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- Ukuzindla kungaba yingozi
- Akukho okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka!
- Ubudlelwano abupheli ngokungajwayelekile
Ukucindezeleka nokudabuka kuza ngezindlela eziningi futhi bangazenzela impilo yabo. Iningi lethu lizulazula usuku ku-autopilot ukuze nje liye emcimbini olandelayo, umhlangano olandelayo, ukuqokwa okulandelayo noma ukuhlangana komndeni okulandelayo, ngaphandle kokukhipha okusele izinwele zethu. Ezinye zezinsuku zifiphalisiwe ndawonye futhi umugqa ocacile womngcele kungenzeka ungabonakali futhi imininingwane emincane yalokhu kungenjalo, imisebenzi ejwayelekile yempilo ibonakala inyamalala ngaphandle kokulandela. Kwesinye isikhathi uzibuze ukuthi ubunyamalale kuphi endleleni.
Ukuzindla kungaba yingozi
Ukuzindla kungaba yinkemba esika nhlangothi zombili uma ingaphathwa ngokunakekela, ngesikhathi esifanele nasesimweni esifanele somqondo. Yize ukwazi ukuhlehla osukwini lwakho lokusebenza, ungazithola ungakwazi ukwehla ngempilo; ikakhulukazi impilo egcwele iziqephu ezinzima zosizi. Okudabukisa kakhulu yilokho okuhlala phansi, okuphansi ngaphansi kwe-radar, kepha okungenani kukuvumela ukuba ube nomusa wokuba ngumuntu osebenzayo.
Ngibona abesifazane abaningi ehhovisi lami abazibheka njengabahluleli abahle besimilo kanti abanye banentambo efanayo. Angikaze ngiyibone iza! ”
Ukube bengine-nickel ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngizwa leso sitatimende! Ngabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi sibona kuphela esikufunayo? Mhlawumbe kwesinye isikhathi. Kungamanga yini ukuthi ngoba asiyiboni, ayikho lapho? Akunzeki?
Abesifazane bavame ukuthwala inani elingenacala lecala lapho bebhekene nokuthile okungajwayelekile, abangakaze bakubone kuza.
Akukho okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka!
Lapho nje inqubo yokubonisa seyenzekile, leyo mininingwane yemizuzu ebinganakiwe ivele ikhanye.
"Ngingakutshela ukuthi wayegqokeni okokuqala ngibona ukuthi ubheka omunye wesifazane endaweni yokudlela ..."
"Bengingazi ukuthi le akhawunti yenzelwe amakhadi wesikweletu afihliwe kuze kube ...."
"Uthe ubesemihlanganweni ngalezo zinsuku ezintathu ..."
Lokhu okuphume emqondweni ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka kuyisenzo esivela engqikithini yezemizwa.
Akekho ofuna ukucabanga ukuthi uphuthelwe yizo zonke izinkomba ezazilengiswe phambi kobuso bakhe.
Akekho ofuna ukuzizwa sengathi ubeyisiwula. Akekho ofuna ukucabanga ukuthi ukuzinikela kwabo akubuyiswanga. Leli yiphilisi elinzima ukugwinya noma ngubani.
Ubudlelwano abupheli ngokungajwayelekile
Ukuphahlazeka kwezimoto kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, uthola umkhuhlane ngaphandle kokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, futhi ungawa futhi uphuke ingalo ngaphandle kokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
Ubudlelwano abubi kakhulu ngaphandle kwesibhakabhaka. Kunezimpawu ezicashile endleleni, ezinye ziyabonakala, ezinye ziyimfihlo.
Kunoma ikuphi, izimpawu zikhona, kumane kuyindaba yesikhathi lapho indawo efihlekile izokhulisa khona ikhanda layo elibi. Umphumela wokugcina yisiphetho sokufa okuhamba kancane ngenxa yalokho ongakubonanga nokuthi yini ongazange uyivume ngenkathi yethulwa kuwe.
Kunesizathu sokuthi sibe nalesosisho sakudala esithi "uthando aluboni."
Ukuthwala icala lokungaziboni izimpawu akusizi ngalutho futhi ngeke kukusize welaphe ngokushesha okukhulu. Ukuphulukisa kuthatha isikhathi futhi nguwe kuphela ongahlulela ukuthi uhlelo lwezikhathi lubukeka kanjani. Akekho owazi ukulimala kwakho ngendlela owenza ngayo, akekho omunye oboshelwe ngokomzwelo esimweni sakho njengawe. Ngakho-ke uma uzithola usesikhathini "esivela ngaphandle okwesibhakabhaka", nazi izinyathelo ezimbalwa okufanele uzilandele ukuthola kabusha.
1. Ungazibeki icala. Ayisebenzi futhi izomane ikhuthaze ukuzigxeka.
2. Uthola izindlela zokulawula imizwa yakho eyeqisayo yentukuthelo, ukudabuka, ukudangala noma ukukhathazeka ngokuthi ikusasa likuphatheleni.
3. Yamukela ukuthi bakukhaphele. Ngakho-ke awutholi ukugoqa umthwalo wecala wezenzo zomunye umuntu ezingafanele.
4. Ingabe uzemukele. Zikhumbuze ukuthi unenani futhi ubalulekile futhi ugweme ukuthi "ukube bengingcono ..." noma "ukube ngenzile ..." Zama ukungaziqhathanisi. Khumbula, ukube bekungumlingiswa womlingani wakho ukukukhaphela, ngabe wenza konke kangcono futhi nabo bebezokukhaphela.
5. Thola umelaphi omuhle ozokusiza ngenqubo yokululama.
6. Thenga ibhakede lokupenda. Penda igumbi lakho olithandayo umthunzi ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka.