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- Hlela ithuba lokuya ocansini
- Ungakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nokuqala kusuka ku-zero nokwakha intshisekelo yezocansi
- Jabulela uhambo ngaphandle kokugxila lapho uya khona
- Ukuhlela kukhombisa ukuzibophezela
- Usengaba nokuzenzakalelayo
Abantu bacabanga ukuthi ukuhlela kususa bonke ubulili ocansini. Izithandani ekusebenzeni kwami zilwa nombono wokwenza izinsuku zokusondelana. Bakhumbula ukuzenzisa ababejwayele ukukwenza empilweni yabo yezocansi. Bangitshela ukuthi ubulili bungazizwa njengomsebenzi noma into yohlu lokuhlola uma bevela ngesikhathi esinqunyelwe, noma ngabe basesimweni sokuya ocansini noma cha.
Kepha uma impilo yakho isimatasa futhi intshisekelo yokuqala isisusiwe, kuzokusiza ukuthi ube nenhloso ngokwengeziwe ngokusondelana ngokomzimba.
Hlela ithuba lokuya ocansini
Ake ngiqale ngokusho ukuthi angicabangi ukuthi kufanele uhlele ucansi, ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele uhlele ithuba lezocansi. Ngiphakamisa ukuthi imibhangqwana icabange ngocansi njengohambo oluya ebaleni lokudlala. Ukuphuma okubalulekile, hhayi okwenzayo uma usufikile lapho.
Wena nomlingani wakho niyavuma ukuyodlala. Wenza okufunayo kumzuzu ngamunye. Uhlala isikhathi eside njengoba ufuna ukuhlala. Akukho lutho oluthi kufanele wehle ngesilayidi; ungashwiba kancane noma uhlale ebhentshini. Awunqumi ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani; ufika lapho ubone ukuthi uzizwa kanjani.
Lokhu kumayelana nokwakha isimo sengqondo sokuthi “mhlawumbe” ngezocansi.
Esikhundleni sokuthi cha, ngoba awukho esimweni njengamanje, uya enkundleni yokudlala ubone ukuthi kwenzekani. Uma usufike lapho futhi ushintshe amagiya, uma usuqale ukuzilolonga kancane, ungazithola usuthanda kakhulu ukwenza ucansi. Amaphesenti athile esikhathi, ungahle ufune isifiso socansi lapho ubungeke ube nalesi sifiso ukube awuqalanga.
Ungakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nokuqala kusuka ku-zero nokwakha intshisekelo yezocansi
Lokhu kusizakala ngomqondo obalulekile okumele izithandani ziwuqonde. Omunye noma nobabili ningaba nengikubiza ngokuthi “isifiso sobulili esivuselelayo.” Isifiso esisebenzayo sibonakala ngemicabango yezocansi nentshisekelo; umuntu ucabanga ngocansi, azizwe evusa inkanuko noma isifiso, futhi afune ukufuna ucansi. Kepha isifiso sokuvuselela sidinga ukuhoxiswa.
Wena noma umlingani wakho kungenzeka ningacabangi ngocansi noma ningahle nizithobe ngokuzenzekelayo noma nivuswe. Uma ubuzwa ukuthi uyafuna yini ukuya ocansini, impendulo cishe ingahlala ithi "cha"
Kepha uma uya phambili, uma izinto zihamba kahle nomlingani wakho, uma uthola isikhathi nokuthinta okudingayo, ungazithola uqala ukuphendula. Ungaqala ukuvuswa. Injini iyajika! Futhi-ke ungahle ufune ucansi.
Isifiso esisebenzayo sidinga okuthile okufanele sisabele kukho. Kudinga ukuzimisela ukuqala kanye nethuba lokuvela.
Kusho ukuthi kufanele uqale kusuka ku-zero bese uyinika ithuba.Ukuya ebaleni lokudlala, ngokukhululeka kepha ngaphandle kokulindela, kunikeza isifiso esisebenzayo ithuba lokuvela.
Jabulela uhambo ngaphandle kokugxila lapho uya khona
Abantu abaningi bagxile kwezocansi naku-orgasm ukuthi bakhohliwe ukuthi bangayithokozela kanjani injabulo nokuxhumana abangaba nakho kukho konke ukuxhumana kwabo ngokomzimba. Uma usondele ebulilini ngokulindela ngocansi noma ufinyelela kuvuthondaba, ungahle weqe isimanga sazo zonke ezinye izingxenye zenqubo.
"Ukuya ebaleni lokudlala" kukunikeza ithuba lokujabulela ngokugcwele noma yini oyenzayo okwamanje, uyeke okulindelwe kokuthi kuzophelela kuphi.
Lapho ukwazi ukujabulela ukusondela nokuthinta nomlingani wakho ngaphandle kokuba nenjongo, konke ukuhlangana kwakho kuphumelela. Akukho ukwehluleka uma nobabili ningajabulela enikwenzayo.
Ukuhlela kukhombisa ukuzibophezela
Lapho impilo seyithathile, lapho umatasa nezingane noma imisebenzi, lapho usudlulele esedlule ukushesha kobulili ebuhlotsheni bakho, futhi ikakhulukazi lapho okungenani omunye wenu enesifiso sobulili esisebenzayo, kubalulekile ukubeka phambili ubulili bakho impilo ngokunikela isikhathi kuyo.
Cishe awunaso isinqamu sesikhathi samahhala lapho ugoqa izithupha zakho uzibuza ukuthi wenzeni. Impilo iyathatha izintambo. Kuzofanele uthathe isikhathi esithile usinikeze ukusondelana. Okuthile kuzofanele kunikeze.
Yingakho ukuhlela amathuba okuya ocansini kubaluleke kakhulu; kukhombisa ukuzibophezela ekutshaleni imali ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Usengaba nokuzenzakalelayo
Khumbula ukuthi usengaba nokuhlangana okuzenzakalelayo, futhi! Ukuthi uhlela uhambo oluya ebaleni lokudlala akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukubuka futhi usebenzise amanye amathuba okuba nobulili ndawonye.
Kepha uma lokho kungenzeki, okungenani hhayi kaningi, okungenani uzoba nethuba elingaguquguquki lokusondelana ngokomzimba futhi ubone ukuthi kuyaphi. Uthola injabulo eyengeziwe nokuxhumeka kunokuba ungazange uthathe lolo hambo.