelwaneni futhi agxile kakhulu ngenkathi esemsebenzini.
Zinike isikhathi sokuba yizithandani ngaphandle kokusebenza; yisidlo sakusihlwa nomndeni bese nixoxa ngenhlekelele esanda kwenzeka emsebenzini. Izingane zidlala ngaphandle zijabulisa futhi nenkinga yomsebenzi ocabanga ukuthi idinga ukulungiswa ngokushesha ngoshade naye. Bangase bangacabangi ukuthi ibaluleke kakhulu futhi bangafuna ukugxila esikhathini somndeni kodwa bakwenze nokho. Lezi yizimo eziholela ekucasukeni nasekuntuleni ukusondelana. Yenza ubusuku beviki lonke ukuvuselela nokukhumbula umuntu owathandana naye- hhayi umuntu osebenza naye. Azikho izingxoxo zomsebenzi ezivunyelwe. Ufuna ukuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo? Zama ukungakhulumi nezingane. Uzomangala ukuthi ungaba nemfudumalo futhi ujabule kanjani ngezikhathi ezimbalwa zokubukana emehlweni futhi nenze ama-adventures afanayo enaniwajwayela. Lapho nobabili nisesimweni esingcono futhi nithola injabulo enkulu- ukusebenza ndawonye kuzoba umoya.
4. Gwema ukucabanga okumnyama nokumhlophe
“Ushiywa isikhathi njalo!” “Awukwazi ukwenza noma iyiphi yemisebenzi engiyicelayo!” Izingibe zenzeka lapho sifaka abantu abangamajuba ezintweni ezijwayelekile zokuthi ngubani esiqondayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, izimpikiswano ezincane zingaba izingqinamba ezinkulu kakhulu. Gwema ukubizelana futhi wazi ulimi. Uma ubiza umlingani wakho ngokuthi "uyivila" ngeke kube yisikhuthazi esikhulu sokwenza okuhlukile ngokuzayo. Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukugxila kokuphikisana ngakho ngaleso sikhathi bese wenza isiphakamiso sokuthi yini engasebenza kangcono ngokuzayo.
5. Khuluma usebenzisa izitatimende "Mina"
Esikhundleni sokuthi "kufanele" uqale ngokuthi "Ngiyezwa". Izitatimende zakho zizokwamukelwa kahle kakhulu. Kuzosiza nomunye umuntu ukuthi angazizwa evikela ngokushesha, ehlaselwa noma eqondiswe.
6. Khulisa ukuxhumana nabasebenzi bakho
Xoxani ngendlovu egumbini. Kuzoba nzima kubasebenzi ukuthi bazwakalise ukungagculiseki kwabo ngempatho ekhethekile etholwa ngumlingani. Uma, noma kunjalo, kukhona ukungena futhi kubhekwa njengokuqhubeka futhi wonke umuntu ngokubambisana nangokusobala ubheka izingqinamba ezingaba khona, maningi amathuba okuthi le mizwa izophuma futhi ikwazi ukubhekelwa.
7. Nyakazisa izindima zakho
Isidlali vs isilondolozi. Inamandla eyodwa futhi eyodwa endimeni engaphansi. Nyakazisa izinto. Uma omunye wenu engumphathi emsebenzini mhlawumbe nikwazi ukuba ngaphansi kwegumbi lokulala. Hlanganisa. Kwesinye isikhathi ukusebenzisa ushintsho olulodwa noma ukuzenzela kungasiza ukwethula amandla okudlala kubo bobabili ubudlelwano namandla asebenzayo.
Ngokuzikhumbuza ngobumnene ngophathina owathandana naye ungayeka ukuletha izingqinamba ezineminyaka yobudala efanayo kokubili ekhaya nasehhovisi.