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- Ukudlala kwesisulu
- Ukukhwabanisa
- Isimo esingavikelekile
- Kungani abantu bazihlanganisa nabakwa-narcissists abacashile?
Sonke ngezinga elithile sisongwe ngobuthina. Sonke kwesinye isikhathi sibambeke kakhulu ebuhlungwini bethu kangangokuba sithambekele ekubashalazeleni abanye. Futhi lokho kungumuntu kuwe kuphela.
Kodwa-ke, abakwa-narcissist abacashile ngabantu abazizwa sengathi bayisisulu kuzo zonke izimo. Bazokwenza uzwele ngabo. Lezi yilona hlobo olunzima kunalo lonke lwe-narcissist ukuzibona ngoba azifani nesithombe esivamile se-narcissist onayo engqondweni. Ngeke ubathole bengazithandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzozwelana nabo. Ungase uzithole ngandlela thile ubhekene nazo. Futhi lelo uhlelo lwabo lonke lomdlalo.
Yile ndlela laba bantu abahlasela ngayo izisulu zabo.
Ukudlala kwesisulu
Uzobona into eyodwa ejwayelekile kuma-narcissists ayimfihlo futhi lokho abanakho lutho ngaphandle kokuhlangenwe nakho okubi. Bonke ubudlelwano, bonke ubungani baphela ngabo kabi futhi kuhlala kuyiphutha lomunye umuntu.
Laba bantu bazokwethula inguqulo yezindaba eguqulwe ngokucophelela mayelana nesikhathi sabo esedlule lapho babephathwa kabi ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kuphilile engqondweni ukubuza, kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi wonke umuntu laphaya enze okubi kuwe ngaphandle kokuthi wena ubangele leyo mpendulo noma ngandlela thile ubhekane nakho. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ukhuluma nabantu abake baba nobudlelwano nomuntu ocashile narcissist lapho uzobona khona ukuthi laba bantu bangabanda futhi bahlukumeze kanjani.
Akuzona neze izisulu, kepha zinhle kakhulu ekukholiseni wena!
Ukukhwabanisa
Bangcono kakhulu ekuphatheni. Bazosebenzisa uzwela lwakho njengethuluzi lokulwa nawe. Kuvame ukubonwa ukuthi abantu abasebudlelwaneni nabasebenza ngokufihla imvamisa ngabantu abazwelana kakhulu.
Bawela ezindabeni zez exes ezihlukumezayo, abazali abanodlame kanye nawo wonke omunye umuntu ongumqambi wamanga obaphakelayo.
Ama-coar narcissists athanda ukudala umgoqo phakathi kweqiniso namanga abondla abantu.
Ngeke bakuvumele ubone okwedlula lokho ngoba bona ngokwabo bahlala ebhamuvini yohlobo lwabo lweqiniso. Bazothukuthela uma umbuzo wakho ubuqiniso bezindaba zabo noma ubenza babone iphutha labo kulesi simo.
Ngokuphindisela, bazokukwenza uzizwe kabi ngokubabiza noma ukungabaqondi.
Isimo esingavikelekile
Ama-Covert Narcissists akavikelekile kakhulu.
Bahlala bencintisana nawo wonke umuntu ngokubukeka, ngempumelelo yezimali, njll. Uvame ukubathola bathola induduzo ukwehluleka kothile noma bafuna ukududuzwa ngokubeka abanye phansi. Uzobathola beqhathanisa ukuhlukumezeka kwabo nokuhlukumezeka kwabanye abantu noma ukuhlukumezeka kwakho futhi akukho okusondela esihogweni abadlule kuso.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, bahlala benomuntu okufanele basolwe ngokwehluleka kwabo. Abasoze bamukela amaphutha abo noma ukukhetha kwabo okungalungile. Bazohlala bebeka icala kubantu abasempilweni yabo noma ukungabi bikho kwezinsizakusebenza.
Lokhu kwenza ukuba khona kwabo nanoma ikuphi ukuhlangana nabo kube nobuthi kakhulu. Njengoba bengeke bajabule ngokufeza kwakho futhi bangenza uzizwe ungathokozi ngokujabula lapho bedabukisa kangaka.
Kungani abantu bazihlanganisa nabakwa-narcissists abacashile?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo inzima kakhulu. Le ndaba akuyona emnyama noma emhlophe kepha empeleni impunga.Abantu bazizwa bedonsekela kuma-narcissist ekusithekeni njengoba ekuqaleni bebonakala njengabantu abalungile abadlula esikhathini esibi. Kodwa-ke, bazokukhohlisa ngokuphelele ngezindaba zabo zokukhala futhi kufiphaze ukwahlulela kwakho.
Ungazizwa ubophezelekile kubo ngoba abakwa-narcissists abacashile bazokuholela ekukholweni ukuthi uwena wedwa olungile empilweni yabo.
Kungathatha isikhathi eside ukubona ukuthi budonsa kanjani ngokomzwelo ubudlelwano nomuntu ocashile. Laba bantu banjengama-dementors, bamunca injabulo kuwe. Imvamisa, abantu banamathela ngenxa yokuthi bazizwa benamathele kubo ngokomzwelo.
Kodwa-ke, maduzane banele babathola behlukumeza ngokomzwelo noma bangahlala ngoba bazizwa sengathi bangasiza umuntu ocashile owaziwa ngokuthi yi-narcissist. Yize njalo lapho uzama ukukhomba iphutha bakwenza uzithole usolwa ngokungabuqondi ubuhlungu babo bomphefumulo.
Ubudlelwano noma ubungani ne-narcissist efihlekile bungakhathaza ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ngokuziphatha kwalaba bantu. Futhi uma unaka lezi zimpawu ungasindiswa kusuka eminyakeni yokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo.