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- Uxabana ngemali
- Iqembu elilodwa lidlala umdlalo wokubusa
- Oyedwa noma nobabili nikopela kaninginingi
- Oyedwa noma nobabili akakazisi ukuba sebudlelwaneni
- Izinto ezincane
- Ukuphelela kuyisitha senqubekela phambili
- Izimpawu eziyisixwayiso kumane kungamafulegi akhombisa ukuthi usebudlelwaneni obunamadwala
- Kukhona nezikhathi lapho kudingeka khona ukuqeda ubudlelwano
Ukuthanda nokubamba, size sihlukaniswe ukufa. Imvamisa kuqala ngesifungo. Umbhangqwana umemezela uthando lwawo emhlabeni futhi uhlala ngokujabula njalo. Ngeshwa, lokhu akunjalo cishe kwengxenye yalabo bathandi.
Izinga lezehlukaniso liyancipha, kepha hhayi ngenxa yobudlelwano obungcono, kepha abantu abakashadi nje. Imibhangqwana yesimanje ifuna izimpawu zobuthi, inkinga, nezinye izinto ezingathinta kabi ukuzibophezela kwesikhathi eside.
Kuthiwani ngalabo asebeshadile kakade? Ziningi izinto ezenza abantu bahlale ndawonye noma bahlukane. Kepha lezi zimpawu eziyisixwayiso zikhombisa ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho buya ngokushona.
Uxabana ngemali
Lapho izithandani zisanda kuqala ukuthandana, zinemali yazo.
Ngamunye unezwi lokugcina uma efisa ukusebenzisa imali yakhe ezintweni azithandayo futhi akwazi ukukhokhela ukunethezeka okuncane kokuphila. Banokuphila kwabo okuyimfihlo ngenkathi besebudlelwaneni nomunye umuntu. Umshado ushintsha izinto. Olunye ushintsho olubaluleke kakhulu ukuphatha ezezimali.
Ukwabelana ngezindleko nezinhlelo zokuhlala kungonga imali. Lokho kungukuthi uma zombili izinhlangothi zingabantu abanesibopho. Kunezibonelo eziyizigidi zokuphatha imali ngokunganaki njenge:
- Ukuchitha ngokweqile
- Ufihla imali engenayo koshade naye
- Izindleko ezingabhaliwe
- Izinto eziza kuqala ezingafanelekile
- Izinkokhelo ezingekho ezithwala inzalo
Uma wena noma oshade naye niphikisana nganoma yisiphi sezizathu esishiwo ngaphambili futhi iqembu elilodwa lithwala umthwalo, lokho kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uzoba nezinkinga phambili.
Iqembu elilodwa lidlala umdlalo wokubusa
Intsha iyathanda ukudlala lo mdlalo, kepha abanye abantu abakhuli kuwo baqhubeke njengabantu abadala.
Bafuna ukulawula abalingani babo. Bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane banecala ngakho. Babheka enye ingxenye yabo njengezimpahla futhi bakhathalela kuphela lokho abakufunayo.
Benza lokhu ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi elinye iqembu linenhlanhla yokuba nabo futhi kuyisibopho sabo sokuziphatha ukubakhumbuza lelo qiniso. Bazosebenzisa impi yengqondo, ukuphoqelela, ukusongela, udlame, nezinye izindlela ukugcina lokhu kuzikhohlisa okuzenzela bona.
Kunabafel 'ukholo laphaya abathanda ukuphathwa ngale ndlela. Kepha abantu abaningi bangathola lolu hlobo lobudlelwano lukhungathekisa. Lolu phawu lwesexwayiso lwethikithi lokuya kwesehlukaniso, ukugqunywa ejele noma umngcwabo.
Oyedwa noma nobabili nikopela kaninginingi
Lokhu kuchaza kahle.
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani oyedwa noma bobabili bekhohlisa umlingani. Kungaba kusuka ekungenelisekeni ngokomzwelo noma ngokocansi kuze kufike eqenjini lokukhohlisa ekubeni yinto nje yokuzicabangela. Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, kungenye indlela eqinisekile yokuthi ubuhlobo benu ngeke buhlale isikhathi eside.
Oyedwa noma nobabili akakazisi ukuba sebudlelwaneni
Lokhu futhi kungazwakala njengoMnu Obvious, kodwa kujulile futhi kujwayelekile kunabantu abaningi abakholelwa.
Kwesinye isikhathi ubudlelwano uqobo buyisizathu sokuthi bungabalulelwa. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi lapho lo mbhangqwana unezingane.
Lapho wena, umlingani wakho, noma bobabili amaqembu nichitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu emsebenzini, izinto ziqala ukushintsha. Kancane kancane futhi izinhloso zizinhle kakhulu kangangokuba abantu abazinaki kuze kwephuze kakhulu.
Khumbula ayikho into ebizwa ngokuthi "isikhathi esanele" sekhwalithi, ikakhulukazi enezingane ezincane.
Lapho uchitha isikhathi esiningi wenza enye into, kulapho intukuthelo yabo iyanda futhi lapho bekuthemba kancane. Kungakho izingane eziningi zihlubuka abazali bazo ngesikhathi sezisencane, kepha leso esinye isihloko ngokuphelele.
Izingane ezincane yizo ezisengozini enkulu yokwelashwa okunjalo, umlingani wakho naye uzokuzwa ubunzima bokunganakwa, noma ngabe ukwenzela bona.
Abantu abenza lokhu baziqambela amanga futhi bathi bakwenzela umndeni ngenkathi bachitha isikhathi esincane betshala imali ebudlelwaneni bangempela. Bebezoqala ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa ”befeza indima yabo” emshadweni bese bechitha isikhathi esincane beseshadile. Uma kuqhubeka isikhathi eside ngokwanele, baqala ukukholelwa ezimpilweni zabo futhi izinto zizoqala ukwehla ukusuka lapho.
Izinto ezincane
Wonke umuntu unemikhakha ecasulayo.
Uma sihlala nomuntu, sibabona bonke. Kusuka kubantu abangasiphakamisi isihlalo sendlu yangasese, abantshontshe ukudla, izingcezu ezingcolile, izinyawo ezinukayo, futhi bakhulume kakhulu ngenkathi bebuka i-TV, bazoqala ukusicasula futhi ngezinsuku ezimbi izinto ezincane ziyakhula.
Uzobona ukuthi umshado wakho usenkingeni lapho oyedwa noma bobabili abahlukumezeka ezintweni ezincane. Kungaba nezinye izinto ezibandakanyekayo njengokucindezeleka emsebenzini, i-PMS, indlala, isimo sezulu esishisayo, njll okungasibhebhethekisa lesi simo, kodwa uma kwenzeka nsuku zonke lokho kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sobuthi futhi ubudlelwano bakho busenkingeni.
Kunezikhathi lapho ama-quirks asicasula, kepha uma umthanda ngokweqiniso umuntu, ufunda ukuthanda ukungapheleli kwakhe noma ufunde ukukuziba.
Ukuphelela kuyisitha senqubekela phambili
Kunabantu abambalwa abafakwe kulesi sicaphuno, kungenye yezinto eziyisisekelo zokuphatha.
Kungasebenza futhi ebudlelwaneni.
Ukuhlala nomuntu ongafuni ukuthethelela ocindezela ngokweqile futhi uhambisane nabo kufana nokuminyana njengokuhlala neziqu zomuntu.
Umehluko omkhulu ngalokhu nomphathi, bakholelwa ukuthi bakwenzela thina.
Kuyinkinga enkulu, ngoba ukubekezelela ama-quirks kumayelana nokwamukela amaphutha wabathandekayo bethu, kepha ama-OC akholelwa ukuthi benza konke ngenhloso yokufuna ubudlelwano.
Izimpawu eziyisixwayiso kumane kungamafulegi akhombisa ukuthi usebudlelwaneni obunamadwala
Bonke ubuhlobo bunezikhathi zabo ezinhle nezimbi, kepha ukuba namafulegi amaningi okuxwayisa kuyisibonakaliso sobuthi. Akekho ofuna ukuba ebudlelwaneni obuvimbela ubuthi. Izinto zingashintsha uma bobabili abalingani bezimisele ukusebenzela kangcono, ungathola futhi usizo lwangaphandle oluvela kubangani, emndenini, noma kumeluleki wemishado.
Kukhona nezikhathi lapho kudingeka khona ukuqeda ubudlelwano
I-poker fold kwesinye isikhathi isinqumo esifanele. Ukuzimisela ukushintsha kuyinkomba esemqoka yokwazi ukuthi likhona yini ithemba. Kuhlala kuyindaba yesenzo ikhuluma kakhulu kunamazwi. Ungalindeli ukuthi umuntu azoshintsha ngobusuku obubodwa, kepha kufanele kube nokuthuthuka okuhamba kancane okuvela kubantu uma bezimisele ukushintsha.
Kuyimpilo yakho, yiba yijaji. Wena, umlingani wakho, nezingane zakho nizothola izinzuzo nemiphumela. Ekugcineni, ukukhetha kusezandleni zakho.