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- 1. Thola umsebenzi ofanele
- 2. Yenza isikhala sesikhathi sakho
- 3. Cela usizo
- 4.Chitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane
Ukuba ngumzali ongayedwa enganeni ngenkathi ngasikhathi sinye kufanele uphathe izibopho zokunakekela ikhaya nazo zonke izindleko akuwona umsebenzi olula.
Kaningi, kuphumela kwimpilo engenampilo nengcindezelayo, hhayi kumzali kuphela kepha nasenganeni.
Iningi labesifazane liphoqwa ukuba ngumama ongayedwa ngenxa yezimo zabo, futhi noma bembalwa abesifazane ababa ngomama abangabodwa ngokuzikhethela, akungabazeki ukuthi kuyibhalansi eyinselele ukubhekana nayo.
Olunye ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yabesifazane abasebenzayo ibhekana nobunzima ekulinganiseni umsebenzi nomndeni ngenxa yengcindezi yokusebenza ngokweqile, isikhathi esincane kakhulu kubo, kanye nesidingo sokufeza okulindelwe abanye kubo.
Izibopho ozihlukanisa nomlingani wakho ngokungazelelwe ziwela ethangeni lakho. Ngokuphazima kweso, kufanele ube ngubaba nomama ezinganeni zakho.
Kufanele unakekele inhlalakahle yabo futhi unake ukukhula kwabo okunempilo kanye nokusingatha zonke izindleko okufanele uthole umsebenzi ezizokusiza ukuthi uqhubeke nale ndlela yokuphila ephithizelayo!
Kuyintambo yokuhambahamba yomama abaningi abangabodwa emhlabeni wonke.
Okuningi kuncike ekutheni unezingane ezingaki nokuthi zineminyaka emingaki. Kuwo wonke umuntu, kuyindaba ehlukile nxazonke, futhi akekho ongakunika 'ikhambi elilodwa lomlingo,' elizokusiza uqukethe izinselelo zokulinganisela kwempilo yokuphila komama.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukuzivumelanisa nezinguquko ezikuzungezile futhi uthole isisombululo esisebenzela kangcono izinselelo zomama abangabodwa.
Buka futhi:
Kuzofanele wenze imihlatshelo eminingi usendleleni, kodwa ngenxa yengane yakho, uzokwazi ukuyenza.
Isixazululo sempilo njengomama ongayedwa sihlala sigcina ibhalansi enempilo phakathi - kwezempilo yomuntu siqu, eyasekhaya nokunakekela izingane, nomsebenzi wakho.
Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzilungiselela futhi uhlele okuza kuqala kuwe.
Nawa amanye amathiphu omama abangabodwa angakusiza ekutholeni ibhalansi phakathi komsebenzi nekhaya.
1. Thola umsebenzi ofanele
Ukusebenza kufanele ukondle ingane yakho kungumthelela oqinisekile. Njengoba zonke izindleko zasekhaya zehlela kuwe, kuwumsebenzi ongeke uhlehliswe noma ngabe ufuna ukuhlala nengane yakho.
Manje, njengomama ongayedwa othola umsebenzi ofanele ozokuvumela ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esihle nengane yakho futhi unikeze imali engenayo eyanele yokondla ikhaya futhi izindleko zomuntu siqu kuyinto engeke yenzeke.
Ekugcineni, nguwe ozodinga ukuzivumelanisa nezimo futhi uzenze ufanele impilo ozithola ukuyo.
Ngicela ungangichazi kabi! Ungawuthola ngokuphelele umsebenzi owuthandayo, futhi ngasikhathi sinye, uchithe isikhathi nezingane zakho, kepha njengoba ngishilo, kuzofanele uhambe phezu kwentambo ebucayi.
Imvamisa kuzodingeka udele umndeni wakho ngenxa yomthwalo wakho womsebenzi noma okuphambene nalokho uma kuba nenkinga yomndeni.
Uhlobo lomsebenzi onalo nalo luzothinta kakhulu indlela osisebenzisa ngayo isikhathi sakho nezingane zakho.
Ukuba nomsebenzi wasehhovisi kusho umsebenzi we-9 kuye ku-5, kepha futhi kuphumela ekuhlukaneni phakathi komsebenzi nekhaya; ngakho-ke, uma uhlakaniphile, unganika ingane yakho isikhathi ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngomsebenzi wakho.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukusebenza njenge-freelancer noma ukusebenza-ekhaya kuzokuvumela ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esithe xaxa ekhaya nezingane zakho.
Kodwa-ke, ngeke kuzuze lutho uma ungakwazi ukulinganisela umsebenzi wakho nesibopho sakho njengomama.
Yonke inhlobo yomsebenzi inezinzuzo zayo. Kepha kungasiza kakhulu uma ukhuluma nomphathi wakho noma noma ubani osebenza ngaphansi kwakhe, futhi ubenze baqonde isikhundla sakho.
Iningi labantu lithambekele ekusizeni abanye, futhi ungabaqinisekisa ukuthi umsebenzi wakho ngeke uthinteke uma uvunyelwe isikhathi esithe xaxa sehhovisi. Ngethembe. Akukho okubi ekubuzeni.
2. Yenza isikhala sesikhathi sakho
Njengomama ongayedwa, Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ungakhohlwa ukuzinika isikhathi esithile sangasese.
Lapho usebenza phakathi komsebenzi, ikhaya nengane, ungakhohlwa ukunakekela inhlalakahle yakho.
Imvamisa umthwalo wokusebenza awukuvumeli ukuba ube nesikhathi “sami”, kepha okudingayo ukuqonda impilo yakho engokwengqondo nengokomzimba ibaluleke ngendlela efanayo.
Ukungazinaki izidingo zakho kungaholela ekwakhekeni kwengcindezi kanye nokungeneliseki, okuqala kancane kodwa okuqala ukuthinta indlela ophila ngayo nsuku zonke, okuzobe sekuphazamisa ubuhlobo bakho nengane yakho kanye nekhwalithi yomsebenzi wakho.
Uma ukwazi ukuhlela impilo yakho ngokwanele ukuze unikeze isikhathi esithile samahhala, khona-ke usuvele uzenzela kahle.
Awudingi ukuchitha yonke iminithi yamahhala emsebenzini wakho nezingane zakho. Udinga ukuthola izindlela zokuzikhulula kukho konke ukucindezeleka okwakha ngaphezu kwesonto.
Ukuthola umdlalo wokuzilibazisa noma omunye umsebenzi kungahamba ibanga elide ekukhanyeni umoya wakho. Kepha usadinga ukuphuma endlini ngesinye isikhathi.
Udinga ukuzikhulula kulo mthwalo, owela ngokushesha ekhanda lakho ngokushesha nje lapho ungena endlini.
Phumela ngaphandle, uzihlanganise nabantu, uthathe iziphuzo ezimbalwa nabangani bakho, niye nosuku, nixhumane nomuntu nganoma yini ekujabulisayo.
Ukuzitika ngale ndlela kuzovuselela uhlelo lwakho olumatasa. Ungaqasha umuntu ogcina izingane ukuthi anakekele izingane ukuze ungakhathazeki ngazo sonke isikhathi.
Noma ungacela omakhelwane bakho noma abangane ukuthi bababheke. Lokhu futhi kungiletha ephuzwini lami elilandelayo.
3. Cela usizo
Akunamahloni okucela usizo. Awuyena umuntu ongaphezu komuntu okufanele athwale yonke imithwalo yemfanelo kuye.
Akubona ubuthakathaka ukucela usizo, futhi ukuziqhenya kwakho ngeke kwenze ingane yakho ijabule ngokwengeziwe. Ukuthatha isisindo esikhulu kuwe, ekuhambeni kwesikhathi, kuzokuthinta kabi wena nengane yakho.
Futhi, cabanga ukuthi uzokwenzenjani uma ungagula? Awulona irobhothi. Ungumuntu ofanelwe ukujabula.
Abantu abaseduze kwakho bavame ukuba nobuntu futhi bahlala bekulungele ukusiza.
Abangani bakho nomndeni wakho bazojabula kakhulu ngokuthembela kwakho okukhombisa kubo, futhi bazokuqiniseka ukuthi nawe wenza kahle. Okuvame ukuvela ngokucela usizo “unecala likamama ongayedwa.”
Ungazizwa uhluleka ukuxhasa ingane yakho ngakho-ke kufanele ucele usizo, ukuthi awuyenzi ngokwanele ingane yakho nokuthi uzicabangela wena wedwa.
Uzozizwa unecala ngokungabi umzali omuhle enganeni yakho. Kepha ngethembe, leli cala ngeke lisize wena noma ingane yakho. Ukuzizwa unecala kuyinto ejwayelekile, kepha nawe kufanele ubhekane namaqiniso.
Zazise, ngokwenza kahle, futhi ukwazise ukushiyeka kwakho. Kwesinye isikhathi ukubeka phambili wena noma umsebenzi wakho ngaphezu kwezingane zakho kulungile impela, futhi ekugcineni, ukwenzela lokhu.
4.Chitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane
Manje abokuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu izingane zakho. Ngaphandle kohlobo lomsebenzi wakho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi usebenzise isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane zakho.
Ngesikhathi sekhwalithi, angisho ukuthi usebenza kwikhompyutha yakho ephathekayo noma ephathekayo ngenkathi unikeza uhhafu wendlebe kulokho okushiwo noma okwenziwa yingane yakho, kodwa ukubanaka ngokugcwele futhi ubathande basebenzise ingxenye yesikhathi sakho benza imisebenzi kubo.
Bayise esidlweni sasemini, ulalele ukuthi kwenzekani esikoleni sabo nokuthi yini okusha abakufundile, iya lapho ukuncintisana komdanso noma imidlalo yebhola likanobhutshuzwayo.
Vele, njengomama ongayedwa, awukwazi ukukwenza konke lokhu noma ngabe ufisa ukukwenza, ngakho-ke beka phambili lokho okwenza ingane yakho ijabule.
Kufanele futhi unake ukuthi wenza kanjani lapho ubazungezile; izingane zifunda ngesibonelo sabazali bazo.
Ngakho-ke, sebenzisa isikhathi ongasisebenzisa nabo ngenkathi uzijabulisa futhi ubathanda. Futhi smile!
Yazisa izingane zakho ukuthi ujabulile ngazo futhi ungazenzi zizizwe njengomthwalo.
Noma izingane zingakuqondi, ziyakuzwa, ngakho-ke yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukukhohlwa izinkathazo zakho ezizungezile.
Ukuvumelana nezimo endleleni osebenzelana ngayo nezingane zakho nakho kuyaqhubeka kukusiza kakhulu. Kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi akuwona amarobhothi, futhi ngeke balandele inqubo oyenzile.
Bajwayele ukungaziphathi kahle bese bephula imithetho, ngakho-ke kuzofanele uthole indlela yakho yokubhekana nalaba bantu abahluphayo.
Kungaba yinselele ukugcina ingane engalawuleki (futhi izingane aziziphathi njengomthetho) ezifuna ukunakwa njalo, kepha qaphela njalo ukuthi ungakhipheli ingane yakho ingcindezi, leyo akuyona inketho engcono kakhulu ongayikhetha nhlobo.
Okubalulekile ekugcineni ukuthi uhlale ubathanda futhi ubazisa ukuthi bayathandwa.
Njengomama ongayedwa, kuzodingeka wenze ukuzidela okuningi futhi unxephezele ngamaphutha amaningi.
Kungumsebenzi odinga inhliziyo enkulu ukubhekana nawo. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi awuwedwa. Kukhona njalo abanye abazokusiza, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele wamukele ukwehluleka kwakho bese uqhubekela phambili.
Njengomama ongayedwa osebenzayo, ngeke kube khona ukwehlukana okuqinile phakathi kwempilo yakho yokusebenza nekhaya lakho.
Nakanjani zizongena kwesinye isikhathi noma kwesinye, kepha kufanele uzenzele ibhalansi yakho phakathi kwalokhu okubili, futhi kukuwe ukuthi ukwenza kanjani okuhle kakhulu.
Ekugcineni, akekho owazi noma othanda ingane yakho ngaphezu kwakho.