-Delile
- Gcina okulindelwe kuhlolwe
- Sebenzela bobabili ubudlelwano
- Misa imithetho yasekhaya
- Xhumana, xhumana, futhi uxhumane
- Zwana ngemibono nezikhulu zakudala
- Bheka owelapha
Ukuthandana nothile okwesibili nxazonke kungaba mnandi kakhulu kunakuqala. Kepha, izinto zingaba nzima kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngomshado wesibili nezingane.
Uma ulibangise ezweni lomshado wesibili nezingane, uyazi ukuthi kuzoba nezinkampani zokubhekana nazo, ubudlelwano nezingane ozokuthola, kanye nomndeni wonke ozoqala ngosuku lokuqala.
Iningi lezibalo ligodliwe ukuphinde ushade nezingane, futhi imishado yesibili yehluleka ngisho nangaphezu kwemishado yokuqala. Kepha, ngokufaka ukuzikhandla nothando oluningi, ukwenza umshado wesibili usebenze akuyona yonke into enzima kangako.
Isihluthulelo ukulungela noma yini engaqhamuka kuwe, futhi uguquguquke ngasikhathi sinye.
Ngakho-ke funda ukuze uthole ukuqonda ngezinkinga zomshado wesibili nokuthi ungazisingatha kanjani. Amathiphu abalulekile abhalwe ngezansi angakusiza ekuzulazuleni emshadweni wakho wesibili nasezinganeni.
Gcina okulindelwe kuhlolwe
Ungaba usingamama omusha noma usingayise omusha, kodwa izingane zingaba nemibono eyehlukile. Kungabathatha isikhashana ukukufudumeza, uma kunjalo. Ekuqaleni, bangazizwa becasukile noma bengaqiniseki ukuthi bazokuphatha kanjani.
Kuya ngokuthi uphele kanjani umshado wokuqala, kanye nobudlelwano babo nomzali ngamunye ohlukanisile, kungenzeka noma ungabi nabo ubudlelwano obuhle.
Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ugcine okulindelwe kwakho kuhlolwe. Ungangeni emshadweni ucabanga ukuthi ungumuntu ophakeme noma owesifazane ovelele nokuthi uzolungisa yonke into, noma ugcwalise isikhala, noma uzwane nezingane.
Kungenzeka, futhi kungenzeki. Vele unqume ukuba lapho futhi uzame okusemandleni akho, noma ngabe uhambo luni.
Sebenzela bobabili ubudlelwano
Lapho ushada, wenzele izingane zoshade naye, umndeni wabo uhlala uyingxenye yesivumelwano-abazali babo, izingane zakwabo, njll.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma lona kungumshado wesibili futhi nezingane zibandakanyekile. Ngakho-ke kusukela osukwini lokuqala, kuzoba nabantu abasha abaningi endlini yakho.
Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi mhlawumbe ubukhathazekile ngokwakha ubudlelwane obujulile nomlingani wakho omusha, wazi ukuthi nawe udinga ukwakha ubudlelwano nezingane.
Abazi kahle okwamanje, ngakho-ke ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi sekhwalithi kubalulekile. Thola ukuthi bathanda ukwenzani — njengokuhamba ngebhayisikili, ukuya kumamuvi, ezemidlalo, njll. —Bese uzihlanganise nabo kulezo zinto. Noma, thola isikhathi esisodwa-esisodwa ukuthola u-ayisikhilimu.
Ngasikhathi sinye, qiniseka ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi sekhwalithi nomlingani wakho omusha, futhi. Usuku lwasebusuku alunakuxoxiswana. Zama ukuchitha isikhathi esithile sothando noshade naye okungenani kanye ngempelasonto.
Futhi, yenzani imizamo yokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye njengeyunithi yomndeni ukulwa nezinselelo zomshado wesibili! Isidlo sakusihlwa, umsebenzi wegceke, imisebenzi yangoMgqibelo, njll. Yonke le yimibono emihle yokubopha umndeni kanye nokunqoba izinkinga zomshado wesibili.
Misa imithetho yasekhaya
Ukuphinda ushade nezingane akuyona into elula. Lapho uphinda ushada, izingane zingazizwa sengathi ziphonswa esimweni esisha, kanti konke kunenxushunxushu. Abazi ukuthi yini abangayilindela, futhi lokho kungasabisa.
Qiniseka ukuthi uhlinzeka ngesakhiwo nokucacile okulindelwe kusuka ekuhambeni. Hlalani phansi njengomndeni nizame ukubaduduza ngemithetho emisha yasekhaya.
Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi izingane zinikela ngokufaka kokulindelekile nemiphumela ukuze zingazizwa zinamandla ngezinguquko ezingafuneki. Uma ushada futhi nezingane, kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zicabange ukuthi nazo, ziyingxenye ebaluleke ngokulinganayo ekwenzeni izinqumo.
Bhala yonke imithetho yasekhaya bese uyithumela, bese ubhekisa kuyo njengoba kudingeka lapho uthuthela emshadweni wesibili nezingane ezihilelekile.
Kepha, futhi bona ukuthi zingashintshwa uma kudingeka. Setha umhlangano womndeni esikhathini esingangenyanga noma ngaphezulu, ukuze uvakashele imithetho yasekhaya bese nixoxa ngokuthi izinto zihamba kanjani.
Xhumana, xhumana, futhi uxhumane
Ngakho-ke, ungawenza kanjani umshado wesibili usebenze?
Noma kunjalo, kuzwakala kuzwakala, ukuxhumana kuyisihluthulelo!
Wena nomlingani wakho omusha kufanele nivumelane ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze umshado wesibili nezingane nisebenze, nokuthi umndeni ugeleze kahle.
Lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele ukhulume ngokungaguquguquki nangempumelelo. Uma uyigcina kuwe imizwa yakho, ngeke kusebenze, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka ushada okwesibili nengane ethintekayo.
Ngakho-ke, khulumani ngokuthi ungazikhulisa kanjani izingane kangcono, khuluma ngezinkinga njengoba zivela, futhi nibe ekhasini elilodwa nomunye. Hlala unemizila yokuxhumana evulekile maqondana nokuphatha umshado wakho wesibili nezingane.
Zwana ngemibono nezikhulu zakudala
Ngeshwa, emishadweni yesibili, kuzoba khona okungenani oyedwa owedlule, uma kungenjalo ababili, ukubhekana naye.
Futhi, ikakhulukazi emshadweni wesibili nezingane ezihilelekile, lowo ozohlala njalo uyoba yingxenye ebalulekile yezimpilo zabo, ngakho-ke, wena nezimpilo zoshade naye.
Kungokwenzuzo yakho futhi kuyinzuzo yomshado wakho wesibili nezingane ukuba nibambisane ngangokunokwenzeka. Awudingi ukuthanda owedlule noma owakwakho, kepha udinga ukuba nobudlelwano obuhle uma ukwazi.
Yiba mnandi, ulandele umthetho nezinhlelo, futhi ube nethemba ezinganeni zakho ngazo. Ngokusobala, ungabavumeli bakusizakale, kodwa isimo sakho sengqondo sizokusiza kakhulu.
Bheka owelapha
Noma kungekho "okungahambi kahle" emshadweni wakho wesibili nasezinganeni ngasese, kusengumqondo omuhle ukuhlala nomelaphi njengomndeni, njengombhangqwana nanjengabantu ngabanye.
Ungahlala ufuna usizo kumeluleki noma kumelaphi futhi uthole isisombululo esihlakaniphile sokuthi ungatshela kanjani ingane yakho ukuthi uzophinde ushade noma ukuthi ungayisiza kanjani ingane yakho ukwamukela umshado wesibili.
Hlola ukuthi wonke umuntu ukuphi, khuluma ngokukhululeka, futhi uxoxe nganoma yiziphi izingqinamba ezedlule ezidinga ukuxazululwa, bese wenza izinhloso.
Wonke umuntu udinga ukungena ekhasini elifanayo, futhi indlela enhle yokwenza lokho ukubona umeluleki womndeni oqeqeshiwe.
Lezi ngezinye zezeluleko ezibalulekile ngomshado wesibili nezingane okufanele uzicabangele lapho ucabanga ngokuzibandakanya ekushadeni futhi. Futhi, uma usuvele ungene emshadweni lapho omunye wenu ephinde washada khona, lawa macebiso ngomshado wesibili nezingane angakusiza futhi akusize uzulazule kuzinkinga uma zikhona.
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