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Lezi yizikhathi ezingajwayelekile kwezothando nokuthandana. Ngokuxhumana kobuso nobuso kumisiwe, abesilisa nabesifazane abaningi abangashadile babhekene nobunzima ngokuthola umdlalo wabo ophelele.
Inkinga yeCoronavirus isisiphoqile ukuthi sibheke ezinye izindlela zokuthola ubudlelwano.
Njengoba kunikezwe ukuthi izindawo zokuzijabulisa kulindeleke ukuthi zihlale zivaliwe amasonto amaningi noma izinyanga eziningi, abantu manje balwa nobuchwepheshe obuhlobene nokuthandana - Yini ongayenza uma ungakwazi ukuya kosuku kubha noma endaweni yokudlela?
Uhlanganaphi lapho ama-movie engeyona inketho, futhi yonke imibukiso ikhanseliwe?
Ngisho nokuvakashela umbhuli ngosuku lwakho lokuqala ukuze uhlole ukuthi asikho yini isizathu sosuku lwesibili akuseyona inketho (yebo, abantu bayakwenza).
Izwe elisha lokuphola online
Lapho kukhona khona incwadi yefa, kunendlela. Emasontweni adlule, izwe lokuphola selishintshile ngokushesha ukwamukela leli qiniso elisha.
Yebo, uthando ngesikhathi sokuvala luthole indlela yokuphuma!
Ukusetshenziswa kwe-virtual izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola iyakhula, abantu basebenza kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, futhi izinsuku ezibonakalayo ziba yinto.
Yebo, abantu abaningi basebenzise ukuphola okubonakalayo njengenye indlela yosuku oludala "oludala".
Yize kungabonakala njengokuvumelana, ukuphola okubonakalayo ngesikhathi senhlekelele yeCoronavirus kunezinzuzo, lokho kukwenza kube inketho enhle kwabaningi.
Okulandelayo kunikezwa ezinye zezinzuzo zokuqomisana kwangempela.
1. Ukusondelana okwengeziwe
Ukuqomisana okungokoqobo kungaholela ekusondelaneni kakhudlwana. Ngenkathi abantu abaningi bekuhlanganisa nokuthintana ngokomzimba, ukusondelana akubandakanyi imisebenzi yezocansi noma ukuthintana komzimba ukuze kukhule.
Izinsuku zakudala zigcwele iziphazamiso - ukudla, ubuhle bendawo, umculo, utshwala, nabangani ohlangana nabo.
Izinto ezinjalo zingenza usuku lube mnandi ngokwengeziwe, kepha ezimweni eziningi, abantu bazisebenzisa njengendlela yokuphunyuka ukugwema ubunzima obenzeka kwesinye isikhathi lapho abantu ababili abangabazi behlangana okokuqala ngqa.
Ekuthandaneni okubonakalayo, ukuxhumana kuyinto esemqoka. Ukugxila ekwazini omunye nomunye.
Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukusondelana ngokolwazi kungakhula. Kukuvumela ukuthi nazane ngezinga elijulile - izintshisekelo, izinto enizithandayo, ukwesaba, okuhlangenwe nakho, nokuningi.
2. Ukucindezela okuncane nokugeleza okuningi
Ukuqomisana okuvamile akuqondile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izinkinga okuhlangatshezwane nazo, ikakhulukazi ngosuku lokuqala, zingaba nzima.
Sizoyaphi? I-movie yinhle, kepha anikwazi ukukhuluma nodwa. Indawo yokudlela inothando, kepha kuthiwani uma okuthile kubambeka emazinyweni akho?
Ibha imnandi, kepha ungayitholaphi ibha ethulile eyanele, engenalutho ngokwanele, futhi ematasa ngokwanele ukuba ibe nosuku oluphelele? Ngabe beza ukuzokulanda, noma nihlangana lapho?
Ingabe kufanele baphikelele ekukhokheni, noma kufanele unikeze ukwabelana? Futhi inkinga enkulu kunazo zonke - kuthiwani ngokwanga ekupheleni kosuku?
Ekuthandaneni okubonakalayo, lokhu kuba yinkimbinkimbi akukho. Akunasidingo sokulanda noma ngubani ekhaya. Akunasidingo sokunikela ngokuhlanganyela nomthethosivivinywa.
Akunasidingo sokuzama ukuncika ekuqabangeni bese uthola ukuthi awuzifundi kahle izimpawu. Akudingeki nokuthi unqume ukuthi uzogqokani (okungenani hhayi engxenyeni engezansi yomzimba wakho).
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuthandana ngamehlo, kungabantu ababili kuphela, ngamunye ehleli endaweni yabo enethezekile (ekhaya), bayaxoxa. Kulula kakhulu futhi kungokoqobo!
Futhi, noma ngabe uthola ukuthi usuku aluqhubeki kahle nokuthi akuyona into obukade uyilindele, ungaqeda ngokushesha futhi kalula inqubo yokuqomisana kwangempela.
Tshela olunye uhlangothi ukuthi bekumnandi futhi akuyona into oyifunayo. Yilokho kuphela. Qhafaza kanye!
3. Asikho isidingo sosuku lwesibili
Umqondo wonke "wezinsuku zokubala" awusebenzi.
Izinsuku eziku-inthanethi zingenzeka kaningi kakhulu kunezinsuku zakudala, ikakhulukazi ngoba ukuphola okubonakalayo kungumcimbi odinga umzamo omncane kakhulu uma uqhathanisa nokujola kwendabuko.
Ungakhuluma imizuzu embalwa ekuseni bese unquma ukuba nesidlo sasemini “ndawonye” emahoreni ambalwa.
Futhi uma uphakathi “kosuku,” ngokungazelelwe udinga ukwenza okunye (njengokuhambahamba nenja ekubheke ngokungalindele, ngamehlo ayo, ithi - kungenzeka manje, noma sengichamela endlini ), lapho-ke ayikho inkinga yokukhipha ukuxhuma futhi "ukuphola" futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Isipiliyoni esisha
Ngivame ukuhlangana nabesilisa nabesifazane abangashadile abayeka ukuthandana okwakudala. Bazizwa sengathi akuyona eyabo.
Isibonelo, lokhu kungenzeka kubantu abadumazeke kaningi lapho elinye iqembu limemezela ukuthi abanantshisekelo noma kulabo abazizwa bengaphumeleli ngokuziveza uqobo lwabo ngosuku.
Kuyinsakavukela kubantu abavuthiwe abafuna ukuqala ubudlelwano (obusha) futhi abangazizwa bekhululekile (futhi kwesinye isikhathi benamahloni) ukubhekana nazo zonke izingqinamba zokuphola futhi.
Ukuqomisana okungokoqobo kudala okusha, okulula kakhulu, nokukhululeka kwabaningi. Inganikeza abantu abadele ukuthandana nethuba lokubuya okukhulu.
Imibono yokuphola ebonakalayo
Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi usuku olubonakalayo kufanele lubukeke njengabantu ababili "abaxoxisana" ngokuxoxa ngevidiyo. Kepha lokhu akulona iqiniso.
Ukuqomisana okungokoqobo kuletha indawo eningi yobuciko. Nazi ezinye izibonelo zendlela yokunonga izinto.
1. Usuku lwezothando
Zombili izinhlangothi zigqoka izingubo zasebusuku (phezulu kuye ezansi - yebo, kufaka nezicathulo), ziletha ingilazi yewayini, zifiphaze izibani, futhi zakhe umoya omuhle.
2. Ukubuka uhlelo
Unquma ngombukiso (okuthile ku-TV noma ku-movie), futhi ukubuke ngasikhathi sinye ngenkathi ingxoxo yevidiyo ivulekile.
Lokhu kuzokunika ithuba lokwabelana ngesipiliyoni (hleka ndawonye, wesabe ndawonye - ngokususelwa kunoma yini eniyibukayo), futhi nikhulume nganoma yini efika engqondweni.
3. Uhambo lwasekhaya
Uma uzizwa ukhululekile ngokwanele, ungahamba nomlingani wakho kuhambo olubonakalayo lwekhaya lakho. Chitha isikhathi egumbini ngalinye.
Khombisa izindawo zakho ozithandayo endlini, khuluma ngezinto ezihlekisayo ezenzeke ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene, bese wethula izinto zakho eziyizintandokazi endlini, njengegagasi lakho lekhofi lasekuseni olithandayo.
4. Ukwabelana ngezinkumbulo nezikhathi
Khetha izithombe ezithakazelisayo noma ezihlekisayo (kusuka efonini yakho noma ezokuxhum) bese wabelana ngazo. Ngemuva kwalokho, xoxa indaba ngemuva kwabo.
5. Pheka ndawonye!
Zama ukulungisa isidlo sakusihlwa ndawonye. Nobabili kufanele nenze isidlo esisodwa futhi nibheke inqubo efanayo ndawonye.
Buka le vidiyo ukuze ufunde futhi ujabulele inqubo yokuqomisana okungokoqobo.
Uthando ngezikhathi zeCorona
Yize i-coronavirus isisiphoqa ukuthi sihlale kude, akusho ukuthi asikwazi ukusondela.
Kulezi zikhathi, lapho sidinga ukuzivumelanisa neqiniso elisha, akufanele sesabe ukuphola okubonakalayo. Kufanele samukele izinzuzo zayo.
Ungamangala ukuthi ungasondela kanjani kumuntu ngokuqomisana okungokoqobo, nokuthi ukuxhumana kungaqina kangakanani, ngaphandle kokuhlangana nabo ubuso nobuso.
Kwesinye isikhathi, ukugcina ibanga lomzimba kungaholela kubantu abakha izibopho eziqine kakhulu.
Hhayi lokho kuphela, kepha lapho inkinga isiphelile, wena nomlingani wakho nizoba nezinkumbulo ezimnandi zalokho enibhekane nakho ukugcina ubudlelwane.
"Ubunzima buhlanganisa abantu uma usabelana nabo." - UJohn Wooden.