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- Ukuzingelwa komuntu oshade naye kuphelile
- Udla kakhulu
- Niyizambane ezimbili zosofa othandweni
- Nihlanganyela impilo engenampilo ndawonye
- Umlingani wakho kungenzeka akwenze ukhuluphele ngamabomu
Usufake amakhilogremu ambalwa muva nje? Futhi ngabe uqondane nobudlelwano ngasikhathi sinye? Ake ngikwazise ukuthi le "nto" ayiqondananga; yebo, usuyisinqe manje, kepha hhayi ngenxa yezizathu ongahle uzicabange ... Isizathu sangempela sokuthi uthole isisindo esithe xaxa ukuthi usebudlelwaneni ... yebo, uzwile lelo lungelo, ukhuluphele ngoba usebudlelwaneni. Manje umuntu angahle adideke futhi alahleke ngokumangala ngalesi senzakalo esingesihle, ngabe ukuzibophezela kothando bekungekho yini ngokwanele futhi manje sekufanele uthwale omunye umthwalo (wesisindo sakho kunjalo)?
Kunobufakazi besayensi obunamandla bokuthi lokhu kufakazela iqiniso lokuthi abantu abasebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bavame ukukhuluphala futhi bangabi sesimeni (nxazonke nakho kunjalo). Ngakho-ke kungani imibhangqwana ikhuluphala, futhi yiziphi izimbangela eziyisisekelo ezinomthelela kulokhu kuzuza kwesisindo okungathandeki? Nazi izimpendulo eziqinile.
Ucwaningo olwenziwe yiCentral Queensland University e-Australia luveze ukuthi abantu abasebudlelwaneni maningi amathuba okuthola isisindo esingafuneki kulabo abangashadile.
Ukuzingelwa komuntu oshade naye kuphelile
Lawo ma-hard-abs aphenduke i-flab ngoba awusekho emdlalweni wokuncintisana; uthole umlingani ngempumelelo futhi asikho isifiso noma isidingo sakho sokuheha umlingani, ngakho konke sekumi ngomumo. Ama-singleton aqophile futhi alingana ngemizimba ngoba adinga ukuba namathuba amahle kakhulu okuheha umlingani ngokomzimba. Futhi, batshalwe ngokwemvelo kakhulu empilweni nasemizimbeni yabo ngoba yizona ezibaluleke kakhulu kubo futhi banesikhathi esiningi sabo.
Njengoba unentshisekelo yokusebenzisa ingxenye enkulu yesikhathi sakho nge-SO yakho ngakho-ke mhlawumbe awunaso isikhathi esanele sokuthi ufike ejimini bese uthola umsebenzi omuhle.
Udla kakhulu
Ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nomlingani wakho kuyintokozo enkulu kuwe futhi akukho okujabulisa kakhulu kunokuhlwa kwothando ne-SO yakho. Nobabili nithanda ukuzitika ngokudla okumnandi, uphudingi omnandi; nina nobabili nizama izindawo zokudlela ezahlukahlukene, futhi nithola izindawo ezintsha zokudla.
Kungumsebenzi wokuzijabulisa omnandi, kepha ucebe kakhulu emnyangweni wekhalori, futhi kuza ngentengo yempilo yakho nokubukeka kwakho.
Niyizambane ezimbili zosofa othandweni
Uthando luwumzwelo omuhle nesipiliyoni semilingo, futhi lukuqinisela phansi nomlingani wakho, kusofa ngokusobala. Imibhangqwana eshadile ejabule ibike ukuthi incamela ukuhlala ekubhenaneni ngezikhathi ezithile noma ukubukela ama-movie ndawonye ngenkathi inciphisa inani eliningi lama-carbs nokudla okunamafutha kakhulu njenge-popcorn ye-buttery, ama-sodas, no-ayisikhilimu njll.
Ngakho-ke, akuyona imfihlo ukuthi lezi zinyoni zothando ezithandekayo zingazithola zikusisindo esinzima somshini onesisindo.
Yinto nje yezithandani, bachitha isikhathi 'ku-Love Coven' yabo beziphumulele nje futhi bebeka phansi ngenkathi be-oda i-pizza noma ama-Chinese; yize kungumsebenzi omnandi wabashadikazi kuthatha inani okhalweni lwabo.
Nihlanganyela impilo engenampilo ndawonye
Kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwane bezothando, wabelana ngaphezu kwesibopho sothando noshade naye. Wabelana ngemikhuba yakho yokudla nokuzinakekela futhi. Oshade naye nabo baletha indlela yabo yokuphila enempilo noma engenampilo etafuleni futhi, futhi uma nawe unemikhuba emibi yokudla, maningi amathuba okuthi uzoba nendlela yokuphila engenampilo efanayo.
Imikhuba emibi iyathathelana, uma oshade naye ekhuluphele ngakho-ke nawe uzophenduka ukhuluphele.
Ngakho-ke, isinyathelo esihle sokukhetha umlingani ophilile ngokomzimba ozokwethula izinga elihle lokuphila empilweni yakho, kuzozuzisa inhlalakahle yakho yomzimba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Umlingani wakho kungenzeka akwenze ukhuluphele ngamabomu
Imvamisa, uzothola ukuthi unkosikazi wakho noma intombi yakho ishaya ukudla okuthandayo ngoba abazi ukuthi kukwenza ujabule. Kodwa-ke, lesi senzo sokunakekelwa nokunakekelwa singahle sibe nombhalo ongezansi ocashile okungenzeka ungazi ngawo.
Bayakukhulisa, ngakho-ke uzovela ungathandeki kangako kwabanye abantu ongaba nabo.
Ngakho-ke kususwa noma yiliphi ithuba lokuthi enye intombazane ikuntshontshele futhi iqinisekise ukuthi nobabili nizohlala nihlala ndawonye. Kuyindlela engaziwa ukuthi iningi labesifazane bayayisebenzisa ukugcina amadoda abo athambile.
Qiniseka ukuthi ukuthola amakhilogremu ambalwa akuyona into engeyinhle kangako, ukuthi thina, njengomphakathi, sikhathazeke kakhulu ngamazinga amahle wobuhle alibeka ngembaba ngale kwemizimba yabantu ejwayelekile. Zithande wena nomlingani wakho kungakhathalekile ukuthi babukeka kanjani, ukuphela kwento okufanele ukhathazeke ngayo yimpilo yakho, akukho ukuyekethisa lapho.