-Delile
- Ubugovu → Ukuzidela
- Ukuvilapha → Ukunaka
- Isikhulumi → Mlaleli
- Ukwahlukana → Ubunye
- Ngemuva kwalokho → Manje
- Mina → Nathi
Imikhuba yobugovu kunzima ukuyiyeka, futhi leyo eqhutshwa emshadweni ivame ukudala ukungakhululeki noma ukunganeliseki. Ukushintsha imikhuba yakho kusuka ekugxileni kuwe kugxile koshade naye kungaba yinselele, kepha le misebenzi ifezwa kalula ngokuzimisela nokuzikhandla okusuka enhliziyweni. Ake sibheke izindlela eziyisithupha ongenza ngazo ushintsho ngokushintsha umbono wakho.
Ubugovu → Ukuzidela
Ukwenza inguquko ekubeni nobugovu uye ekuzideleni emshadweni wakho akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi njengoba kuzwakala. Noma ngubani obejwayele ukuzimela nokuzimela, kulula ukuthuthukisa inqubo nokwakheka. Umshado uyashintsha lokho. Akungabazeki ukuthi ukungazinikeli ngaso sonke isikhathi cishe akunakwenzeka, kepha ukwenza umzamo oqondile wokubeka izidingo zomlingani wakho ngaphezu kwezakho kungaba nomthelela omkhulu emshadweni wakho. Akukona ukuphelela okudingekayo - ukumane uzimisele ukubeka umlingani wakho kuqala.
Ukuvilapha → Ukunaka
Ukusuka esimeni sokuvilapha uye ekulalelweni ngokuphelele, ngokufanayo, kunzima. Lolu shintsho luvame ukwenziwa kaningi phakathi nomshado njengoba umbhangqwana ukhululeka ngenqubo yawo. Ubuvila abusho ukuthi uzishaya indiva noma ugwema oshade naye; kungaba nje isimo sokukhululeka ngokweqile ngezehlakalo zansuku zonke zomshado wakho. Yenza umzamo ovulekile futhi oqondile wokushintsha indlela osebenza ngayo futhi ugcine ubuhlobo bakho busha. Naka oshade naye ngokwenza umzuzu ngamunye nesinqumo ngasinye ucabanga ngaye.
Isikhulumi → Mlaleli
Olunye ushintsho okumele luqaphele futhi lube nenhloso yilolo lokushintshela kusipikha uye kumlaleli. Iningi lethu lifisa ukuzwa kodwa likuthola kunzima ukulalela lapho abanye bedinga ukuthi sizwe. Ukuprakthiza lolu shintsho akusizi kuphela emshadweni wakho kepha futhi nakobunye ubudlelwano nobungani. Ukulalela akusho nje ukuzwa amagama akhulunywa, kepha kunalokho kuyisinqumo sokwazisa ukuzama ukuqonda umyalezo owabiwayo. Asikho njalo isidingo sokuphendula, futhi akulona ithemba lokuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi unempendulo efanele. Kumane kusuke ekubeni yilowo okhulumayo kuye ekubeni yilowo olalelayo.
Ukwahlukana → Ubunye
Kubalulekile ukuthi umshado wenu ube owokhuluma ngobunye kunokuhlukana. Ukwenza ushintsho ekubukeni umlingani wakho njengomphikisi uye kumuntu obambisene naye kuyadingeka ekuphumeleleni kobudlelwano bakho. Umlingani wakho kufanele abe isifuba sakho - umuntu obheke kuye ukuthola imibono, ukukhuthazwa, nokukhuthazwa. Uma umshado wakho ungowokungeneliseki noma ukuncintisana okubhekwayo, kungakuhle ukuxoxa obala ngamathemba nokulindelwe njengendlela yokwandisa amandla akho okusebenza njengeqembu.
Ngemuva kwalokho → Manje
Shiya okwedlule esikhathini esedlule! Okwenzeke ngaphambili, ngisho nakubudlelwano bakho, lokho sekuxolelwe kufanele kushiywe wedwa. Imithetho yokulwa efanelekile iphakamisa ukuthi noma yini exolelweyo ayivunyelwe ukuphikisana, ukungavumelani, noma ukuqhathanisa. “Ukuthethelela ukhohlwe” akuwona umqondo thina, njengabantu, esingawufeza kalula. Esikhundleni salokho, ukuthethelela ngumzamo wansuku zonke wokuqhubekela phambili futhi ushiye okwedlule ngemuva. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukusuka kumbono ka “ke” kuya kumbono “manje”, futhi kusho ukuthi oyedwa noma bobabili abalingani kufanele bagweme ukuphinda ukuziphatha omunye akubona kukhathaza noma kuthukuthelisa. Ukuthethelela nokuhlala kumanje kuyinqubo edinga bobabili abalingani.
Mina → Nathi
Mhlawumbe inkinobho ebaluleke kunazo zonke yokwenza yilowo osuka engqondweni ethi “mina” uye engqondweni “yethu”. Lo mqondo uhlanganisa zonke izici zempilo yombhangqwana, futhi ukuzimisela ukufaka njalo umlingani wakho ezinqumweni, imicimbi, nezikhathi ezikhethekile empilweni yakho. Ukuzimisela ukufaka oshade naye akusho ukuthi kufanele udele inkululeko yakho. Esikhundleni salokho, kusho ukwandisa ukuzimela kwakho ngokukhetha ukufaka umuntu empilweni yakho, ngaphandle kwalokho, ongeke abe nezwi emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke.
Ukwenza ushintsho emikhubeni yakho yansuku zonke akusona isinyathelo esilula ukusithatha, kepha kuyenzeka. Futhi, ungumuntu. Oshade naye ungumuntu. Akekho noyedwa kini oyofinyelela ukuphelela ebudlelwaneni benu, kepha ukushintsha imibono nokuba nesimo sengqondo sokuzimisela ukwenza kanjalo kunganothisa impilo yakho yomshado.