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- Hlola umshado wakho wokuqala
- Yazi oshade naye omusha
- Yiba sengozini
- Thola ukwelulekwa
- Sula amandla asalayo emshadweni wakho wokuqala
- Shintsha isimo esikhona
- Hlola isitayela sakho esihlobene
- Ziphathe kahle izibopho zezezimali
Umshado wesibili uyithuba elihle lokwenza isiqalo esisha empilweni yakho. Ngalesi sikhathi unolwazi, isipiliyoni, nokuhlakanipha kokwenza ukuzibophezela ongazange ube nesikhathi sokuqala ngaso. Ngakho-ke kunengqondo ukusebenzisa lolu lwazi nesipiliyoni ukuze wenze umshado wakho wesibili kube ngowohlala impilo yonke.
Nazi ezinye zezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zomshado wesibili ozothola. Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi wenze umshado wakho wesibili uqine, ujabulise futhi ube nempilo.
Hlola umshado wakho wokuqala
Thola amaphutha akho nobuthakathaka obenzile emshadweni wakho wokuqala, futhi ungawaphindi emshadweni wakho wesibili.
Uzothuthukisa amathuba akho omshado wesibili ophumelelayo uma wazi ukuthi uhambe kuphi esikhathini esedlule.
Yazi oshade naye omusha
Zibophezele ekufundeni ukuthi ungamazi kanjani oshade naye ezingeni elijulile. Lokhu kusho ukuxoxa ngezinto nomlingani wakho noma ngabe unamahloni, wesaba noma unamahloni.
Uma ufuna ukwenza umshado wakho wesibili uhlale isikhathi eside, kufanele uthembeke, futhi ngokuthembeka, uzokwakha indawo lapho ukwethembeka nokusondelana kwangempela kugcwele khona!
Yiba sengozini
Zibandakanye emshadweni wakho wesibili; lesi yiseluleko esinzima somshado wesibili ngoba ukukhululeka, ukwethembeka kanye nokuba sengozini ngani nonke kungaba nzima kakhulu.
Kepha uma ungakwenza lokhu, uzovuna izinzuzo emshadweni wakho wesibili ngaphezu kwamaphupho akho amabi kakhulu. Ngakho ngena ngaphakathi, yiba nesibindi futhi uzibonakalise.
Thola ukwelulekwa
Isikhathi esihle sokuthola ukwelulekwa ngaphambi kokuba ube nezinkinga. Ngale ndlela wakha ubudlelwano nomeluleki wakho ongaqala ukukuqonda wena noshade naye namandla omshado wakho.
Okusho ukuthi lapho noma uma ushaya amadwala, noma unokuthile okunzima ukubhekana nakho, unomeluleki onenhloso 'okuthola kuwe' futhi okulungele ukukusiza ukuthi udlule.
Into ukuthi, asazi konke, asazi ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu esingayenza kuzo zonke izimo empilweni yethu kubandakanya nomshado, kepha umeluleki wezomshado unolwazi nolwazi olumangalisayo ekubhekaneni nezinkinga ezifanayo ongase uhlangabezane nazo njalo.
Ngakho-ke ukwamukela ukwelulekwa ngempela kuthatha indlela yokumelana nhlobo kuyindlela esheshayo yokuvikela umshado wakho nokugcina konke kujabulile. Ukube abantu bakubonile lokhu wonke umuntu ubezokwenza!
Sula amandla asalayo emshadweni wakho wokuqala
Ungaqali umshado wakho omusha endlini efanayo noma endaweni oqeda kuyo umshado wakho wokugcina. Ungavumeli amandla nezipoki zangaphambilini zingene emshadweni wakho omusha. Noma ungakujabulela ukuhlala lapho ukhona umlingani wakho kungenzeka angabi khona.
Noma ucabanga ukuthi ujabulile akusho ukuthi amandla omshado wokugcina ngeke avuze ebudlelwaneni bakho ngandlela thile.
Vikela umshado wakho ngazo zonke izindlela futhi uwuqale kahle, uqale ngeziqalo ezintsha ekhaya elisha.
Shintsha isimo esikhona
Yenza umzamo wokuxhumana ngempela noshade naye futhi usethe impilo yakho ukuze usekele le mizamo ngokusetha izindlela ezintsha nemikhuba edala impilo oyifisayo.
Kungani ungacabangi ukuxoxa ngalokhu noshade naye futhi nakhe uhlelo ndawonye - lo msebenzi uzonikhuthaza ukuba nihlanganyele, nixhumane, nithuthukise ukuxhumana kwenu futhi nilawule impilo yenu nekusasa lenu ndawonye.
Hlola isitayela sakho esihlobene
Ukushintsha indlela oxoxa ngayo, kuzoletha amandla amasha emshadweni wakho wesibili - empeleni, lesi iseluleko somshado wesibili esizokusiza kahle kubo bonke ubudlelwano, hhayi abathandanayo kuphela.
Yiba ovumelana nezimo, uvule ushintsho, uhlehle, uxolise futhi wenze ukulungisa ngokuqhubekayo emshadweni wakho ukuze nobabili nihlalisane futhi nihambisane nesikhathi.
Njengoba wenza lokhu, uzothola izindlela ezintsha, ezimnandi nezizuzisayo zokulandisa okungenzeka ubungakaze uzicabange ngaphambili.
Ziphathe kahle izibopho zezezimali
Imishado eminingi iyinkimbinkimbi ngoba kuzoba nokuzibophezela okungeziwe kwezezimali njengokukhokhelwa kwesondlo sabantwana, imali yesondlo, njll.
Uma izinkinga zezezimali zingakuvimbela ekufinyeleleni ezinhlosweni zakho zobudlelwano, xoxa ngalokhu nomuntu ozoshada naye futhi nifune iseluleko sesehlukaniso ndawonye.
Bese nichitha isikhathi nihlela izimali zenu ndawonye ukuqinisekisa ukuthi nobabili niyacacelwa ukuthi nizibophezele kuphi.
Ukukhungatheka ngabo kamuva, noma ukusho izinto ezifana nokuthi ‘singenza x uma kungadingeki sikhokhele isondlo sengane yakho noma imali yesondlo’ kuzomane kubangele izinkinga futhi kungalimaza ukwethenjwa futhi kuhlukanise phakathi kwakho.
Esikhundleni salokho, yiba ngeyakho, njengento ongeke ukwazi ukuyiguqula futhi wavumelana ngayo ngaphambi kokuba ushade futhi wahlela impilo yakho ngokufanele.