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- Yima, ulalele futhi unakekele - noma ngabe awunandaba ngempela
- Dlala, cabanga futhi ungazithatheli phezulu
- Thola injabulo enjabulweni yabo
- Yiba khona
Ukuzwa ukuthi "kunqanyuliwe" mhlawumbe yisikhalazo esivame kakhulu engisizwa yimibhangqwana enezingane.
Bachaza ngokulangazelela ukuxhumana okulula, "okungokwemvelo" ababenakho komunye nomunye esikhathini esidlule futhi bazizwa bekhungathekile ngokuthi imizamo yabo emihle kakhulu ebusuku bobusuku isabashiya bezizwa bekude komunye nomunye. Kuzwakala kujwayelekile?
Ngenkathi thina (nangokuthi "thina", ngiqonde ukuthi wonke ama-Hugh Grant rom-com laphaya), sithanda ukwenza ukuxhumana kubonakale njengenhlansi engenamandla yomlingo, empilweni yangempela, ukuxhumana kuyinto oyidalayo. Futhi ukhulise. Futhi wondle.
Akuveli nje ngomlingo ngoba uhleli ngaphesheya kwepuleti le-sushi enentengo ephezulu.
Ku yakha ubudlelwano obuqinile nomlingani wakho, kufanele ukwenze kwenzeke.
Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi, nobabili senizazi izindlela eziningi zokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana ebudlelwaneni benu. Eqinisweni, mhlawumbe usebenzisa amakhono akho wokwakha uxhumano kaningi ngosuku nezingane zakho.
Enye indlela elula yokuvuselela isibopho sakho nomlingani wakho ukusebenzisa amakhono okuba ngumzali noma iseluleko sokuba ngumzali usebenzisa zonke izinsuku — kodwa nomlingani wakho.
Ungamangala ukuthi lezi zilula ezine ‘ukuxhumana nengane yakho ' amakhono angasiza ekuvuseleleni imishado futhi akhulise ubudlelwano obuqinile:
Yima, ulalele futhi unakekele - noma ngabe awunandaba ngempela
Ingane yakho ibuya ekhaya isenkingeni ifuna ukuchaza imininingwane emincane yokuthi uDebbie wayithatha kanjani ikhrayoni labo elibomvana futhi wayengalidingi ngisho neliphinki ngoba wayesevele enekhrayoni elikhanyayo elikhanyayo (inzwa!).
Wenzani? Uyeka lokhu okwenzayo, ulalela indaba, ubuza imibuzo, uzibuze ukuthi kungani uDebbie ebengumuntu onje, uzwelana nobuhlungu obucindezelayo bengane yakho ngekhrayoni elishiwoyo.
Ngamafuphi, ubabonisa ukuthi uyabakhathalela, hhayi ikhrayoni elibomvu elibomvana, kodwa ubakhathalela NGABO nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Kubatshela ukuthi babalulekile. Inkinga ukuthi, asihlali sibona ukuthi ophathina bethu badinga into efanayo ukuzizwa bexhunyiwe.
Ungahle ungabi nentshisekelo yokulalela imininingwane yemihlangano yamakhasimende noma isemina yokuthengisa.
Kepha uma ubeka eceleni imizwa yakho umzuzwana bese naka ngokuphelele lapho umlingani wakho ekhuluma ngokuthile okubalulekile kubo, uzomsiza azizwe ethandwa.
Akuwona wonke umuntu onentshisekelo ezintweni ezifanayo, futhi lokho kulungile impela. Kepha ukunika umlingani wakho isikhathi nokunaka ukuthi akhulume ngezinto ezibalulekile kubo kuyisinyathelo esisodwa sokuya engxoxweni exhumeke kakhudlwana.
Dlala, cabanga futhi ungazithatheli phezulu
Ungahle ukhathele ekugcineni kosuku, kepha usazothatha isikhathi sokwakha indiza yeLego noma ube nephathi yokuzenzisa itiye nengane yakho.
Abazali badlala nezingane zabo kepha kaningi kakhulu babekela isikhathi sokudlala izingane kuphela. Ukudlala kuyisango lozwela, uzwela nobuciko — amathuluzi abalulekile ekuxhumaneni kwangempela. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi se-playdate nomlingani wakho.
Bekani isikhathi sokuba ndawonye ungenayo i-ajenda ngaphandle kokuzithokozisa nganoma yini entanta esikebheni sakho, noma ngabe wabelana nge-ayisikhilimu sundae noma uthenga amathoyizi abantu abadala ekamelweni.
Akudingeki kube yisinselelo - noma umyalezo obhaliwe we-flirty emini (noma okungcono i-imeyili ye-NSFW) ungashintsha ithoni futhi usize ukufaka ubuhlobo bakho ngamandla avuselelwe nobungqabavu.
Thola injabulo enjabulweni yabo
Ungamangala ngokwazi kwezingane zakho ukujabula ngokulinganayo njalo lapho zizwa ingoma efanayo ye-Elmo. Okukumangaza, nakakhulu, yikhono lakho lokujabula nabo, okwesikhathi se-127 ngalolo suku.
Ngoba ngenkathi ungahle uthande ukuklinya leso silo esibomvu, esibomvu, uthola injabulo enjabulweni yengane yakho.
Kungaba njani ukwenza okufanayo kumlingani wakho? Ukuhlanganyela ezinkanukweni nenjabulo yabo? Ungakwenza kanjani yakha ubudlelwano obuqinile nomlingani wakho?
Kungaba yinto ebanzi njengokuhlela usuku olumangazayo enkundleni yemidlalo uma umlingani wakho ethanda umculo.
Kepha futhi kungahle kube lula njengokuthatha isikhashana ukubona inhlansi emehlweni abo lapho bechaza ukuzidela kwabo kwakamuva kwe-D & D futhi uzivumele uzwe ukugcwala okufanayo kwenjabulo owaziyo ukuthi bayayizwa.
Yiba khona
Lona omkhulu. Amandla amakhulu okuba khona. Izingane zikwenza ngokukhululekile futhi, lapho unazo, ngandlela thile uyakwazi ukutshela uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ukuthi zihlale phansi umzuzu ngenkathi uzibandakanya nomkhankaso wokuqina.
Kodwa-ke, lapho abalingani behlala ndawonye ekupheleni kosuku, uhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe lubuya nempindiselo.
Zama ukuvumela lolo hlu lwazo luthathe isihlalo futhi (luzosinda ihora lokunganakwa), beka phansi izingcingo, ucime izikrini bese uzivumela uthokozele okungenzeka nomlingani wakho uma wenza isikhala selungelo- manje ndawonye.
Lokhu konke kungabonakala kulula ukushiwo kunokukwenza, kepha khumbula ukuthi lokhu kunjalo iseluleko sokuba ngumzali namathuluzi onawo nenziwayo.
Ngokuzimisela okuthile, ukucabanga okuthile kanye nemvume yokuzivumela ukuthi ube semizweni yakho, ukuxhumana ongakulangazelela nomlingani wakho kungafinyeleleka.
Kepha uma udinga usizo lokulufinyelela, cabanga ngokwelashwa kwezithandani. Kuyindlela engakusiza ukuthi uveze noma yini engahle iphazamise ukuxhumana kwakho komunye nomunye.
Okwamanje, ngiya kobuka isiqephu esino-Elmo egibele ibhayisikili lakhe lesithathu ngenkathi ecula iculo lokugibela ibhayisikili lakhe lamabhayisikili amathathu. Futhi.