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- 1. Isibopho nengane yakho
- 2. Dlalani ndawonye
- 3. Bachazele imisebenzi abayenzayo
- 4. Bafundele
- 5. Yazisa ingane yakho ngezinhlamvu nezinombolo
Ungayenza kanjani ingane yakho ihlakaniphe? Lokhu mhlawumbe kungenye yemibuzo eminingi ehlupha abazali abancane kakhulu. Eqinisweni, uzoba nokuningi kokukwenza nendlela ingane yakho egcina ngayo ukuthi inobuhlakani futhi ihlakaniphile.
Kusukela ekudleni okudlayo nasemuthini owudlayo ngenkathi ukhulelwe kuze kufike emidlalweni oyidlalayo lapho isikhule ngokwanele ukuhlala nokugaqa, ithonya lakho ekukhuleni kwengqondo yengane yakho liyoba likhulu.
Eqinisweni, kunezindlela zokukhulisa amandla engqondo yengane yakho. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ube ngumzali onothando futhi othintekayo ozohlanganyela ngenjabulo emisebenzini ezokhuthaza ukukhula kwengqondo yengane yakho futhi ayivumele ikhule ibe ngumuntu ohlakaniphile ngisho nangaphambi kokubhalisa esikoleni samabanga aphansi.
Nazi ezinye zezindlela ezithokozisayo zokukhulisa izingane ezihlakaniphile -
1. Isibopho nengane yakho
Ngokusho kukaTracy Cutchlow, umhleli wencwadi ethi Brain Rules for Baby, ubuchopho bunentambo yokufuna ukuphepha, futhi uma ubuchopho bungazizwa buphephile, amandla ayo okufunda ayancipha.
Lesi yisona sizathu sokunikeza ingane yakho umuzwa wokuphepha kusenesikhathi ekukhuleni kwayo. Ukuthintana nesikhumba nesikhumba kungenye yezindlela ezinhle zokwakha umuzwa wokuphepha, kepha ubuso nobuso, ukubhucungwa ingane, ukukhuluma nengane yakho, nokugqoka ingane yakho nakho kuzosiza kakhulu ngalokho.
Ubudlelwano obuqinile nomlingani wakho nabo buyobaluleka kakhulu ekuhlanganeni nengane yakho, ngoba uzodinga ukwesekwa nosizo ekondleni, ekushintsheni, nasekulweni nokuncishwa ubuthongo ngenkathi uzama ukuba lapho ngomntanakho.
Bhala phansi imisebenzi yasekhaya, bese wenza isivumelwano nomlingani wakho ukuze wakhe indawo ezolisayo nenothando ukuze ingane yakho ikhule.
Gwema ukuba nezikhala phambi kwengane yakho, ukuze ungawubeki engcupheni lowo muzwa wokuphepha. Noma izingane zingawaqondi amagama, zizothinteka yimizwa phakathi kwenu nobabili futhi zizwe ukukhungatheka kwakho okungadala ukukhala nokuxabana.
2. Dlalani ndawonye
Noma nini lapho kungenzeka khona, zibandakanye ekudlaleni okuqondisiwe nengane yakho.
Lokhu kuzoqondisa ukunaka kwabo futhi kubanikeze izindlela ezintsha zokuhlola nokuqonda. Thola isikhathi sokudlala nomncane wakho nsuku zonke isikhashana ukuqinisa isibopho sakho kanye nokwenza ngcono amakhono abo okuqonda.
Yethula izinto ezizwayo, ezivusa amadlingozi ngesikhathi sakho sokudlala, bese ubenza bahlole amabhokisi amagugu agcwele izimpaphe, noma ubavumele babheke emgqonyeni wamabhamuza. Zizwe ukhululekile ukugcwalisa ubhavu wepulasitiki ngamanzi nensipho yokugeza ukuze inqwaba yenjabulo yakho iqhume amabhamuza kanye nawe.
Ukuxhumana komuntu nomuntu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokufundisa izingane, ngokusho kochwepheshe.
Eqinisweni, lokhu kungenye yezindlela zansuku zonke zokuthuthukisa ukukhula kwengqondo yengane yakho.
3. Bachazele imisebenzi abayenzayo
Ungayenza kanjani ingane yakho ihlakaniphe futhi ihlakaniphe? Ochwepheshe bathi ukukhuluma nengane yakho kungasiza kakhulu ekukhuleni kwayo kwengqondo. Okungukuthi, imicabango yokuqamba ehamba engqondweni yakho nsuku zonke izothuthukisa amandla engqondo yengane yakho ngoba ubuchopho bumayelana namaphethini wokufunda njengamagama.
Manje, lapho uphinda njalo kubo, bazofunda kangcono, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukulandisa usuku lwakho lonke nomsebenzi owenzayo kubo.
Lapho uzobafaka kwelinye lamaphilisi abo ezingane zemoto bese uhamba ngemoto eya esitolo, chaza zonke izenzo kubo. Batshele ukuthi ubabeka esihlalweni, ubabophe phezulu nokuthi uzohamba.
Futhi, khomba kubantu obajwayele nezinto ngesikhathi sokugibela, cula izingoma ezinamavesi aphindaphindwayo futhi uzigcine ubandakanyekile kulokho okwenzayo endleleni. Konke lokho kuzoqinisa amakhono abo okufunda, ukupela, nokubhala, ngokusho kongoti.
Zizwe ukhululekile ukusebenzisa womabili amagama anzima futhi alula, ukuze ulwazimagama lwengane yakho lucebe kwasekuqaleni.
4. Bafundele
Ukusiza ingane yakho ithuthukise isilulumagama esingokomzwelo futhi yakhe uzwela kanye nenqwaba yamanye amakhono, qala ukuyifundela isencane kakhulu.
Ukufunda ndawonye kuzokusiza ukuthi uhlangane kakhulu nengane yakho, kuyilapho kunciphisa nolaka nokukhathazeka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, akukho lutho oluzoshukumisa umcabango wengane yakho namandla okucabanga ngaphezu kwezincwadi ezinhle. Yingakho kufanele ufunde ingane yakho nsuku zonke kungakhathalekile isikhathi sosuku.
Izindaba zesikhathi sokulala ziyindlela enhle yokubalalisa, kepha ukuzifundela emini kuzocwebezela imicabango yabo ngenkathi begxile ngokuphelele kulokho okufundela bona. Ngezincwadi ezinemibala egqamile ezinemidwebo ehlukene nemifanekiso elula izobamba intshisekelo yengane yakho.
Ngenkathi izingane zivamise ukuba zifundelwe incwadi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ekugcineni zizoba nentshisekelo yokuhlola neminye imisebenzi.
5. Yazisa ingane yakho ngezinhlamvu nezinombolo
Ngenkathi ungajabula ukufundela ingane yakho, ukuyivumela ukuthi izenzele yodwa futhi kungumbono omuhle futhi onconywayo.
Benze bazame ukufunda incwadi abayithandayo ngisho nangaphambi kokuba baqale ukuya esikoleni futhi baqale ukubala ekhaya ngesikhathi sakho sokudlala. Bafundise izincwadi abangazikhomba emabhodini nasezimpawu zomgwaqo njengoba uhamba emgwaqweni. Yenza ulwazi lwabo lwesikole lube lula ngokubachazela igama elibhaliwe kusenesikhathi.
Bazokuqonda futhi bakutadishe kalula uma sekuyisikhathi uma ngabe bebejwayelene nalolu daba phambilini.