Abesifazane banohlu olude lwezinto abafisa ukuthi abayeni babo bayeke ukuzenza. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukuphonsa amasokisi akhe phansi noma ukushiya imvuthu ekhawunteni kodwa okucasula kakhulu ukudlulisa ubungani bakho ngokudlala ngothando. Abesilisa bavame ukucabanga ukuthi omkabo badlala ngothando namanye amadoda lapho bezenzela nje futhi bebonisa imikhuba emihle. Yize kuyacasula futhi kukhungathekise kwesinye isikhathi, kunesizathu sesayensi ngemuva kwako.
Nakhu ukuthi kungani umyeni wakho ecabanga ukuthi uthandana namanye amadoda.
Ukungaqondi kahle ngokocansi
Abesilisa bavame ukucabanga ukuthi abesifazane bayadlala ngothando uma bemane benesizotha ngenxa yesimo esibizwa kabi ngokuya ocansini. Lesi simo asibangelwa umyeni wakho kuphela ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi udlala ngothando namanye amadoda kepha yisizathu esenza ukuthi amanye amadoda enze iphutha ngesimo sakho sobungane njengophawu lwentshisekelo. Ukungaqondi kahle ngokobulili empeleni kungukungaqondi kahle kwezintshisekelo zocansi. Ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kungumphumela oqondile wethiyori yokuphathwa kwamaphutha. Bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda aguqukele ekuqondeni ngokweqile ubungani besifazane ngesikhathi sokuxhumana ukuze kugwenywe ukuphuthelwa yithuba lokukhiqiza futhi lokudlulisa izakhi zofuzo.
Umphumela Wokuziphendukela Kwemvelo
Vele, emphakathini wanamuhla, amadoda awagxili ekuzaliseni kodwa ukuqonda okusele kusekhona! Amasiko nawo kufanele asolwe kodwa ngokwocwaningo, awudlali indima enkulu njengoba ungacabanga. Ngo-2003, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zaseNorway zanquma ukuhlola le nto phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane eNorway, izwe elaziwa ngokulingana ngokobulili. Imininingwane yabe iqhathaniswa nezifundo ezenziwe e-United States futhi imiphumela yayifana kakhulu ekhomba ekuziphendukeleni kwemvelo njengembangela enkulu.
Okusemqoka
Ngokwososayensi, abesilisa babonakala bethambekele kanzima ekwenzeni amaphutha ngemikhuba nokuxhumana okungeyona eyezocansi ngokudlala ngothando. Indlela enhle yokusingatha lo mphumela ohlangothini wokuziphendukela kwemvelo ukusungula ukwethembana ebudlelwaneni bakho. Lapho kunokuthembana emshadweni, umyeni wakho uzokwazi izinhloso zakho zangempela.