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- Izifungo zomshado ezingokoqobo
- Izifungo zomshado ezihlekisayo
- Izifungo zomshado ezibonisa isiko lakho elilodwa noma womabili
- Izinkondlo zezifungo
Izifungo zomshado zendabuko esizijwayele zavela eNgilandi futhi zabuyela ezikhathini zasendulo. Kusukela lapho, imibhangqwana ithembise "ukuthandana, ukuhlonipha nokwazisana" phambi komndeni nabangane, isebenzisa isethi yamagama efanayo kuwo wonke la makhulu eminyaka.
Imibhangqwana yesimanje iyaqhubeka nokushintshanisa lezi zifungo, ikakhulukazi labo abafisa ukuba nomshado wakudala ongafani noweskripthi esivivinywe isikhathi. Ngempela, kunento enhle ekuzwa izifungo zomshado sonke esizibonayo. Yize izivakashi zazi la mazwi alula ngekhanda, izinyembezi zisalindelwe ukuthi zizokhaliswa ngesikhathi umakoti nomkhwenyana sebefika “kuzoba nokubamba, kusukela kulolu suku kuqhubeke, kube ngcono, kubi, kucebe, kubampofu, kunokugula nasempilweni enhle, size sihlukaniswe ukufa. ”
Kepha imibhangqwana eminingi ifisa ukushintshanisa izifungo ezizimele kakhulu futhi eziseduze nezinhliziyo zazo kunalezo ezisetshenziswe kusukela eminyakeni ephakathi. Bazizwa beqinile ukuthi ukudala izifungo zomshado eziqondene nomuntu siqu kuzoba yinto ekhumbuleka ngokwengeziwe kubo kanye nasezihambeleni. Uma uphakathi kwale mibhangqwana efisa ukubeka isitembu emcimbini wakho womshado, nayi eminye imibono ezokhipha amajusi wakho wokudala futhi ikukhuthaze ukuthi wenze le ngxenye yomshado wakho ibe ngeyakho.
Izifungo zomshado ezingokoqobo
Ufunde izifungo zakudala futhi akukho lutho kuzo olubonakala lukhuluma nawe nempilo yengoduso yakho nokulindelwe ikusasa. Ungathanda ukushintshanisa izifungo ezingaphezulu kwekhulu lama-21. Kungani ungacabangi ngamanye amagama azodlulisa okufunayo emshadweni? Kokuhle noma okubi, impela, kepha mhlawumbe ukukubuyekeza lokhu ngokuthi “Uthando lwami kuwe yimali yethu ebhange, futhi ngethemba lokuthi izosinika inzalo nezinzuzo — mahhala ngaphandle kwentela! —Yayo yonke iminyaka yethu sindawonye.” Ekuguleni nasempilweni kunganikezwa ithuba lesimanje ngokwengeziwe ngokuthi “Noma ngabe uncintisana nomncintiswano wakho we-6 we-Ironman, noma usebenzisa ibhokisi lakho lesigidi lezicubu ngoba i-hay fever isebenza, yazi ukuthi ngizoba khona lapho sikujabulise (noma sikujwayele) kuze kube phakade. ”
Lezi izibonelo ezimbalwa nje, kepha iphuzu ukufaka amagama akhombisa ubuqiniso besimo sakho, konke lokhu ngenkathi kukhumbuza izivakashi zakho ngothando olukuhlanganisile.
Izifungo zomshado ezihlekisayo
Uma nobabili nithanda amahlaya futhi nidume ngokuba amahlaya, kungaba kuhle ukufaka amahlaya ezifungweni zenu zomshado. Inzuzo enhle ezifungweni zomshado ezihlekisayo ukuthi zingadlulisa noma yikuphi ukwesaba ongase ube nakho ngokuma phambi kwabantu abaningi, futhi unikeze isikhashana esihle senhliziyo ekhanyayo phakathi komkhosi ovame ukubucayi. Ungafuna ukugwema amahlaya ayimfihlo aqondwa nguwe kuphela nesoka lakho (njengoba izivakashi zakho zingenayo nencazelo yokuthi kungani lokhu kuhlekisa) futhi unqamule noma yimaphi amahlaya angahunyushwa njengokugxekwa okufihliwe ngomuntu othembisene naye, njengokuthi “ Uyabona le ring? Empeleni kuyibhola neketanga. Ngakho-ke angisazukudlala ngothando nonobhala wakho kusukela namuhla! ” (Ikakhulukazi ayihlekisi uma isoka lakho belinedumela lokuba yindoda yamantombazane ngaphambi kwakho.) Hlala nokuhlekisa okulula, okulula ukuthi wonke umuntu “akuthole”, futhi ngeke kubaphoxe abantu abadala abakhona.
Izifungo zomshado ezibonisa isiko lakho elilodwa noma womabili
Uma ushada nomuntu onolimi lwendabuko oluhlukile kunolwakho, kungani ungabambi umcimbi ngazo zombili izilimi? Lokhu kuzothinta ikakhulukazi lezo zivakashi ezingase zingabi yizilimi ezimbili. Kuyindlela ezwakalayo yokwazisa inhlonipho yakho ngohlobo lwamasiko obudlelwano bakho, futhi ukhombise ukuthi amasiko womabili azohlala eyingxenye yomndeni wakho. Esikhundleni sokuhumushela izifungo zendabuko zaseMelika kolunye ulimi, cwaninga ukuthi izifungo zomshado zikuphi isiko, bese uzisebenzisa njengengxenye yomcimbi, ngazo zombili izinhlobo nangolimi lwawo. Noma ngabe ezinye zezihambeli zingaqondi ezinye izifungo, zizozwa uthando olukhonjiswayo njengoba wabelana ngala magama angaphandle.
Izinkondlo zezifungo
Uma ngabe omunye wenu engabalobi noma izimbongi zokudala, kungani ungabhali izifungo zakho njengenkondlo? Ungafaka uhlobo olubhaliwe kuhlelo oludlulisela kuzivakashi njengesikhumbuzo esizwakalayo, futhi, ngokwenu, nibe nenkondlo eyabhalwa ephepheni lesikhumba, noma ithungwe ngendwangu, futhi yakhelwe indlu yenu.
Uma uzithanda izinkondlo kodwa ungabaza usemsebenzini wokubhala inkondlo ngezifungo zakho, chitha isikhathi ucwaninga ngalezi zimbongi zothando. Ukuphinda inkondlo eyodwa noma eziningana ngokwesimo somkhosi wakho kungaba yindlela yezinkondlo yokuveza indlela ozizwa ngayo ngomunye nomunye:
- U-Elizabeth Barrett Browning
- UWilliam Yeats
- UWilliam Wordsworth
- U-Emily Dickinson
- UWilliam Shakespeare
- UChristopher Marlowe
- Ukuqhuma kwe-E.E
- URainer Maria Rilke
- UKahlil Gibran
- UPablo Neruda
Khumbula, asikho isizathu sokuthi awukwazi ukwenza ngezifiso izifungo zakho zomshado ngokufaka izitayela ezahlukahlukene ezahlukahlukene. Ungawakha umkhosi wakho ngesisekelo sezifungo zendabuko, bese ufaka enkondlweni noma amabili, amagama ambalwa wothando nezethembiso, bese uvale ngengoma. Okubalulekile ukuthi noma yini eshiwo ngesifungo iyasho kini nobabili, futhi yabelana nalabo ababona inyunyana yenu ukubonakaliswa okuyiqiniso kwethemba lenu lekusasa elide, elinothando ndawonye. Njengoba izifungo zakudala zisho, “nize nihlukane nokufa.”