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- Izimo ezivamile zezimpikiswano
- Amathiphu wokugwema ukungqubuzana ngemali nemisebenzi yasekhaya
- Hlola izinto eziza kuqala kuwe vs imizamo
Sihlobanisa ezothando nentshisekelo nemfihlakalo nokuzenzakalela: Ukumangaza isithandwa sakho ngezimbali; isidlo sekhandlela; noma ukuhamba ngendiza enophephela emhlane (uma ungumKristu Ompunga).
Ngeshwa, ngemuva kwesikhathi sokuqala se-honeymoon sobudlelwano obubucayi, okungukuthi, masibhekane nakho, imvamisa kuphela izinyanga ezimbalwa, ukuhlala endizeni kungaba yindlela yenhlekelele.
Imali nemisebenzi yasendlini ingenye yemithombo evame kakhulu yengxabano phakathi kwezithandani engizelulekayo. Isizathu imvamisa ukwehluleka ukuhlela ngokubambisana kusengaphambili.
Njengoba kungathandeki njengoba kubonakala sengathi, ubudlelwane obuningi besikhathi eside, obuzibandakanya buhilela ukuphatha imisebenzi ejwayelekile yansuku zonke njengokupheka, ukuhlanza nokukhokha izikweletu.
Lezi zinto zidinga ukuhleleka ukuze ikhaya lihambe kahle. Futhi inhlangano ithatha ukuhlela.
Izimo ezivamile zezimpikiswano
- Isimo esisodwa esivamile engizwa ngaso ngabantu ukufika ekhaya sekwephuzile emsebenzini bengenalo uhlelo lokudla kwakusihlwa, bezizwa bekhathele futhi bekhathele, bese be-oda ukuthatha noma ukulethwa. Lokhu kuba umkhuba futhi ekugcineni, imali eyeqile abayichitha ekudleni iholela ekuswelekeni kwemali etholakalayo yezinye izinto.
- Okunye ukuthi omunye umlingani usebenzisa imali eningi kunaleyo omunye abona kunengqondo ngayo ekudleni / ezingutsheni / kwifenisha / emisebenzini yokuzilibazisa, njll., Kanti omunye umane abe yisitishi, kunokuhlala phansi kuxoxwe ngokuthi badinga ukubhajetha malini ngezinto ezahlukahlukene.
- Enye futhi indaba engizwa ngayo kaningi ukuphikisana ngemisebenzi yasendlini efana nokuwasha izingubo, izitsha, ukupheka, ukuhlanza, njll. Umuntu ngamunye uvele 'athembe' ukuthi omunye uzosukuma.
Amathiphu wokugwema ukungqubuzana ngemali nemisebenzi yasekhaya
- Vuleleka ngezimali zakho, kufaka phakathi izimpahla, izikweletu, ukusetshenziswa kwemali, imali engenayo, njll.
- Hlangana nomhleli wezimali ukuze uthole izeluleko zobungcweti / izinhloso mayelana nokuhlela izimali zakho nokusungula izabelomali nezinhloso.
- Landelela imali yakho bese ugcine amarisidi.
- Sungula ukuthi ngubani ozobhekela ukuthi yiziphi izindleko / izindleko kanye nokuqinisekisa ukuthi bakhokhelwa ngesikhathi.
- Thuthukisa uhlelo lwamasonto onke mayelana nemisebenzi yasekhaya nokuthi ngubani obhekene nayo. Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngokubambisana. Yibeke ku-Google Khalenda noma ebhodini lasekhishini, noma kwenye indawo ebonakalayo / efinyeleleka kubo bobabili abalingani.
- Yamukela ukuthi umuntu ngamunye angaba nendlela yakhe ehlukile yokwenza okuthile (okusho ukulayisha i-daishisher) nokuthi indlela yakho akuyona ukuphela kwendlela noma indlela enhle kakhulu.
- Hlela ukudla masonto onke. Thenga kanye ngesonto, ngokususelwa ezinhlelweni zakho zokudla, ukunciphisa ukumoshwa kokudla, nokonga isikhathi. Lungisa ukudla kusenesikhathi, uma kungenzeka, ngezimpelasonto.
- Ungalindeli ukuthi umlingani wakho akwazi ukufunda ingqondo yakho. Ufuna benze okuthile? Yiba nengxoxo, ungavele uthukuthele ngokuthi abakwenzanga. Imvamisa kufanele ubuze.
- Khumbula ukuthi umshado / ukubambisana kuhilela ukuyekethisa, kepha 'ungagcini amaphuzu', akuwona amalungiselelo ebhizinisi.
Vele, ukuhlela nokuhleleka akuqinisekisi injabulo emshadweni. Akudingeki ukuthi ukuhlela kwenzeke kuphela, kepha izinhlangothi zombili kufanele zilandele izithembiso zazo.
Uma umuntu oyedwa ehlale ephula ukuqonda okusunguliwe, ukungqubuzana kuzoqhubeka.
Buka futhi: Kuyini Ukungqubuzana Kobudlelwano?
Hlola izinto eziza kuqala kuwe vs imizamo
Ngivame ukubona imibhangqwana lapho omunye umuntu ebeka kubaluleke kakhulu inhlanzeko nobumsulwa kunomunye. Umuntu ongazibeki phambili lezi zinto ngendlela efanayo acabanga ukuthi omunye umuntu ukhathazeka ngokweqile nge-minutia.
Kepha imvamisa kungaphezu kwalokho.
Omunye umuntu udinga indawo ehlelekile ukuze ezwe ezolile. Lapho bezwakalise kaningi ukucindezeleka kumlingani wabo, lokho abakushoyo ngempela ukuthi,
"Lezi zenzo (ukuhlangabezana nezicelo zami) yilokho engikudinga kuwe ukuze ngizizwe ngiphephile futhi ngithandwa."
Nginxusa omunye umuntu ukuthi avume ukuthi akukhona okokuhlanza izitsha, njll., Kumayelana nokuveza uthando nokuzibophezela ngendlela umlingani wakhe ayifunayo futhi edinga ukuthi ivezwe ngayo.
Kumayelana nokufaka umzamo emshadweni noma ebudlelwaneni, futhi kudinga umzamo!
Ngenkathi ungadingi ukuyeka ukumangaza umlingani wakho ngezenzo zothando nezipho, vele uqiniseke ukuthi ngaphambi kokwenza, izikweletu sezikhokhiwe, amashidi ahlanzekile, kwenziwa ukuthenga, futhi uyazi ukuthi yini okufanele idliwe.