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- Ukuthi udadewethu nesibopho somfowenu kwehluke kanjani kunoma yikuphi okunye
- Umfowethu nodadewethu babopha kanjani ukuthi sizoba yini njengabantu abadala
- Ubunikazi, ubudlelwano, nokunamathiselwe
- Kubazali - ungazikhuthaza kanjani izingane zakini ukuba zizwane
Uthando lwabazalwane uhlobo oluthile lobudlelwano. Kwesinye isikhathi, izingane zakubo zizwana kakhulu njengoba kwenza amakati nezinja. Kepha, noma ngabe kunezimpi eziningi kanye nezingxabano izingane zakubo ezidlula kuzo ngenkathi zikhula, isibopho sezelamani akunakwenzeka ukuba sinqamuke.
Ubudlelwano bezelamani buyehlukene futhi buhlukahlukene njenganoma iyiphi enye indlela yokuxhumana kwabantu. Kepha, bonke ubudlelwano phakathi kwezingane zakwethu bufana ukuthi busifundisa ukuthanda nokupha, kungakhathalekile izintshisekelo zethu, futhi noma ngabe kukhona ukungaboni ngaso linye.
Ukuthi udadewethu nesibopho somfowenu kwehluke kanjani kunoma yikuphi okunye
Awukho umndeni ofana ncamashi. Uma kukhulunywa ngezelamani, kunezinhlanganisela eziningi, kuya ngokwehluka kweminyaka, ubulili, inani lezingane, amalungiselelo okuphila.
Futhi, kunemikhono eminingi yokuthi izingane zakubo zihlobana kanjani. Kodwa-ke, ubudlelwano phakathi komfowethu nodadewabo buhlala buhluka kobo obunabazali noma abanye abantu abadala.
Ngokwengqondo, izingane zihlala zisondelene, noma ngabe zikhona umahluko wobudala obukhulu. Lokhu kusobala, ngokwesibonelo, ukunganaki phakathi kwezingane ezingashadile nalabo abakhule nezelamani.
Lapho izingane zikhula ndawonye, zakha ubudlelwano obuyiqiniso obakhiwa bodwa, obunokuholwa okuncane kwabantu abadala. Ngamanye amagama, i- ukubaluleka kobudlelwano bezelamani kungukuthi izingane zikhulisa ukuzimela ebudlelwaneni bazo bezenhlalo ngobudlelwano bazo nezingane zakubo.
Umfowethu nodadewethu babopha kanjani ukuthi sizoba yini njengabantu abadala
Ubudlelwano nothando phakathi kwezelamani, ngandlela thile, kuyinkambu yokuziqeqesha ebudlelwaneni bethu besikhathi esizayo nontanga yethu.
Ngenkathi ubudlelwano bethu nabazali bethu bunomthelela ezinhlotsheni zethu eziningi futhi, ngokungenzeka, izingqinamba okuzodingeka sibhekane nazo lapho sesikhulile, ubudlelwano nabafowethu nodadewethu bubonisa ukuxhumana kwethu kwesikhathi esizayo. Enye indlela yokuyibuka kungamalensi wemidlalo esiyidlalayo sonke, ngokusho kwesikole esisodwa se-psychology.
Isibonelo, uma izingane zakini zibekezelela ubunzima ndawonye njengezingane, isibopho sazo ngeke sinqamuke, kepha bobabili kungenzeka bathuthukise ukuqina okuzobenza babe ngamaRealists njengabantu ngabanye. Noma, uma ingane yakini endala ibinakekela abancane, ingahle ihlunge uhlobo lwendima yokuphila yoMnakekeli.
Ubunikazi, ubudlelwano, nokunamathiselwe
Ngakho-ke, uma singathanda ukufingqa i ingane yakini ithanda incazelo ezinganeni nakubantu abadala, kungabukwa ngezindlela ezintathu eziyinhloko. Eyokuqala yindaba yokuthi ungubani.
Phakathi kwabazali nabangane bakamuva, izingane zakubo yizona zinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ekwakheni ubunikazi bengane. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi ubuhlobo bunjani, ingane izocacisa kakhulu izici zayo uma iqhathaniswa nengane yakini.
Uthando lwabazalwane futhi ibhekele indlela esisebenzisana ngayo nabanye, okungukuthi ebudlelwaneni bethu besikhathi esizayo. Sifunda ezinganeni zakwethu izindlela lapho izidingo zethu nezifiso zethu zihlobana futhi zingqubuzana khona.
Sifunda indlela yokuhamba phakathi kwezici ezahlukahlukene eziyohlala zibalulekile ebudlelwaneni, kungaba nengane yakini, nomphathi wethu, noma oshade naye ngokuzayo.
Ekugcineni, kungakhathalekile ukuthi kunamathiselwe okunjani nabazali, izingane ezinezelamani zihlala zithola ithuba lokwakha okunamandla ngokomzwelo nabafowabo nodadewabo.
Futhi bavumela ingane ukuthi inganamatheli ngokungafanele kubazali, ngokwesibonelo, njengoba umzali ezohlukanisa ukunaka kwabo zonke izingane. Ngamafuphi, uthando lwezelamani luyindlela eya ebophweni lomuntu olunempilo.
Kubazali - ungazikhuthaza kanjani izingane zakini ukuba zizwane
Izelamani zingaba abangane noma izitha. Ngeshwa, kunenzondo enkulu yezelamani njengoba kunothando lomfowenu. Kodwa-ke, noma ngabe izingane zakho azizwani nhlobo, kubalulekile ukuqonda indima yabazali ekusizeni izingane zakubo zizwane.
Nguwe ongakwazi futhi odinga ukulinganisela inkambo yemvelo yezinto ukuqinisekisa izinzuzo ezinkulu kakhulu ezinganeni zakho.
Kunezindlela ezimbili zokuxhasa futhi gqugquzela uthando lwezelamani. Owokuqala ngukuvunywa kwemigomo eyisisekelo ofisa ukuthi izingane zakho ziyilandele. Kulokhu, ngamabomu ngomusa, uzwela, ukungabi nabugovu nokusekelwa.
Lezi yizindinganiso ezizofundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zizwane futhi zisizane hhayi kuphela ebuntwaneni kepha futhi nasebekhulile.
Kunemisebenzi eminingi ehlukene yokubopha izingane zakwethu laphaya. Cabanga ngayo yonke imidlalo nomsebenzi wokudlala njengendlela yokukhuthaza uthando lwezelamani.
Benze basebenze njengeqembu, qamba imidlalo ezodinga ukuthi babelane ngemizwa yabo komunye nomunye, abasize babone umhlaba ngombono wenye ingane yakubo ngokushintsha kwezindima.
Kunezinketho eziningi, hlola lezo ezilingana kahle nemikhuba yomndeni wakho, futhi usize izingane zakho zakhe ubuhlobo obuzohlala impilo yonke.