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- Ukuxhumana kwangempela, okuyiqiniso akwenzeki
- 1. Cabanga ngaphambi kokukhuluma
- 2. Gcina ububele phambili
- 3. Uma ubuza ukuthi usuku lomlingani wakho luhambe kanjani, kusho khona lokho
- 4. Shano into enhle komunye nomunye nsuku zonke, ungacelanga
- 5. Khuluma ngalokho abakwesabayo, abakhathazekile noma abakhathazekile ngakho
- 6. Buza ukuthi ungasiza yini
- 7. Yenza izinto ezincane ukujabulisa umlingani wakho, ungacelwanga
- 8. Qedani isikhathi sabashadile ndawonye ukuze nixoxe ngokubalulekile kini nobabili
Imibhangqwana yesikhathi eside ingangena ohlotsheni olufushane lokuxhumana.
Imvamisa imibhangqwana isuka ekuqedeleni imicabango kanye nemisho yomunye nomunye ize ithule buthule izikhala emakhanda ayo, icabanga ukuthi iyazi ukuthi uthini umlingani wayo.
Lokhu kungadlulela ekubambeni nasezimpendulweni ezimfushane ngisho nasekucabangeni okungalungile uma ungaqapheli.
Uma unalezi “zingxoxo” usuke nje uzifonela.
Ukuxhumana kwangempela, okuyiqiniso akwenzeki
Ngokushesha noma kamuva uzoqala ukuzwa ukuntuleka kokuxhumeka. Yima ucabange ngakho isikhashana.
Wagcina nini ukukhuluma wena nozakwenu ngento ejulile futhi eyiqiniso? Ingabe izingxoxo zakho kulezi zinsuku zivame kakhulu phezulu futhi zikhawulelwe enkambisweni yansuku zonke, ukusebenza kwekhaya, njll.
Ugcine nini ukukhuluma ngothando nomlingani wakho futhi nixoxe ngalokho enikucabangayo futhi enikuzwayo nobabili? Uma sekuyisikhathi leso akusona isibonakaliso esihle.
Uma uzizwa ngathi wena nozakwenu aninazo izingxoxo ezizuzisayo noma ukuthi anithandani futhi aninomusa ngokwanele komunye nomunye, amathuba amahle ukuthi umlingani wakho uzizwa ngokufanayo.
Nobabili kungenzeka “nibhajwe” enkambeni noma enjwayeleni eye yakwehlukanisa ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Yizindaba ezimbi lezo. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi, ungayilungisa le nkinga ngoshintsho oluncane ekusebenzisaneni kwakho nomlingani wakho futhi nenze ukuxhumana kwenu kube nothando, ukunakekela nokwanelisa nina nobabili.
Nazi ezinye izindlela ezilula zokuba nothando ngokwengeziwe kubo bonke ubudlelwano bakho
1. Cabanga ngaphambi kokukhuluma
Esikhundleni sempendulo yakho ejwayelekile, yima ucabange isikhashana bese uphendula ngomusa.
Imvamisa singaba nokushayeka okukhulu, sifushane, noma sicasule.
Qiniseka ukuthi umlingani wakho uyazi ukuthi lokhu abakubuzayo / abakutshoyo kubalulekile kuwe.
2. Gcina ububele phambili
Cabanga ngalokho okushoyo nokuthi umlingani wakho angazizwa kanjani ngakho.
Thambisa izimpendulo zamakhethini futhi ube mnandi kancane.
Akunzima ukukwenza futhi kwenza umehluko omkhulu.
3. Uma ubuza ukuthi usuku lomlingani wakho luhambe kanjani, kusho khona lokho
Thatha isikhathi uzibuke emehlweni bese ulinda impendulo yabo.
Ungaphenduli, lalela nje.
Lokhu kungukhiye weqiniso wokuxhumana okuyiqiniso.
4. Shano into enhle komunye nomunye nsuku zonke, ungacelanga
Angikhulumi ngokukhuluma okuphezulu "ubukeka umuhle"; kufanele ngabe usuvele uyakwenza lokho.
Tshela umlingani wakho okuthile okuhle abangahamba nakho ngosuku lwabo.
Batshele ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngomsebenzi abawenzayo, noma indlela abaphathe ngayo isimo esinzima nezingane. Yenza umehluko osukwini lomlingani wakho ngokubaphakamisa futhi ubakhuthaze.
5. Khuluma ngalokho abakwesabayo, abakhathazekile noma abakhathazekile ngakho
Ukwabelana ngokwesaba kanye / noma imithwalo yomunye nomunye kuyindlela yokukusondeza ndawonye.
6. Buza ukuthi ungasiza yini
Ungacabangi ukuthi umlingani wakho udinga ukuthi ubalungisele izinto, udinga izeluleko noma umbono wakho.
Kwesinye isikhathi bafuna ukusekelwa nokukhuthazwa kwakho kuphela. Ngamunye wenu ungumuntu onekhono, ophelele.
Gwema isicupho sokuxhomekeka ngokuvumela ukuzimela komunye nomunye nemicabango nezenzo zomuntu ngamunye.
Kwesinye isikhathi impendulo ithi “cha, ungasizi”, makube kulungile lokho futhi ungaphatheki kabi.
7. Yenza izinto ezincane ukujabulisa umlingani wakho, ungacelwanga
Izipho ezincane; siza ngemisebenzi yasendlini, ukungaceli ikhefu, inkomishi yekhofi noma isidlo sokudla.
Letha ekhaya uphudingi owuthandayo, iwayini noma okulula. Bathumele umlayezo wokusekela phakathi nosuku olude lomsebenzi noma iphrojekthi. Uzomangala ukuthi ukushukuma okuncane okucabangayo kungaletha kanjani injabulo kumlingani wakho.
8. Qedani isikhathi sabashadile ndawonye ukuze nixoxe ngokubalulekile kini nobabili
Khuluma ngamathemba akho, amaphupho akho, izinhlelo zakho namaqhinga akho.
Hlaziya kaningi ngoba izinto ziyashintsha. Jabulani futhi nijabulelane futhi nisebenzise leso sikhathi ukuxhuma futhi nibonise uthando komunye nomunye.
Ukugqashula enkambisweni noma esimisweni kungaba nzima, futhi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Yiba nesineke komunye nomunye nakuwe ngoba ungaphindela emuva ngokungazi izimpendulo zakho ezijwayelekile. Shayelanani kuyo uma nenza, futhi ngobumnene khumbuza umlingani wakho ukuthi usebenzela ukuguqula le mikhuba emidala nokwakha eminye.
Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuba nguphathina onothando ngokwengeziwe ukuphakamisa oshade naye, unengxoxo yangempela ngento ethile eyiqiniso bese uphonsa ulimi oluthile olunomusa nothando lapho njengesikhumbuzo.
Ngokushesha uzobona ushintsho ekusebenzisaneni kwakho lapho nobabili ningaba nomusa futhi nibe mnandi komunye nomunye ngenxa nje yomkhuba.
Umkhuba omuhle lowo!