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- Umthelela wenkolo ekusebenzeni komndeni
- Ukungqubuzana kwezenkolo emindenini
- Ungazixazulula kanjani izingxabano zenkolo emindenini
- Imicabango yokugcina ngenkolo nangengxabano
Umbuzo wokuthi inkolo ibangela noma iyanciphisa izingxabano emndenini uphendulwe kaningi. Izazi eziningi zaphenya ukuxhumana phakathi kwenkolo nokungqubuzana.
Bazamile ukuhlaziya indima yenkolo emndenini ukuze banikeze impendulo enhle, enolwazi, kepha uma ubheka imiphumela yezifundo eziningi, maningi amathuba okuthi ube nemibuzo eminingi kunezimpendulo.
Ukufingqa iqembu elikhulu locwaningo ngalesi sihloko, abacwaningi bahlukaniswe ngamaqembu amabili. Iqembu lokuqala lithi inkolo yandisa ubumbano emndenini futhi inegalelo ezimeni ezimbalwa zokungqubuzana ngenkathi imibono yesibili ingafani ncamashi. Inkinga ukuthi, womabili la maqembu anobufakazi obuningi bokusekela izimangalo zawo, okukhomba empendulweni eyodwa kuphela enengqondo yalo mbuzo.
Nguwe nomndeni wakho kuphela eninganquma ukuthi uhlobo luni lwenkolo oluba nomthelela ekubumbaneni nasenhlalakahleni yomndeni wakho nokuthi ungakunciphisa kanjani ukungqubuzana kwezenkolo emindenini, uma kwenzeka kukhona.
Umsebenzi wethu kule ndatshana ukunethulela amaqiniso nemiphumela ejwayelekile esimweni lapho inkolo ibamba iqhaza elibalulekile ekubambeni umndeni ndawonye.
Uma wazi ukuthi ukwehluka ngokwenkolo ebudlelwaneni noma ukungqubuzana kwezenkolo emindenini, kungabhubhisa kanjani konke okusemqoka kubo bonke ubudlelwano bakho, ungaba nolwazi oluningi futhi uthathe izinqumo ezihlakaniphile.
Umthelela wenkolo ekusebenzeni komndeni
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwenkolo nokungqubuzana emndenini bufundwe kakhulu yizazi eziningi emasikweni ahlukene ngezinhloso ezimbili eziyinhloko:
- Phenya ukuthi abazali bazidlulisela kanjani izinkolelo zabo nemikhuba yabo ezinganeni zabo
- Umthelela wezinkolelo nemikhuba yenkolo ezingxabanweni zomndeni
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ososayensi bezengqondo nabomqondo abaningi benkolo bachaze inkolo njengento ebalulekile ekusebenzeni komndeni.
Lokhu kuchazwa iqiniso lokuthi inkolo iyisici esisodwa esibalulekile senani abazali abadlulisela ngalo ezinganeni zabo. Kungakho abazali badlala indima enqumayo ekwakheni ukholo ezinganeni zabo ezimweni eziningi.
Ngamanye amagama, ukukhetha inkolo nokuhambela inkolo emindenini eminingi kuwo wonke amasiko kungumphumela wokudluliswa kwemikhuba nezinkolelo ezivela kubazali ziye ezinganeni zabo.
Eqinisweni, ithonya labazali linamandla ikakhulukazi emkhakheni wezenkolo, njengoba iningi labantu abasha likhethe ukuzibandakanya enkolweni yabo bobabili abazali noma ngoyise nonina.
Kunengqondo ngokuphelele: uma abazali bekhulisa izingane zabo ngendlela ethile yenkolo, amathuba aphezulu kakhulu ukuthi bazojwayela futhi balandele ezinyathelweni zabazali babo.
Noma izingane zingayilandeli imikhuba enjengokwenza amasiko enkolo nokuxoxa ngenkolo ekhaya, indlela yokuziphatha yabazali inethonya elikhulu ekuzinikeleni kwezingane ezingokwenkolo.
Kungakho abacwaningi abaningi bebheka imindeni njengendawo enhle kakhulu yokufunda inkolo nokungqubuzana, nokuhlaziya umthelela wengxabano yezenkolo emindenini.
Ukungqubuzana kwezenkolo emindenini
Izinkinga ezibandakanya inkolo zingaholela ezingxabanweni emindenini ukuthi amalungu akholwa yini noma cha. Izizathu zalo mphumela ziningi futhi zifaka kepha azikhawulelwanga ku:
- Izingane ziqala ukungabaza imikhuba nezinkolelo zabazali bazo.
- Ukuguqulwa kwengane iye enkolweni ehlukile ecasula abazali.
- Izingane ezibandakanyeka ekuphuzeni utshwala nakweminye imisebenzi inkolo eyenqabayo kanye / noma eziyibheka njengesono nokubi.
- Ukuba nemibono eyehlukile ezindabeni zokuziphatha lapho inkolo inesimo esithile. Isibonelo, impikiswano ingenzeka lapho isinqumo selungu lomndeni sokukhipha isisu siphikisana ngqo nezinkolelo zawo wonke umndeni.
- Ukukhethwa kwesoka / intombi noma umlingani wokuphila. Uma ingane ikhetha ukuba nomuntu ovela kwenye inkolo, abazali bangahle baphatheke kabi noma babelane ngemizwa engemihle mayela nenyunyana; Ukuhlala nomlingani ovela kwenye inkolo nakho kungadala izingxabano eziningi lapho kwenziwa izinqumo ezibalulekile, okusho ukuthi izingane kufanele ziye kusiphi isikole.
- Ukukhetha umsebenzi noma umsebenzi. Izingane zingakhetha imisebenzi ephikisana nemibono yenkolo emindenini yazo; isibonelo esisodwa sikhetha ukuba yilungu lempi futhi sithunyelwe ezindaweni ezingqubuzanayo.
Ngokusobala, kunezimo eziningi lapho inkolo nokungqubuzana kuhlangana khona.
Ngakho-ke, ukwazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalezi zimo ezibandakanya ukwehluka kwezenkolo ebudlelwaneni noma ukungqubuzana kwezenkolo emindenini, kuyikhono elibaluleke kakhulu. Ikhono lokubhekana nezindaba ezimayelana nenkolo nengxabano, lingasindisa ubudlelwano futhi lithuthukise ubumbano lomndeni.
Ungazixazulula kanjani izingxabano zenkolo emindenini
Lapho kuphakama umbuzo wenkolo nengxabano, inkolo ngayinye ithi ubudlelwano emndenini kufanele bususelwe kuqala futhi ngokuyinhloko ekuzibophezeleni, ekuhloniphaneni, nasothandweni.
Isibonelo, ngokwenkolo yamaSulumane, bobabili abazali nezingane akufanele babangele ukulimala komunye nomunye; UbuKrestu bufundisa nabazali ukuthanda nokuhlonipha izingane zabo umthwalo wazo kungukuhlonipha umama nobaba wazo.
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, into engcono kakhulu ukuxazulula izingqinamba ezihambisana nenkolo nokungqubuzana ukuzama ukuqonda izinhloso nemibono yomunye nomunye ngesimo.
Isibonelo, ngisho nokuxabana okunzima okubandakanya abashadikazi ababili bezinkolo ezahlukahlukene kungancishiswa kakhulu uma befundisana ngezinhloso nezincazelo zezenzo zabo kanye nezinqumo nemikhosi ezinkolweni zabo (uma zikhona).
Lapho nje umuntu eseqonde incazelo kanye nogqozi ngemuva kwesenzo noma isinqumo, baba nethuba lokuthatha igxathu eliya phambili bachaze nezinhloso nezinjongo zabo.
Ukugcina ingxoxo evulekile nehloniphanayo kungumgomo obucayi ngenkathi ubhekene nenkolo nokungqubuzana, njengoba amaqembu womabili engaqala ukwakha ibhuloho lokuqondana phakathi kwezinye izimpi ezifanayo.
Njengakwezinye izimo eziningi ezahlukahlukene, ukuxhumana nemfundo kwenza ukuthi kube lula ukufunda ukuzihlonipha izinqumo nokukhethwa komunye nomunye futhi unqobe izimpikiswano ezicindezelayo eziphathelene nenkolo nokungqubuzana.
Imicabango yokugcina ngenkolo nangengxabano
Izingxabano zenkolo zingenzeka kuyo yonke imindeni kungakhathalekile ukuthi zikholwa noma cha.
Kungakho ukufunda ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokwehluka kwezenkolo ebudlelwaneni nokungqubuzana kwezenkolo emindenini kuyikhono elibalulekile lokugcina ikhwalithi yobudlelwano kanye nokuhlangana komndeni.
Ngethemba ukuthi ukufunda le ndatshana kuzoba esinye sezinyathelo ozozithatha ekuqondeni imithombo yezingxabano zenkolo emindenini kanye nokwenza ngcono amakhono akho wokuxazulula lokho.
Futhi, khumbula ukuthi zonke izinkolo zisifundisa ukuhloniphana futhi samukele izinqumo ezenziwa ngabanye abantu.
Uma ungadluli ezindabeni ezibandakanya inkolo nokungqubuzana, maningi amathuba okuthi uzolahlekelwa ukwesekwa okungokomzwelo nethuba lokuqhubeka nobudlelwano bakho nalabo bantu, okuyinani eliphakeme ngokungadingekile okufanele ulikhokhe.