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Okumangaza abantu bangaphandle ukuthi izisulu zingaba yizimpumputhe kanjani ezimpawu zokuhlukumezeka ngokomoya nangamazwi. Kuyisimo esimangazayo impela ukufakaza, ukuthi umuntu ngokusobala unjani, uvame ukuba nonya, ahlukunyezwe nokuthi ubonakala enganaki kangako ngalokho. Okubi kakhulu, benza futhi baphile sengathi konke bekufana nokuthi kufanele kube njalo. Yimuphi umnyombo wenkinga yanoma yikuphi ukuhlukunyezwa, njengoba sizokhombisa? Kepha ekuhlukunyezweni ngamazwi nangokomzwelo, imingcele iba nzima nakakhulu ukuyibona.
Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwenzeke
Ukuthi umuntu eba kanjani isisulu noma umhlukumezi kusisekelo sobumpumputhe obusanda kuchazwa esethulweni. Noma lezi zikhundla zihluke kakhulu, imvelaphi yazo iyefana. Bazalelwe ebuntwaneni, lapho isisulu nomhlukumezi babebheka abazali babo nokuthi basebenzisana kanjani.
Ngeshwa, imindeni engajabule ivame ukuveza imindeni emisha engajabule. Futhi lapho izingane zibona ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo, zifunda ukuthi lena indlela ejwayelekile yokuxhumana. Ngaleso sikhathi, abazi lutho kangcono. Lapho sikhula, kancane kancane sifunda ukuthi okuthile ebudlelwaneni akulungile. Kepha, ekujuleni kwethu okujulile, sigxishe iphethini elihlukumezayo ekubukeni kwethu komhlaba.
Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe isisulu, ngokwesibonelo, kungenzeka sachitha isikhathi esiningi sempilo yaso siphikisana nobudlelwano obuhlukumezayo nokuba nabalingani abahlonipheke kakhulu, ingozi ihlala ikhona. Futhi mzuzu lapho isisulu sihlangana nomhlukumezi, inunu eleleyo ivusa bobabili. Lokhu kuvame ukubonakala kusukela ngomzuzu wokuqala laba bobabili bazana, futhi, uma kungavulwa, kuzoba kukhulu futhi kuqine nsuku zonke zobudlelwano babo. Kungakho ukuqaphela izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nangamazwi kubalulekile ethembeni lobudlelwano obunempilo nempilo.
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Isisulu sizibona kanjani izinto
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nangamazwi kunendlela yokuhlanekezela umbono wesisulu weqiniso kuze kube sezingeni lokukhohlisa. Lokhu akusho ukuthi isisulu sinenkinga yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, noma ngabe umhlukumezi uzozama ukubakholisa ukuthi bayakwenza. Kuphela yithonya elenzeka kancane kancane elifana nobuchopho umenzi wobubi analo ekutheni isisulu sizibona kanjani izinto.
Isisulu kaningi, lapho sibuzwa ngobudlelwano babo, sikhombisa izindlela ezimbalwa ezijwayelekile zokuziphatha. Ekuqaleni, cishe uzokuzwa ukuthi umlingani wabo omusha ungumuntu ophelele kunabo bonke emhlabeni. Nguye ohlakaniphe ngokungenamkhawulo futhi unezimiso eziqinile abaphila ngazo. Banothando futhi bakhuluma ngokungagunci ngayo yonke into. Abakubekezeleli ukuphushiswa, futhi abakubekezeleli ukulawulwa kombuso ngabanye.
Lapho isikhathi sihamba, isisulu sizoqala ukubona ukuthi okuthile akulungile nje, kepha ngaleso sikhathi, bayohlukaniswa ngokuphelele nabangane nemindeni yabo. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, bazoshiywa ngokuphelele kuthonya lomhlukumezi.
Isisulu sizozisola ngesimo sobudlelwano. Ukube nje (ama) ubengcono, ehlakaniphile, abe mnandi ngokwengeziwe, abe nekhono ngokwengeziwe, abe nokunambitheka okwengeziwe, uthando oluningi, nokuningi ... noma yini. Uyokholwa ukuthi lokhu okushiwo ngumhlukumezi kulungile, futhi alahlekelwe ngokuphelele ukuzethemba noma amandla okuba nenhloso.
Futhi, lapho ukhuluma nomuntu onobudlelwano obuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo, uzomangala ukuthi banganaki kangakanani amandla abo namakhono abo, nokuthi bakholelwa kangakanani ukuthi umlingani wabo uqinisile. Sonke lesi sikhathi, uzobe ubheka komunye wabantu abadabukisayo eMhlabeni.
Izimpawu
Ngakho-ke, uma wena uqobo, noma umuntu osondelene naye angahle abe yisisulu sokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nangamazwi, unikezwe ukuthi kunzima kanjani ukuba nenjongo futhi ubheke iqiniso emehlweni, wazi izimpawu ezimbalwa zokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi kungaba wusizo. Ngaphandle kokuthi isisulu sihlukaniswe ngokuphelele futhi sihoxiswe emndenini waso nakubangane, futhi sibe namandla okuzigxeka ngezinto ezingenangqondo, nazi ezinye izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo (ezinye zazo ezijwayeleke kakhulu kwabesifazane kanti ezinye abahlukumezi besilisa, kepha bonke bayahlukumeza):
- Ukuhlaliswa phansi njalo
- Ukuba namahloni nokululazeka, kepha ikakhulu ngasese
- Ukusetshenziswa kokubhuqa, amahlaya alulazayo anokhahlo
- Ukuxhumana okungaqondile okusho ukuthi isisulu akulungile nganoma yisiphi isizathu
- Umona ongenangqondo
- Ukuzizwa ngokweqile, njengokungathi isisulu sihamba njalo kumagobolondo amaqanda
- Ukuphathwa kabi ngokomzwelo
- Ukukhishwa ngaphandle ngokomzwelo
- Ukuzwa izinsongo zokuthi kuzokwenzekani uma isisulu sihamba (umhlukumezi uzozibulala yena, noma ngeke avumele isisulu ukuba sihambe, siziphindiselele noma okufanayo)
- Uhlala ebheka ukuthi isisulu sikuphi nomsebenzi wawo
- Ukulawula isimilo esiphakathi kwamazwi okubhuqa kuya ekuhloleni ifoni ngokugcwele, nokwenza isihogo esiphilayo sisuke empilweni yesisulu lapho bephuma endlini
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