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- Ukuphela kwenqubo - ukuqedwa kokwelulekwa
- Ukuqedwa okuphoqelelwe
- Ukunqanyulwa kwamakhasimende
- Ukuyekiswa okwenziwe ngumeluleki
- Ukuqhubekela enkambisweni yokuqedwa nokubeka okulindelwe
- Amathiphu wokunqanyulwa okusebenzayo ekwelulekeni
- Isahluko sokuvala - isiqalo esisha semibhangqwana
Ukuthola ukwelulekwa ngemishado kungokukhetha kubo bobabili, ndawonye.
Wena nomlingani wakho nizoba nezikhathi lapho kudokotela wakho wezengqondo ezokwethula amasu ahlukene azophumela ekufinyeleleni imigomo enengqondo emshadweni wakho edinga ukulungiswa.
Manje, ukwelulekwa ngomshado akuhlali unomphela, akukho okukhona. Eqinisweni, kumane nje kuyisigaba ozodinga ukuthi usidlulise ikakhulukazi uma ubhekene nezinkinga zomshado.
Njengoba besho, yonke into iyaphela, kufaka phakathi izikhathi zokululekwa ngomshado. Lokhu ukubiza ngokuqeda ukwelulekwa. Singahle sigxile kakhulu ekutheni singalungisa kanjani futhi siqale ukwelashwa komshado kepha kaningi kunalokho, asiqiniseki ngempela ukuthi yikuphi ukunqanyulwa kokwelulekwa nokuthi uqhubekela phambili kanjani emva kokuphela kwezikhathi.
Ukuphela kwenqubo - ukuqedwa kokwelulekwa
Ukwelulekwa ngomshado akuwona nje umsebenzi ozoya kuwo wena nesithandwa sakho masonto onke, kungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho, ukwakhiwa kwaso ukwethembana, uzwela, ukuvuleleka, ukubambisana futhi kuzodinga ukuthi utshale imali eningi ikakhulukazi ngokomoya.
Awubheki nje kuphela ukukhula komuntu lapha kepha nokukhula nokuvuthwa njengezithandani, kuyaqinisekisa impela ukwazi ukuthi kukhona umuntu ngaphandle ozonikhomba ekulungiseni umshado wenu ngaphandle kokwahlulela.
Yingakho ukuqeda inqubo yokwelulekwa ngemishado empeleni kungaba nzima kweminye imibhangqwana kodwa nakanjani kuyingxenye okufanele sibhekane nayo.
Ukuphela kokwelulekwa yisigaba sokuphetha sohambo lwakho lokwelulekwa ngomshado futhi kukhomba ukuphela kohlelo nokuqala kokukwenza lokho okufundile kuzo zonke izikhathi zakho.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukulungiselela ukuqala kwenqubo yokwelulekwa ngomshado kubalulekile, uzofunda endleleni ukuthi inqubo yokuqeda ibaluleke kangakanani.
Izinhlobo zokupheliswa kokwelulekwa
Yilapho inkontileka yokwelulekwa izophela khona noma ngabe “izinhloso” zingakahlangatshezwa noma kusenezikhathi zokuqedwa.
Kungaba nezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka. Isikhathi esiningi, kungaba yizinkinga noma ukungaqondani phakathi kwalaba abashadikazi kanye nodokotela wabo. Abanye bangacabanga noma bazizwe ukuthi ukuqeda inqubo yokwelulekwa ngemishado kulingana nokulahlwa futhi lokhu kungadala umuzwa wokukhashelwa, ukulahlwa, nokukholelwa izethembiso zamanga ohlangothini lwekhasimende.
Lokhu-ke kungaholela iklayenti ukuthi lifune ukumisa uhlelo ndawonye.
Yilapho iklayenti liqala ukuqedwa kohlelo lokwelulekwa ngemishado.
Kunezizathu ezimbili eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeke. Esinye sezizathu ukuthi lapho lo mbhangqwana uzizwa ungakhululekile kulo mphilisi futhi ezwa ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukuvula futhi banikeze ukubambisana kwabo okuphelele ekwelashweni.
Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka ngezikhathi ezimbalwa zokuqala zenqubo yokwelulekwa ngemishado. Esinye isizathu esivame kakhulu ukuthi iklayenti lizozwa ukuthi selikutholile ukuphela kwenqubo yokwelulekwa, okusho ukuthi liyazethemba ukuthi balixazulule udweshu futhi abadingi ezinye izikhathi abazolilandela.
Kulesi sehlakalo, umelaphi angavuma futhi angaqedela inqubo yokuqedwa.
Imvamisa, izindaba ezinhle kusukela umelaphi ebona ukuthi umgomo uhlangatsheziwe futhi uqinisekile ukwazi ukuthi lo mbhangqwana uthuthukile futhi awudingi ezinye izikhathi. Ngokuya ngesimo nenqubekela phambili yeseshini ngayinye, uhlelo akudingeki ukuthi luphothulwe luyimpoqo.
Eqinisweni, inqobo nje uma inhloso ifinyelelisiwe, umeluleki angaluqeda lolu hlelo abize ukuthi lube yimpumelelo. Yize kwesinye isikhathi, kungamakhasimende angazimisele ukuqeda uhlelo lokwelulekwa njengoba seluphenduke ithuluzi labo futhi bavame ukwesaba ukubuyela emuva ngaphandle kosizo.
Ukuqhubekela enkambisweni yokuqedwa nokubeka okulindelwe
Ukukhetha ukubhalisela uhlelo lokwelulekwa ngemishado kunezinzuzo eziningi futhi inhloso enkulu yokwelulekwa ngomshado ukwenza umshado wakho uphumelele. Ngokusetshenziswa kwamasu asebenzayo nofakazelwe kahle, lo mbhangqwana uzoqonda ukuthi umshado uyini futhi uzofunda ukuhloniphana.
Lonke uhlelo lubandakanya umgomo okumele uzuzwe ngakho-ke uhlelo olusebenzayo luzohlala lubandakanya ukubeka okulindelwe. Abeluleki bemishado bayazi ukuthi amaklayenti abo azobethemba futhi abathembe futhi kwesinye isikhathi, ukubazisa ngokungazelelwe ukuthi lolu hlelo seluzophela kungadala ukusabela okungalindelekile.
Kubalulekile ukuchaza ukuthi inqubo ngayinye isebenza kanjani nokuthi izosetshenziswa ziphi izindlela. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ubonakale mayelana nentuthuko nokuthi ukwelulekwa kuzophela nini. Ukuba nomqondo wokuthi yini ukunqanyulwa kokwelulekwa nokuthi kuzokwenzeka nini yinto wonke amaklayenti azofuna ukuyazi ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Ngale ndlela, amaklayenti azoba nesikhathi esanele sokuzivumelanisa.
Amathiphu wokunqanyulwa okusebenzayo ekwelulekeni
Izindlela eziphumelelayo zokupheliswa kokwelulekwa kungenzeka, abeluleki bezemishado, empeleni, bazokwazi ukuthi bangaxhumana kanjani namakhasimende abo futhi isikhathi esiningi, balandela amathiphu afakazelwe wokunqanyulwa kokwelulekwa.
- Abelaphi noma abeluleki bemishado bangachaza ukuthi inqubo yokuqeda isebenza kanjani. Lokhu kuzokwenziwa ekuqaleni noma maphakathi nohlelo.
- Sungula ukuxhumana okusobala nezinhloso namakhasimende akho futhi ukwazi ukuchaza ukuthi inqubekelaphambili isebenza kanjani. Ngale ndlela, bayazi nokuthi kungenzeka basondele ekupheleni kohlelo.
- Uma kwenzeka, kuyisinqumo seklayenti sokuqeda uhlelo kusenesikhathi, kufanele luhlonishwe.
- Bazise ukuthi bangafuna iseluleko uma besidinga.
- Vumela amaklayenti ukuthi aveze, abelane ngemizwa yabo nangemicabango yabo mayelana nokuqedwa kohlelo.
Isahluko sokuvala - isiqalo esisha semibhangqwana
Ukwelulekwa ngomshado kuyinqubo ebalulekile, isigaba lapho abantu ababili bezonquma ukulwela umshado wabo. Kule nqubo, bobabili bazokhula futhi njengoba ubuhlobo buba ngcono - uhlelo luzosondela ekupheleni kwalo.
Lokhu kunqanyulwa ngeke kubonise ukulahlwa kumuntu okuqondisile kepha kuyindlela yokuthi abashadikazi banikeze umshado wabo elinye ithuba.
Kuyini ukunqanyulwa kokwelulekwa ngaphandle kokufaka isicelo?
Ekupheleni kwayo yonke inqubo ukufaka isicelo futhi iqiniso liwukuthi, umshado uzokwenziwa kuphela ngabashadikazi benza lokho abakufundile futhi bakhule kancane phakathi nezinyanga neminyaka yobumbano. Yonke imibhangqwana ngemuva kokwelulekwa ngomshado izoqhubekela phambili ngokuzethemba ukuthi konke kuzolunga.