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Kusuka encwadini yakhe ezayo: Iseluleko Somshado esivela kuDivorced Guy / 50 Ways to Woo your Lover / With Notes from his Ex-Wife
Izincwadi zemishado zigcwele izeluleko zabahlakaniphile: Ungamthanda kanjani, umazise, umhloniphe, umxhase futhi umenelise umlingani wakho. Akekho kubo ozokutshela ukuthi UNGENJANI futhi nakanjani akekho kubo ozokhuluma ngezinto ezenziwa ngabesilisa ezenza abesifazane bathandane kakhulu nabesilisa babo.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa umfana angazenza ukwenza intombazane ijabule ngempela nezinto okufanele zihlale kude nazo, nganoma iyiphi inkokhelo!
- Ungakhohlwa izikhumbuzo, izinsuku zokuzalwa, nemicimbi ekhethekile - Khumbula lokhu noma ngabe kufanele uzidwebe esihlakaleni.
- Ungamnaki - Kungenzeka ukuthi ukhuluma ngesidlo esisha esidlweni sakusihlwa, ukuthi enye yezingane yenzeni esikoleni, kungani sidinga ukuthenga imoto ehlukile, kungani kufanele sibhalise enye ingane ezifundweni zomculo, noma kungani isikhwama sakhe semali sincane kakhulu futhi udinga ukuthenga isikhwama semali esiyikhulu namashumi ayisithupha nane. Shiseka, futhi uthembeke.
- Ungayifihli imizwa yakho - Yenza konke okusemandleni ukumenza asho, “Qagela ukuthi wenzeni umyeni wami izolo ebusuku? Wayidlulisa imizwa yakhe.” Lesi sitatimende sizohamba singena indlu ngendlu njengomlilo wequbula. Uzomomotheka, ugonwe, ubhekwe ngokujulile, futhi umenyelwe ezindaweni zokudlela lapho uzobhekana khona naleyo mizwa phambi kwendoda yendawo. Uzoba ngumbukiso bese uthi, “Kungani ungeke ufane naye? Uyayikhuluma imizwa yakhe. ”
- Ungahlali esihlalweni esinesizungu phambi kwesitolo - Yamukela lezi zisho, “Yebo s'thandwa, lokho kubukeka kunobuNkulunkulu kuwe, ”noma“ Kubonakala sengathi wehlile emzimbeni,” noma “Vele singachitha (Faka nokho zero eziningi lapha), okubalulekile ukuthanda wena (faka noma yini afuna ukuyithenga lapha) ”.
- Ungabi wedwa - Sisengamadoda anemikhuba yokuziphatha njenge-caveman njengokuklwebha, ukubhoboza, ukukhafula, ukusebenza ezimotweni, noma yini ehlobene namathuluzi. Ngasikhathi sinye, zithanda izindaba zakhe. Kungaba yileyo ekhuluma ngonina oyizwe izikhathi eziyikhulu. Mbuke emehlweni, bese uyanga ngokuqinile.
- Musa ukuthanda nje kuphela, kodwa thanda ngokukhanuka - Wazi kanjani uma uthanda ngokweqile? Ufuna ukuthola uhlevane lwehansi, ukhohlwe ukuthi ungubani, ulahlekelwe ibhalansi yakho, noma uzizwe ungaphandle komzimba. Bamba ujule bese uthola ukushisa okufihliwe emaphethweni wobuntu bakho.
- Awuyena umnikazi wesilawuli kude - Uzoyithokozela leyo chick flick bese nixoxa ngayo ngemuva kwalokho
- Musa ukulawula ukuthi obani abangane bakho besidlo sakusihlwa - Uma ehlanya ngentombi yakhe, KUFANELE uthande umfana ohambelana naye.
- Ungalahli lokho akuthandayo ukukudla noma ukuphuza - amahlumela eBrussels? Yum. Itiye elishisayo leJasmine neLavender? Yum kabili.
- Ungabuki umdlalo osele, kepha esikhundleni salokho hlanza izitsha.
- Ungakhohlwa ngezifiso zakhe. Zijwayeze ngaphambi kokusebenza kokwakho.
- Ungabambi ukuhleka. Abesifazane bayathanda uma sithatha izinto kalula.
- Ungathathi kuphela, nikela ngentshiseko.
- Ungenzi okungalungile, okungenani zama okusemandleni akho. Akudingeki ukuthi ube ngcwele, yize ukuba ngusanta oseduze kuhle. Ubungcwele obuningi benziwa kwabanye.
Musa ukuphuma nabafana ngaphambi kokuba aphume namantombazane. Ubusuku lapho ezijabulisa nabangane bakhe buzoba mnandi.
Ungazesabi izingoma ezinjengeSong of Summer, Mermaid Net, Flamingo's Dream, Spirit Whisper, and Seduction; lawo wonke amagama opende. Ekhuluma ngokuheha, ungaceli ukuya ocansini lapho engenaso isifiso, futhi ufunde izindlela zakhe ezicashile zokuthola injabulo.
Ungayeki ukubukeka kwakho. Mncome izikhathi eziningana ngosuku.
Ungakhonondi ngenani lemicamelo embhedeni. Hhayi lezi olala nazo, kepha imicamelo oyisusa eceleni ukuze ungene embhedeni. Ngesinye isikhathi lapho ngishadile, ngangibala ama-12. Futhi, ungalokothi wehlise “ukubalwa kukakotini” wamashidi. Thenga ama-800 noma ngaphezulu; IGibhithe liyinganekwane engaphezu kwemipiramidi. Lawa mashidi enza ukugoqana okuntofontofo.
Ungabi mubi nganoma yini ayenzayo, kufaka phakathi lokho akugqokayo, ukupenda ebusweni bakhe, ukugqoka izingane nakho, ukulungiselela ukudla kwakusihlwa, ukuthenga indlu, ukutshala engadini, ukulalela, ukufunda, ukufafaza ifenisha ngayo, noma ukubopha phezu kwamawindi.
Ungavumeli ukuthi uMthetho we-Entropy ungqubuzane nempilo yakho yothando. Lo mthetho uthi konke kuzobola ngaphandle kokunakekelwa okufanele. Uthando luyisenzo, kuthatha isenzo esiningi ukuqonda amagumbi alo ahlukahlukene. Nakekela uthando lwakho.
Izinto ezincane amadoda azithandayo ngomfazi amthandayo
Funda okungafanele ukwenze, futhi uzongena ekushoneni kwelanga ubambe izandla ngakolunye uhlangothi nezinduku kolunye, futhi abantu abancane bazobuza ngemfihlo yakho. Uma unguye lowo wesifazane, ungakhuluma ngothando, ukuxhumana, ukwethembana, ukuqonda, nazo zonke ezinye izimfanelo ezinhle. Uma uyile ndoda, uzothola lokhu kubukeka okuphithene emehlweni akho, “Iyiphi imfihlo? Ngimane ngithi, ‘Yebo, sithandwa.’”
Okubalulekile akusikho okufunayo, noma lokho akufunayo. Okubalulekile ukuthi uthambekele kulokho akufunayo, ngaphambi kokubhekana nalokho okufunayo.
Ukulalela iseluleko esinikezwe lapha kuzoguqula uthando lwakho kusuka kulokho okulindelwe kuya kokungakaze kwenzeke, futhi kusuka komunye ovezwe ngepiki esihlathini, uye emshadweni ogujwa ngobusuku obushubile namawindi enkungu.