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- 1. Uthando nokuyekethisa
- 2. Ibinzana elisetshenziswe kahle, alenziwanga kahle
- 3. Indlela esetshenziswayo yezimali emshadweni
Ukuthembeka kwezezimali kungumkhuba wokubona ukuthi empeleni konke kungokukaNkulunkulu, nokuthi imali akuyona indlela eya enjabulweni.
Ngokusebenzisa ukwethembeka kwezezimali, ungaphatha kalula imali yakho emshadweni wakho ngokweBhayibheli futhi uzuze impilo ethembekile, enenjabulo nomshado oqinile. Lowo ongenangxabano futhi ongalawulwa yimali. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuxabana kwezezimali kungaba yimbangela yokuchitheka kwemishado eminingi. Lezi zinyathelo ezintathu ezilandelayo zezimali eziphumelelayo emshadweni, ezivela ebhayibhelini, zizoqinisekisa ukuthi uyawuqinisa umshado wakho, nokholo lwakho, kodwa futhi uphile impilo ezinzile ngokwezimali futhi.
Futhi yini ongayithandi ngalokho?!
1. Uthando nokuyekethisa
Ivesi lokuqala futhi mhlawumbe elibaluleke kakhulu 'lokuphatha ezezimali emshadweni' livela ku
(1 KwabaseKorinte 13: 4, 5) ithi, "uthando luyabekezela futhi lunomusa", "uthando alufuni indlela yalo".
Lo mgomo, uma usetshenziswa kukho konke ukusebenzisana nezezimali, uzoqinisekisa ukuthi imibhangqwana eshadile izokhetha ngokuhlakanipha, futhi icabangele nomyeni wayo, noma uMfazi wayo. Futhi ngendlela engakwazi ukuyekethisa uthando lwabo komunye nomunye, ngenxa yezidingo zabo. Akuwona nje umbono omuhle wezezimali emshadweni kepha futhi kuyo yonke imishado, ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Uma umthanda ngempela umuntu, futhi ufuna okuthile - kepha umlingani wakho akayithandi. Uma uthatha indlela yokubekezela nenomusa futhi usebenzise umgomo wokungafuni indlela yakho. Nozakwenu usebenza ngendlela efanayo futhi. Uzofinyelela kalula ekuvumelaneni ngokuzibophezela kwezezimali ukuze izinhlangothi zombili zijabule ngomphumela.
Manje lokho kungahle kungasho ukuthi uhlala unquma ukuthenga noma yini oyifunayo. Futhi ngokulinganayo, akusho ukuthi unquma ukungayithengi. Noma ngabe yini ongayikhetha, uma uyenza ngesineke, ngomusa nangendlela yokufuna ngokweqile nomlingani wakho, kuzobanzima ukwenza isenzo nobabili eningavumelani ngaso (ikakhulukazi uma nazi ukuthi nobabili nisebenzela ukuba nomusa hhayi ukufuna indlela yakho).
2. Ibinzana elisetshenziswe kahle, alenziwanga kahle
Kunamavesi amaningi weBhayibheli 'wokuphatha izimali emshadweni' anikela ngohlelo lokuphatha imali empeleni ngomqondo osebenzayo nohlakaniphile. Ngakho-ke kungabonakala njengokungajwayelekile, noma ukuvilapha ukuthi ivesi elilandelayo esilisebenzisile mhlawumbe lihlobene nomusho ojwayelekile futhi owaziwayo, ikakhulukazi imibhangqwana eshadile.
'Kwabacebile noma abampofu'.
Isisho esivamile kungaba, kepha akwenziwa kalula kangako. Futhi lapho ucabanga ukuthi sixoxa ngezimali emshadweni. Ngenhloso yokukusiza ukuthi ujabulele umshado ojabule futhi obusisekile ngokumangazayo, nombono olinganiselayo ngezimali (ngokombono webhayibheli nezimfundiso zalo), uzobona ukuthi kunengqondo. Ngoba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umbono wokuceba, noma wokuhlupheka usetshenziswe emshadweni.
"Isitsha sesobho nomuntu omthandayo singcono kunokuba nenyama yenkomo nomuntu omzondayo" IzAga 15:17 ”
Kungaba ngumhlaba omuhle kanjani uma uthando lukhanya kakhulu kunemali. Uma izikhathi ezinzima zezimali zikushaya, cabanga ngomgomo owodwa, bese usebenzisa lowo mqondo ukusebenzisana nomlingani wakho ngokufunwa yimali. Noma ngabe unakho okuningi, noma cha, lapho uzama lokhu, umphumela okuzoba yiwo okukusondeza ndawonye futhi uqine njengezithandani.
Khumbula uma ungakwazi ukuphatha isibopho esincane semali noma imali ngobuqotho, uyoke unikezwe kanjani umthwalo wemali enkudlwana?
“Noma ngubani ongathenjwa ngokuncane kakhulu naye angathenjwa kokuningi, futhi noma ngubani ongathembekile kokuncane kakhulu uyothembeka kokuningi. Ngakho-ke uma ubungathembekanga ekuphatheni ingcebo yezwe, ngubani oyakukuthemba ngengcebo yeqiniso na? ULuka 16: 1-13
3. Indlela esetshenziswayo yezimali emshadweni
Kunamavesi amaningi ahlobene nezezimali emshadweni ebhayibhelini, amaningi awo axoxa ngokubaluleka kokuhlela, nokuyala.
Lapho nihlela futhi niyalwa ngokwenziwa kohlelo lwenu, futhi nihlela ndawonye njengezithandani. Nobabili nivumelana ngokulinganiselwa kwakho kwezezimali, amathuba nemingcele, nokuthi nizokuphatha kanjani izinqumo zenu noma nilungise izinkinga ezingavela eminyakeni edlule njengoMyeni noMfazi. Okwenza impilo iqhubeke ngokushelela futhi ikuvumela ukuthi unikeze umthwalo wemfanelo wokufuna noma wokukhombisa imali okholweni lwakho kalula futhi kunciphise ukungqubuzana empilweni yakho nasebudlelwaneni bakho.
Ohlelweni lwakho ningafaka isu lokuthi nobabili nihlela ukubhekana kanjani nezinkinga ezivamile noma ukungavumelani okungenzeka phakathi kwempilo yenu ndawonye.
Ngale ndlela, izinselelo eziningi zezimali abantu abaningi ababhekana nazo zizophathwa ngempumelelo, futhi ungahlala ubheke eBhayibhelini ukuthola izeluleko zokuthi ungahlelela kanjani uhlelo lwakho.
Nakhu okushiwo yiBhayibheli ngalo mbono.
“Ngaphandle kokuhlelela ngokuya ngezindinganiso zeBhayibheli, izinhloso, nokubekwa phambili, imali iba ngumphathi womsebenzi onzima futhi, njengeqabunga elibanjwe isivunguvungu, singena ekuphishekeleni ingcebo yomhlaba (Luka 12: 13-23; 1 Tim. 6: 6-10) ”- www.Bible.org.
“Uma ukuhlela kwethu kwezezimali kuzosebenza, kuzodinga ukuziphatha kahle nokuzinikela ukuze izinhlelo zethu zihunyushelwe ezenzweni. Kumele silandele izinhloso zethu ezinhle ”(IzA. 14:23).
Ngalezi zimali ezintathu kumasu eBhayibheli omshado, maduzane uzobe usuthola umshado olinganiselayo, ohloniphanayo, nojabulisayo - nobudlelwano nemali. Nakhu impilo yakho ende futhi ejabulisayo ndawonye.
P.S. Akujabulisi yini ukuthi indlela esibheka ngayo umshado kufanele iphathwe ngendlela efanayo nendlela esisebenzisa ngayo imali - cishe sengathi ukuphatha imali, kungubudlelwano kukodwa, sicabanga kanjalo.