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- 1. Ukungazethembi
- 2. Ukuzwisa ubuhlungu
- 3. Ukusabela ekusongelweni
- 4. Ukwenza indlela yakhe
- 5. Ukwesaba okungafanele
- 6. Ukulindela okukhulu
- 7. Ukuphelelwa isineke
- 8. Funa ukunakwa
Akekho okhononda ngaphandle kwesizathu ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngabesifazane. Abekho abesifazane abathanda ukukhononda nokukhononda usuku lonke, kodwa-ke, uma bekhononda kunesizathu salokho.
Kunezizathu ezithile ezijwayelekile zokuthi owesifazane akhononde njengokungavumelani nomyeni wakhe, inkinga yezezimali noma ukungahlonishwa; kodwa akupheleli lapho. Abanye besifazane bayakhalaza ngenxa yemvelo yabo yobugovu kanti abanye bayakhalaza futhi banezizathu ezizwakalayo zalokho.
Ezishiwo ngezansi kunezinye zezizathu ezijwayelekile zokuthi kungani abesifazane bekhononda, qhubeka ufunda ukuze uthole owakho owesifazane
1. Ukungazethembi
Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezivame kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane akhononde.
Lapho ezizwa engavikelekile, uzovele azibikele futhi akhononde, uzobuza indoda yakhe ngezwi elisolisayo futhi akhononde ngendlela yokubuza imibuzo.
Lokhu kuyabasiza ekufuneni izimpawu zokungathembeki; Uzokhalaza ngokungasebenzisi isikhathi naye futhi angafuna nokufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubematasa nobani.
Ukubhekana nalolu hlobo lowesifazane ungachitha isikhathi naye kalula, umnikeze ukufinyelela kokungasese kwakho futhi umkhombise ukuthi awunakho ukufihla.
Lalela ukuthi uthini futhi kungekudala kuzolunga konke.
2. Ukuzwisa ubuhlungu
Abanye besifazane banomkhuba wokubamba amagqubu bese bephendukela ekuziphindiseleni nasekuphindiseleni; ukwenza lokhu, basebenzisa ukubelesela njengesikhali.
Ngeke bame kuze kube yilapho umfana wabo ekhathele futhi edlula esihogweni; ukuphatha lo wesifazane kungcono ukuba phambili. Mtshele zisuka nje ukuthi amazwi akhe akulimaze kangakanani, uxolise bese ucela uxolo. Thatha isikhathi sokuba naye futhi umenze aqonde ukuthi usho ukuthini kuwe, lokhu kuzosiza ekwenzeni abeke phansi isikhali sakhe.
3. Ukusabela ekusongelweni
Abanye besifazane bavame ukukhononda njengendlela yokuzivikela ikakhulukazi uma bebheka amadoda abo njengosongo kubo. Bayakhalaza futhi bathanda ukukhombisa umuntu wabo ukuthi uyalingana nabo.
Ukuphatha lo wesifazane kubalulekile ukumazisa ukuthi wena ungasohlangothini lwakhe. Futhi, gwema ukuba nolaka kuye.
4. Ukwenza indlela yakhe
Abanye besifazane banobuntu bokuhlukumeza; bazama ukukhononda nokububula ukuze bathole abakufunayo. Konke lokhu kuyingxenye yohlelo lwabo namaqhinga abo. Ukuze ukwazi ukuphatha lo wesifazane ukuvumelana nalokho akushoyo lapho esesimeni esihle; ngale ndlela ngeke aphikisane uma izinto seziba nzima.
5. Ukwesaba okungafanele
Abanye besifazane banomkhuba omubi wokuphila izimpilo zabo ngokwesaba.
Bahlala bekhathazeka futhi baphanjaniswe ingqondo; bavame ukukholelwa ukuthi kukhona okubi okuzokwenzeka kubo. Uzolokhu efonela indoda yakhe ucingo ukuze azi ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle yini, uzoxhumana naye njalo, futhi uzokubheka lokhu njengokunakekelwa. Lapho izinto zingahambi ngokwecebo lakhe, uzobhebhana futhi aqhubeke nokwesaba.
Ukuphatha lo wesifazane ungamqabula lapho eqaqamba, umnakekele, umnikeze indawo ekhululekile futhi uthandaze naye lapho ekhathazeka.
6. Ukulindela okukhulu
Iningi labesifazane liyakhalaza lapho okulindelwe kungafinyelelwa; laba besifazane bakholelwa ukuthi indoda yabo ingumphumela wokukhiqiza umshini esikhundleni sokuqonda. Bacasula umuntu wabo lapho engasebenzi ngokohlelo lwabo, bacabanga ngaye njengesehluleki futhi baze bamgcone lapho engakwazi ukumthengela okuthile noma ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakhe.
Lolu hlobo lomuntu wesifazane ludinga isikhathi esithile ukuze aphole; Udinga ukubamba iqhaza ekuhleleni nasekusizeni ukukwenza kanye nomuntu wakhe.
7. Ukuphelelwa isineke
Abanye besifazane bayakhalaza ngenxa yesimo sabo sokungabi nasineke. Bababeka ingcindezi kubo, abahlaliseki futhi baqala ukungabaza kalula. Ukusingatha le ntokazi, kungcono ukuthi unake iqiniso lokuthi uyayithanda futhi usebenzele ebuthakathakeni bayo. Mfundise ukuthandaza ngokwengeziwe, ukuzivocavoca naye futhi ube nesineke.
8. Funa ukunakwa
Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezijwayelekile zokuthi kungani abesifazane bekhononda. Amanye amantombazane alambele ukunakwa, futhi acela ukuqashelwa, akhulumela phezulu ukuze uwagxilise. Ukuphatha le ntombazane ungamnika isikhathi sakho nokunaka kwakho futhi umenze azizwe ekhethekile ngokumangalisayo.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi le ndatshana isizile ekwenzeni uqonde ukuthi kungani abesifazane be-nag. Uma abesifazane bakho bekwesinye salezi zigaba ezingenhla, bese uzama ukumphatha kahle. Khumbula njalo, uthando oluncane nokunakwa kuhamba ibanga elide.