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- 1. Isikhathi sekhwalithi sisiza ekwakheni isibopho sothando
- 2. Yiba ekhasini elilodwa maqondana nesiyalo
- 3. Landela izicelo / izitatimende zakho
- 4. Unganiki izincazelo ezinde ngo- “cha”
- 5. Ukungaguquguquki kuyisihluthulelo sokukhulisa izingane ngempumelelo
- 6. Nikeza isexwayiso esisodwa ngaphambi kokuphoqelela imiphumela
- 7. Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi yini imiphumela
- 8. Zibekezelele izinguquko ozifunayo
- 9. Ukuziphatha okufunwa ngumvuzo ngokuvuma
- 10. Yiba yisibonelo enganeni yakho
- 11. Xoxisanani ngaphambi kokuba nibe nengane
- 12. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi yenze kangcono ngokusebenzisa indumiso
- 13. Ungabuzi ingane yakho ukuthi ifuna ukudla ini
Ngabe ufuna amathiphu amahle wokuba ngumzali ukukusiza ukuthi uzulazule eminyakeni yokukhulisa izingane futhi uthuthukise ukukhula kwengane yakho nokuzethemba kwayo? Nazi ezinye izeluleko eziphezulu zokukhulisa abazali abanolwazi abazisebenzise ngempumelelo enkulu!
1. Isikhathi sekhwalithi sisiza ekwakheni isibopho sothando
Isikhathi sokuzinikela njalo ngosuku olulodwa ukuba khona kwengane yakho. Lokhu kungakhuluma nje nabo ngaphandle kweziphazamiso zangaphandle (cisha ifoni yakho), noma isiko lokufunda ngaphambi kokulala, ukugoqa, ukuthandaza, nokubangenisa ngesilwane sabo abasithandayo. Noma yini enizwa izwakala ibalulekile kini nobabili, qiniseka ukuthi nichitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nengane yakho usuku ngalunye.
2. Yiba ekhasini elilodwa maqondana nesiyalo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho ibone ukuthi wena noshade naye nibumbene. Uma ezwa umehluko wemibono, uzodlala ngokumelene nomunye. Kuyaphazamisa nengane lapho abazali bengasebenzisi isiyalo ngendlela efanayo.
3. Landela izicelo / izitatimende zakho
Lapho sekuyisikhathi sokuqeda i-playdate, nikeza isexwayiso esifana nokuthi “Omunye uvule ama-swing bese kufanele sivalelise.” Ungasivumeli isicelo sengane sokuthola isikhathi esithe xaxa kuma-swing, noma uzolahlekelwa ukwethembeka futhi ube nesikhathi esinzima sokubenza benze lokho okudingeka bakwenze ngesikhathi esizayo lapho wenza isicelo.
4. Unganiki izincazelo ezinde ngo- “cha”
Incazelo emfushane, enengqondo izokwanela. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ikucela ikhukhi ngaphambi kokudla kwakusihlwa, ungaphendula ngokuthi "Ungakuthola lokho kokwenza i-dessert uma usenendawo ngemuva kokudla". Awudingi ukungena kokuthi kungani ushukela mubi, nokuthi mangaki amakhukhi azomenza akhuluphale, njll.
5. Ukungaguquguquki kuyisihluthulelo sokukhulisa izingane ngempumelelo
Hambisana nokuyala, izikhathi zokulala, izikhathi zokudla, izikhathi zokugeza, izikhathi zokulanda, njll. Ingane idinga ukungaguquguquki ukuze ikhule endaweni ephephile. Ingane ekhulela ekhaya lapho imithetho isetshenziswa ngokungaguquguquki ikhula ingabethembi abanye.
6. Nikeza isexwayiso esisodwa ngaphambi kokuphoqelela imiphumela
Okukodwa. Kungaba ukuthi “Ngizobala kuze kube kathathu. Uma ungawumisanga umdlalo wakho ngelesithathu, kuzoba nemiphumela. ” Musa “ukubala kathathu” izikhathi eziningana. Uma kufinyelelwe kokuthathu futhi nesicelo asenziwanga, shaya imiphumela.
7. Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi yini imiphumela
Basho ngokucacile nangokuqinile, ngezwi elingathathi hlangothi, nelingasongeli.
8. Zibekezelele izinguquko ozifunayo
Lapho usebenza nengane yakho ukushintsha indlela yokuziphatha engadingeki, njengokuklolodela umfowabo noma ukungahlali phansi etafuleni, funa ushintsho olwenzeka kancane kancane. Ingane yakho ngeke ize iyeke ukuziphatha okungafuneki ngobusuku obubodwa. Klomelisa njalo lapho "ubamba" ingane yakho ikhombisa indlela yokuziphatha efunwayo ukuze ibe umkhuba ekugcineni.
9. Ukuziphatha okufunwa ngumvuzo ngokuvuma
Kungaba ngamazwi, njengokuthi “wenza kahle kakhulu ekugcineni igumbi lakho lihlelekile!” noma ishadi lesitika, noma enye indlela yokusiza ingane yakho izizwe iziqhenya ngokufeza kwayo. Izingane zithanda imivimbo emihle.
10. Yiba yisibonelo enganeni yakho
Uma ungondluli umbhede wakho nsuku zonke noma ushiye izingubo zakho phansi, bazoba nobunzima ekuqondeni ukuthi kungani ubadinga ukuthi bakhuphule umduduzi wabo njalo ekuseni bese bebeka izingubo zabo ezingcolile endaweni yokuhlanza izingubo ubusuku ngabunye.
11. Xoxisanani ngaphambi kokuba nibe nengane
Ngaphambi kokuba nezingane, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuxoxa ngokuthi wena noshade naye nizobhekana kanjani nesiyalo esimeni sokukhulisa ingane enempilo ngokomzwelo. Ukuyala kufanele kube okulungile, okunengqondo futhi kusetshenziswe ngendlela enothando. Ukuyala okulungile kusho ukuthi umphumela uhambelana nokuziphatha okungafuneki. Ingane idinga ukuzwa ukuthi uyini umphumela ngaphambi kokuwusebenzisa ukuze yazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela futhi kunengqondo kuyo. Usebenzisa ukuphuma kwesikhathi? Zisebenzise ngokulingana. Isikhathi Eside Sokuphulwa kwamacala amakhulu, amafushane ngeziphambeko ezincane (nezingane ezincane kakhulu). Sebenzisa isiyalo usebenzisa isitayela sokuxhumana esiqinile kodwa esingesongeli. Yazisa ingane yakho ukuthi yenze ngendlela engamukeleki nokuthi izothola umphumela. Sebenzisa ithoni engathathi hlangothi futhi ugweme ukuphakamisa izwi lakho, okuzonyusa inkinga kuphela.
12. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi yenze kangcono ngokusebenzisa indumiso
Ayikho ingane eke yashintsha indlela yokuziphatha engadingeki yaziphatha ngendlela efunwayo ngoba itshelwe ukuthi iyavilapha noma iyaxaka noma inomsindo. Esikhundleni salokho, thela ingane yakho ngokudumisa lapho uyibona isiza ngaphandle kokucelwa, ukuhlanza igumbi labo, noma ukusebenzisa izwi langaphakathi. “Ngiyayithanda ngempela lapho ngingena ekamelweni lakho futhi zonke izingubo zakho zibekwe kahle!” kuzokwenza ingane izizwe kamnandi futhi kuyikhuthaze ukuthi iphinde le ndlela efunwayo.
13. Ungabuzi ingane yakho ukuthi ifuna ukudla ini
Badla lokho okulungiselele ukudla, noma abadli. Ayikho ingane eyake yalamba ngoba yenqaba ukudla i-casserole yakho emnandi. Kepha izingane eziningi seziphenduke omashiqela abancane, ziphatha ikhishi njengendawo yokudlela, ngoba umzali ubabuzile ukuthi bafuna ukudla ini ngesidlo sakusihlwa.