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- 1. Hlela imingcele bese uyayazisa ingane yakho
- 2. Imizila ibalulekile
- 3. Lala
- 4. Ubuciko bokubona izinto ngombono wabanye
- 5. Ukugona nokuqabula
- 6. Ukubaluleka kwesikhathi sokudlala njengomndeni
- 7. Phumela ngaphandle
- 8. Imithwalo yemfanelo
- 9. Nciphisa isikhathi sesikrini
- 10. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwangempela kwecilongo
Ukukhulisa ingane ukuthi ibe ngumuntu ophilile, onomusa futhi ogxile emphakathini kuwumsebenzi onzima. Baningi bethu abafisa ukuthi Incwadi Yomsebenzisi ikhululwe esibhedlela ngenkathi sithatha ikhaya lethu elisanda kuzalwa, akunjalo?
Futhi ngenkathi i-intanethi ingasinikeza izeluleko ezisheshayo ezindabeni ezisukela ekuqeqesheni izindlu zangasese kuya ekuthukutheleni, sikhungatheka kalula ngakho konke okukhona futhi sinenkinga yokwehlela kwamanye amatshe ayisisekelo, abalulekile lapho sifuna izinsiza zokusisiza sakhe isimo sethu ikusasa lezingane.
Nawa amathiphu ayi-10 ochwepheshe emkhakheni wemfundo yezingane abawabeke ndawonye ukusisiza ukuthi siqonde umsebenzi oligugu wokukhulisa izingane ezijabule, ezilinganiselayo nezizimisele ukufunda nokunikela ezweni elibazungezile.
1. Hlela imingcele bese uyayazisa ingane yakho
Kaninginingi, njengoba kuzodingeka ukuziphinda lezi njengokuhlolwa kwengane yakho futhi ekugcineni kuzihlanganise. Ukubekezela kuzobaluleka kuwe njengoba uqinisa lesi sifundo.
Ingane yakho izohlola le mikhawulo; kuyingxenye yenqubo yabo yokukhula.
Uma ubona ukuthi usukhathele wukugcina umngcele “kanye futhi”, zikhumbuze ukuthi ukuba nalomkhawulo endaweni akusizi nje ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi izizwe ivikelekile futhi ivikelekile, kuyisifundo esibalulekile empilweni okufanele basifake.
Impilo igcwele imikhawulo engeke kuxoxiswane ngayo, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthi bakufunde lokhu besebancane.
2. Imizila ibalulekile
Njengoba nje imingcele yenza ingane izizwe ivikelekile, nemikhuba ebekwayo yenza okufanayo, nayo.
Sungula futhi unamathele emisebenzini enjengezikhathi zokulala, izinyathelo eziholela esikhathini sokulala (ukugeza, ukuxubha amazinyo, isikhathi sezindaba, ukuqabulana okuhle), ukuvuka kwemikhuba, njll.
Ubuntwana bokuqala akusona isikhathi lapho ungadlala khona i-loosey-goosey ngamashejuli. Izingane ziyachuma lapho zazi okufanele zikulindele, futhi zizizwa zingavikelekile uma izinto zingachazwanga kahle noma ziguquka usuku ngalunye.
Uzobona ukuthi kusiza kanjani ukuba nesimiso esihleliwe, ikakhulukazi ekuseni lapho nonke nizama ukuphuma emnyango nifike esikoleni, emsebenzini, enkulisa njll.
3. Lala
Sonke siyabazi abazali abangaziphoqeleli izikhathi zokulala eziqinile, akunjalo?
Izingane zabo mhlawumbe zingama-brats angalawuleki. Izingane azikwazi ukuchuma ngokulala okungabanjwanga futhi azinawo amandla engqondo, njengoba senza njengabantu abadala, ukubhekana nokushoda kokulala.
Ukulala ubusuku obubalulekile kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwengane yakho njengokudla, amanzi nendawo yokukhosela ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyaluhlonipha uhlelo lwakhe lokulala futhi uyalulandela, noma ngabe kusho ukushiya i-playdate kusihlwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ebengathanda ngaso.
4. Ubuciko bokubona izinto ngombono wabanye
Sebenza kusukela ebuncaneni ukufaka ingane yakho uzwela, noma ukuhamba ngezicathulo zomunye umuntu.
Izingane zigxile ngokwemvelo kuzona, ngakho-ke ukuzisiza zicabange ukuthi abanye abantu bangazizwa kanjani kungumqondo obalulekile okufanele usebenzele kuwo. Qala kancane.
Lapho ingane iphawula ngokukhubazeka komunye umuntu, isibonelo, yenze ibone ngeso lengqondo ukuthi kufanele kube njani ukuhlala esihlalweni sabakhubazekile, noma ezintongolweni noma ukuphuka ingalo. Bese umsize aqonde ukuthi kumnandi kanjani ukusiza umuntu onenkinga.
5. Ukugona nokuqabula
Kungadabukisa kanjani ukukhulela emndenini lapho ukuthinta kothando bekungekho.
Qiniseka ukuthi izingane zakho zithola umthamo wazo wokugona nokuqabula ukuze zazi ukuthi kunjani ukuzizwa kahle futhi uphephile ezandleni zabazali bazo.
6. Ukubaluleka kwesikhathi sokudlala njengomndeni
Imvamisa into yokugcina esinayo isikhathi kusihlwa ngemuva kokudla kwakusihlwa nomsebenzi wesikole ukudlala.
Isikhathi sokudlala njengomndeni sibalulekile ekwakheni nasekuqiniseni izibopho zomndeni wakho.
Ngeke uthole umphumela ofanayo ngokudlala umdlalo wevidiyo noma nihlale ndawonye nibukele i-movie ngokungazelele. Yehla imidlalo yebhodi, ukhiphe ipaki lamakhadi, noma vele wenze umdlalo we-hangman ndawonye. Faka i-popcorn nokuhleka futhi usendleleni yokwakha izinkumbulo ezinhle zezingane zakho.
7. Phumela ngaphandle
Isikhathi sokudlala sangaphandle sesibe obunye ubuciko obulahlekile emhlabeni wanamuhla wokuxhuma kwi-inthanethi.
Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho inezivivinyo eziningi zangaphandle nokudlala.
Ukuphuma emvelweni kufakazelwe kunenzuzo kuzo zonke izingane, kepha ikakhulukazi lezo ezinezinkinga ze-ADHD. Qiniseka ukuthi bathola okungenani ihora ngosuku ukuze babe ngaphandle kwepaki noma ebaleni lokudlala, bazijabulise nje futhi bahambisa imizimba yabo.
8. Imithwalo yemfanelo
Impela, kuthatha isikhathi eside ukuthi ingane yakho ilayishe umshini wokuwasha izitsha noma isonge ilondolo kunokuba uzenzele wena. Kepha awufuni ukuthi ingane yakho ikhule ingakwazi ukwenza le misebenzi yempilo.
Ukubabela imisebenzi yasekhaya kuyabasiza futhi ukuba bazizwe benomnikazi wobunikazi kanye nokubamba iqhaza enhlalakahleni yomndeni.
Ngisho nomntwana oneminyaka emithathu angasiza uthuli egumbini lokuphumula. Ngakho-ke dweba ishadi lomsebenzi bese uliqinisa. Ungakubopheli lokhu kwisibonelelo; ingxenye yokuba semndenini ineqhaza ekusetshenzisweni kahle komuzi ngaphandle kwesinxephezelo sezezimali.
9. Nciphisa isikhathi sesikrini
Uzofuna ukunciphisa isikhathi esichithwa yizingane zakho kukhompyutha kanye nezingcingo zazo.
Lokhu kuzonivumela ukuthi nonke nikwazi ukuxhuma njengomndeni (bheka iphuzu lesithupha) kanye nokubasiza ukuthi bahlale lapha nakalokhu. Kuphinde kwehlise inani lama-memes asezingeni eliphansi namazwana angajabulisi abangawafunda kwi-intanethi.
10. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwangempela kwecilongo
Leyo ngane ezansi nomgwaqo ene-iPhone ne-PlayStation yakamuva? Kungenzeka abe nomona wezingane zakho, kodwa ungazizwa unecala.
Uyazi ukuthi isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye siyinto esemqoka ekukhuleni nasenhlalakahleni yengane yakho, into ethile ye-elekthronikhi ayinakumnika yona.
Ngakho-ke kwenze kube phambili ukuchitha izimpelasonto wenza izinto — ukwakha inqaba yomcamelo, ukubhala indaba ndawonye, ukusungula umbukiso wonodoli. Kucebisa kakhulu ukuthi ingane ibambe iqhaza empilweni kunokuyiphila cishe.