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Lapho imibhangqwana eminingi ekugcineni ithatha isinqumo sokwehlukana, bobabili abashadile bayabona ukuthi ubuhlobo abunakulungiswa. Imvamisa umlingani oyedwa akasamukeli isehlukaniso. Lowo owakwakhe angafuna ukugcina ubudlelwane bendawonye, futhi kaningi bangasinciphisa isehlukaniso. Abakwazi ukuyimisa, noma kunjalo.
Isehlukaniso asinakunqandwa
Ezinsukwini zakudala, kwakunzima ukuthola isehlukaniso. Oshade naye obefuna isehlukaniso imvamisa bekufanele akhombise "iphutha" ngakwelinye iqabane. Lokhu kwakuyinto efana nokuphinga noma ukuhlukumeza. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukufakazela iphutha ubungeke uthole isehlukaniso.
Njengodaba olusebenzayo, imibhangqwana ebivele ifune ukuhamba ngezindlela zayo ezihlukene ivame ukwenza sengathi umyeni ubethandana. Uma umyeni engakwamukeli ukuhlukanisa, ubengaya enkantolo akhombise ukuthi wayengenaphutha futhi inkantolo ingawushiya umshado usukhona.
Namuhla, cishe akunakwenzeka ukumisa isehlukaniso. Uma omunye oshade naye efuna ukuthola isehlukaniso, ekugcineni angakuthola. Masisebenzise iNevada njengesibonelo. Lapho, umuntu oshadile umane akhombise ukuthi "akahambisani" nowakwakhe.
Amajaji ayivamile ukungena ngokujulile kulolu daba. Ijaji lingasiphika isehlukaniso esimweni esingajwayelekile uma ijaji lithola ukuthi lezi zithandani zisahlala ndawonye, kepha ezimweni eziningi, uma othile ethi bafuna isehlukaniso ijaji lizomnika.
Oshade naye angahle anciphise isehlukaniso
Isehlukaniso asikona nje ukwephula izibopho ezisemthethweni phakathi kwabashadile. Isehlukaniso siphinde sixazulule izinkinga ezihlobene nemali nezingane. Izinkantolo zithathela umthwalo wazo ezinganeni ngokungathi sína kakhulu, ngoba abashadayo kaningi bangalahlekelwa yizidingo zezingane zabo ngesikhathi sokuhlukana.
Izinkantolo kufanele futhi zibheke ukwehlukaniswa kwempilo yonke yombhangqwana, kufaka phakathi amakhaya abo, izimoto zabo, nanoma iyiphi enye impahla abanayo. Ezimweni eziningi, ngokudabukisayo izinkantolo kufanele zihlukanise izikweletu zombhangqwana.
Uma omunye oshade naye engakwamukeli ukuhlukanisa, angahle adonse inqubo yokuxazulula ukwahlukaniswa kwempahla nezinkinga ezihlobene nengane. INevada Bar ikhombisa ukuthi, ukusebenzisa leso sibonelo futhi, ukuthi amajaji akuleso simo ancamela ukuthi abashadile baxoxisane ngokuhlukaniswa kwempahla yabo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso kuzo zonke izinkantolo ezweni lonke.
Ezimweni eziningi, abashadikazi bazovumelana ngokuhlukaniswa kwempahla yabo, bese ijaji limane libuyekeze isivumelwano sabo ukuze liqiniseke ukuthi lilungile ngaphambi kokuthi linikeze isehlukaniso. Akukho okuningi ongakwenza umlingani uma omunye oshade naye efuna ukukhipha izingxoxo kuze kube yilapho ijaji kufanele lingenelele futhi lihlukanise izimpahla zombhangqwana.
Oshade naye olwa nenkinga angahlehlisa inqubo. Izingane ziyinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Ukuhlukanisa imali kudinga ijaji ukuthi lifake izimpahla bese linquma ngokuhlukaniswa okulungile. Ukuthatha izinqumo ngezinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi ezihlobene nezingane, njengokuthi ingane kufanele ihlale kuphi, kungadinga ubufakazi obuvela ezinganeni, kumalungu omndeni, nakwizazi zokusebenza kwengqondo. Uma abalingani bengavumelani ingxabano ingahudula izinyanga.