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- 1. Idinga uxhumano njalo
- 2. Ufuna imininingwane eningiliziwe
- 3. Uphendulela umseshi ngezikhathi ezithile
- 4. Unomthetho othi 'awekho amantombazane eduze'
- 5. Kukhawulela isikhathi sakho somndeni
- 6. Njalo ulindele impendulo esheshayo
- 7. Ukuzitika nge-PDA eyeqile
- 8. Ukuzitika ekulandeleni kwedijithali
- 9. Kweqa imingcele yomuntu siqu
- 10. Ufuna ukulawula okuphelele
Uthando kwesinye isikhathi ludunyiswa kumabhayisikobho.
Konke abakubonisayo kuyisici esisodwa sobudlelwano. Basitshela ukuthi izingongolo ezimbili ziyakhanga futhi ziyaqhuma, uthando luyenzeka. Kakhulu, siyakwethemba esikubona kumafilimu. Sikuthatha lokho njengeqiniso futhi siqale ukuhlala ezweni lamaphupho. Kodwa-ke, iphupho liyabhidlika lapho kwenzeka iqiniso.
Ebudlelwaneni, abantu ababili abanezimfanelo nezinto abazithandayo bayahlangana. Bathola ukufana okuthile bese beqhubekela phambili nalokho. Abanye abantu abayitoho, abanye bahle kakhulu kwezokuxhumana, kanti abanye bayazethula noma bayaziqhenya. Ungaqala ukuzivumelanisa nezimfanelo ezithile, kepha ukuba ngokweqile kuyikhwalithi eyethusayo futhi kufanele ikhalise izinsimbi.
Ngezansi kubhalwe ezinye zezimpawu zentombi enayo ukuze ukwazi ukuzibona kalula futhi ulawule isimo ngesikhathi esifanele.
1. Idinga uxhumano njalo
Sonke asikho ngeselula yethu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kunezikhathi lapho ifoni yakho igcinwa eceleni noma usemhlanganweni obalulekile.
Kulungile ukulindela intombi yakho ukuthi isiqonde isimo futhi iziphathe kahle. Kodwa-ke, kukhona abanye abahlanya lapho izingcingo zabo zingaphendulwa noma beya kwi-voicemail. Baqala ukukholelwa ukuthi ulahlekelwa yisithakazelo kubo noma uhlala nomunye umuntu. Uma lesi simo sijwayelekile, khona-ke ubhekene nentombi yakho.
2. Ufuna imininingwane eningiliziwe
Kuyinto ejwayelekile ukweqa imininingwane ethile engadingekile lapho uchaza usuku lwakho entombini yakho. Ngokuqinisekile awufuni ukunikeza i-akhawunti yemizuzu yonke yosuku lwakho. Intombi yakho onayo, noma kunjalo, ingalindela ukuthi wabelane ngakho konke okwenzile phakathi nosuku lwakho. Okudlile, ohlangane naye, okhulume khona, lapho oya khona, konke.
Ngokuqinisekile ngeke athande ukuba weqe imininingwane eyodwa yalokho.
3. Uphendulela umseshi ngezikhathi ezithile
Umsebenzi womphenyi ukuthola isigebengu.
Bafunda izimpawu bese befuna ubufakazi balokho okungalungile ngenhloso yokubeka izigebengu ejele. Uma intombi yakho inguSherlock kuwe futhi ikuhlola noma ikuphatha njengeselelesi, unentombi eyeqile. Bangakwazi ukuhogela amanga futhi bahlale bakholelwa ukuthi awunalo iqiniso kubo. Lokhu ekugcineni kuzoholela ebudlelwaneni bakho ngendlela engeyinhle. Kungcono ukubheka isisombululo ngesikhathi esifanele ngaphambi kokuthi izinto zidlulele ngaphezu kokulawula.
4. Unomthetho othi 'awekho amantombazane eduze'
Kulungile futhi kuvamile ukuba nomngane nabangane abahle abavela kwabobulili obuhlukile. Noma ngabe usehhovisi, nakanjani uzoxhumana nabantu bobubili ubulili. Awunamandla okuyilawula futhi kwamukeleka ngokuphelele. Hhayi emehlweni wentombi yakho onayo.
Kubo, awufanele ukhulume namanye amantombazane, noma kusethaphu lobuchwepheshe. Bazohlala njalo bekugadile futhi bazosola ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngakho-ke, ezungeze intombi yakho eyeqile, sala kahle kubangani bakho bobulili obuhlukile.
5. Kukhawulela isikhathi sakho somndeni
Enye yezimpawu ezivelele zentombi enempahla ukuthi bafuna ukuthi uchithe isikhathi sakho nabo, ngangokunokwenzeka.
Banikezwe ukukhetha, abasoze bakuvumela ukuthi wenze noma yini enye ngaphandle kokuthi ube nabo. Baqala ukukhawulela isikhathi sakho senhlalo futhi udaba lungadlulela nakumndeni wakho. Ubengakuyekisa ukuhlangana nabazali bakho noma izingane zakini noma ube nesikhathi somndeni.
6. Njalo ulindele impendulo esheshayo
Sonke sihlangabezane nomlingiswa kumabhayisikobho lapho intombazane ibhala khona ngesivinini esikhulu futhi ilindele ukuthi isoka layo liphendule ngokushesha. Uma kwenzeka engakwenzi, imibhalo yakhe ayimisi futhi isheshe iphenduke engxoxweni isongele ngisho nemibhalo 'yokuhlukanisa'. Kuyesabeka impela njengoba uzodinga isikhathi sokufunda, ukuqonda, nokuphendula umbhalo.
Lesi ngesinye sezimpawu zentombi ezifanele ezingaphuthelwa.
7. Ukuzitika nge-PDA eyeqile
I-PDA ilungile, kuphela uma yenziwe ngaphakathi kwemingcele. Njengoba besho, ukweqisa noma yini kubi, kanjalo ne-PDA. Intombi yakho onayo izokugcizelela ukuthi uyibambe ngesandla futhi ikhombise ukushukuma kothando emphakathini, noma ngabe uzizwa ungakhululekile noma unamahloni. Uyachuma ngezenzo ezinjalo.
8. Ukuzitika ekulandeleni kwedijithali
Ukulandela ngomzimba kunemingcele kunikezwe iphuzu lokuthi nobabili ninezindawo zokusebenza ezahlukahlukene nasezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zedolobha. Kodwa-ke, ukulandela i-digital kuhlale kunokwenzeka.
Intombi yakho onayo izokugcizelela ukuthi wabelane ngama-password wakho wezinkundla zokuxhumana. Uma kungenjalo, uzokuhlola njalo kungxenyekazi ngayinye, agcine ithebhu yokuthi ungubani nokuthi ungubani, futhi azokubuza kukho konke okuthunyelwe owabelana ngakho. I-akhawunti yakho ye-Instagram ingahle igcwale izithombe zakhe.
9. Kweqa imingcele yomuntu siqu
Kuyindlela ejwayelekile yokuziphatha kwentombi enempahla ukuwela imingcele yomuntu siqu futhi wakhe indawo uma ukhunjuzwa ngakho. Bayakhohlwa iqiniso lokuthi ufuna isikhathi sakho 'kimi' nezikhathi zakho nabantu obathandayo noma abangane bakho. Ukulindela kwabo ukuba nawe ngaso sonke isikhathi nabo kuzoholela ezinkingeni ezingaphezu kokuqonda.
10. Ufuna ukulawula okuphelele
Okwamanje kufanele ngabe uqonde ukuthi intombi onayo ifuna ukulawula ngokuphelele impilo yakho. Konke abafuna ukwenze ukuthobela imiyalo yabo, ubakhombise inhlonipho, futhi uphendule yonke imibuzo yabo. Ngeke banqikaze ukuya ezinyathelweni ezeqile ukukhombisa ukutholakala kwabo kuwe.
Ngakho-ke yini okufanele uyenze uma uthola ukuthi intombi yakho inakho konke lokhu noma iningi lalezi zimfanelo? Into enhle ongayenza ukuyeka ukuthula kwakho ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Xhumana naye ngomoya ophansi bese ubeka imingcele ethile. Mtshele ukuthi okunye kokuziphatha kwakhe akuthakazelelwa futhi kukwenza uzizwe ungathandwa. Zama ukuthola ukuthi kungani ebona ukuthi kulungile ukuba ngowakho nokuthi kungani leso sidingo sikhona ukuze nobabili nisebenze kuso. Bona ukuthi ukusabela kanjani kulokho. Uma kwenzeka, yena uyabhabhela ngokuphelele futhi akalokothi abambisane noma ngabe uzama kangakanani, ungazama ukuphuma ebudlelwaneni ngoba uthando alusebenzi ngaleyo ndlela kepha uma ungambona enza umzamo, qhubeka lapho.