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- 1. Lawula ukukhathazeka kwakho kanye nemodeli yokuzilawula
- Zijwayeze ukuhlanzeka nezingane zakho
- 3. Nciphisa ukuvezwa kwabezindaba
- 4. Fundisa izingane zakho ububele
- 5. Prakthiza ukubonga
- 6. Fundisa izingane zakho ngemizwa
- 7. Chithani isikhathi ndawonye futhi nihlukane
- 8. Xoxa ngokulawula
- 9. Gxilisa ithemba
- 10. Yiba nesineke futhi ube nomusa
Ama-athikili amaningi azungeza i-inthanethi ekhuluma nge-COVID 19 - CoronaVirus, nokuthi ungazisekela kanjani izingane ekhaya manje njengoba sezishintshele esikoleni esibonakalayo amasonto ambalwa.
Iningi lama-athikili engiwafundile linikeza ngamathiphu asebenzayo wokusebenza nezingane, ukuzigcina kusheduli futhi zimatasa ngemisebenzi eyahlukene engaphula usuku.
Nawa amanye amathiphu amahle obuzali ekukhuliseni izingane ngokukhuluma ngeCoronavirus ngendlela yokusiza izingane zakho ezincane ukubhekana nemizwa yazo.
Akudingeki wethuse izingane zihambe. Kepha, ngaphansi kokuholwa ngabazali, akufanele kube yinkinga ukukhuluma ngamaqiniso athile wegciwane ezinganeni, anganikeza amandla abo okuqonda.
1. Lawula ukukhathazeka kwakho kanye nemodeli yokuzilawula
Ukukhathazeka kwenzeka emindenini, ngokwengxenye kungenxa yofuzo futhi ngokwengxenye kungenxa yokumodela okwenzeka phakathi kwabazali nezingane.
Izingane zifunda ngokufunda okubukwayo futhi, ngezindlela eziningi, zikopisha ukuziphatha kwabazali bazo. Bayayiqaphela nemizwa yabazali babo, babakhombise “ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngesimo.”
Ngakho-ke, uma ukhathazekile ngaleli gciwane, maningi amathuba okuthi nezingane zakho zinjalo. Bathola “ukudlidliza,” noma ngabe awufuni ukukhathazeka ngabo.
Ngokulawula ukukhathazeka kwakho, ulingisa ukuthi kulungile ukuzizwa wesaba ngalesi simo kepha futhi kunesikhala sokuqinisekiswa nethemba!
Zijwayeze ukuhlanzeka nezingane zakho
Izingane zifunda kulokho okwenzayo, hhayi kulokho okushoyo.
Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi ukhulisa izingane, xoxa, ufundise, futhi wenze imodeli yokuwasha izandla bese wenza ezinye izindlela zokuziphatha ezinempilo ngesikhathi sokuzihlukanisa. Lokhu kufaka phakathi ukugeza nsuku zonke nokugqoka izingubo ezihlanzekile noma ungaphumi.
3. Nciphisa ukuvezwa kwabezindaba
Lapho ukhulisa izingane, kubalulekile ukunciphisa ukuvezwa kwemidiya futhi unikeze izingane zakho amaqiniso ngeCoronavirus efanelekile ngentuthuko.
Ubuchopho bezingane abukakhuli ngokuphelele futhi bungatolika izindaba ngezindlela ezingakhiqizi njengokuzikhathaza noma ukukhulisa ukukhathazeka nokudangala.
Zama ukunciphisa lokho abakubonayo nabakuzwayo ku-TV, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nasemisakazweni. Izingane azidingi ukuvuselelwa nsuku zonke ngentuthuko yakamuva ye-COVID 19 noma bazi amazinga okufa nokuntuleka kokwelashwa kwalabo abagulayo.
Bangakwazi ukuqonda amathiphu okuvimbela nokuthi singasiza kanjani ekuvikeleni labo abangaba sengozini enkulu, njengogogo nomkhulu wabo.
4. Fundisa izingane zakho ububele
Sebenzisa le nkinga yomhlaba wonke njengethuba lokukhulisa izingane. Zama uku fundisa izingane ngokuba nomusa, ukuthanda, nokusebenzela abanye ngokuhlala ekhaya.
Ungabakhuthaza futhi ukuthi basebenzise izindlela zokuzivikela ezinempilo, futhi ubakhuthaze ngokubabiza nokwenza amakhadi kogogo nomkhulu babo, labo abagulayo, nabantu abodwa.
Fundisa izingane ukuphana ngokuhlanganisa amaphakethe okunakekela omakhelwane noma labo abaswele, babelane ngalokho okutholakalayo ukuze kuzuze wonke umuntu.
5. Prakthiza ukubonga
Ngezikhathi ezinzima, singafunda izifundo ezibalulekile. Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi ukhulisa izingane, kubalulekile ukuzicacisa ngezinzuzo zokwenza ukubonga.
Ukubonga kusiza ekuthuthukiseni imizwa yethu, kukhuphule imizwa yethu yenhlalakahle, futhi kusisize ukuba sihlale sizinzile.
Lapho sihlakulela umkhuba wokubonga ngayo yonke into enhle esiqhamukayo, sivuleleka kakhudlwana kokulusizo ezimpilweni zethu, ukuqonda kwethu kuthanda ukwanda, futhi kuba lula ukubona izinto ezinhle ezisizungezile, ikakhulukazi ngalesi sikhathi isikhathi.
Buka le vidiyo ukuze uqonde ukubaluleka kokwenza ukubonga:
6. Fundisa izingane zakho ngemizwa
Leli yithuba elihle kakhulu lokunikeza isikhala sokubheka nengane ngayinye ngazodwana noma njengomndeni futhi sikhulume ngokuthi ngamunye wenu uzizwa kanjani ngokungaqiniseki, ngegciwane, ngokuzikhathaza ngokuzihlukanisa, njll.
Xhuma imizwa emizimbeni yabo bese ukhomba izindlela zokuxhasana.
Ngakho-ke, lapho ukhulisa izingane, ukujwayela ukukhuluma ngemizwa kusiza ukukhulisa ukuxhumana nokuhlangana komndeni.
7. Chithani isikhathi ndawonye futhi nihlukane
Yebo! Nikezane amakhefu futhi nizijwayeze ukukhomba ukuthi yisikhathi sini sokuchitha isikhathi sodwa.
Bafundise ukuthi babe khona kanjani emizweni yabo, bahloniphe izidingo zabo, futhi bahloniphe eyakho. Ukuxhumana okunempilo nemingcele kubalulekile ngalesi sikhathi!
8. Xoxa ngokulawula
Khuluma nezingane zakho mayelana nalokho esingakulawula (okungukuthi, ukugeza izandla, ukuhlala ekhaya, ukubamba iqhaza emisebenzini yomndeni) nokuthi yini esingeke sikwazi ukuyilawula (okungukuthi, ukugula, imicimbi ekhethekile ikhanseliwe, ukungakwazi ukubona abangane nokuhamba ezindaweni abazijabulelayo, njll.).
Ukwesaba kuvame ukuvela ekuzizweni ungaphandle kokulawula noma ukungazi umehluko phakathi kwalokho esingakulawula nalokho esingakwazi ukukulawula.
Ukwazi ukuthi sinokulawula okuthile kusisiza ukuthi sizizwe sinamandla futhi sizolile.
9. Gxilisa ithemba
Khuluma ngalokho okufisela ikusasa. Ungenza uhlu lwemisebenzi ozoyiqedela nezingane zakho lapho ukuzimela ngokwakho sekuphelile noma dala izimpawu zethemba ozozithumela kumawindi akho.
Ukuba nomuzwa wokuzibandakanya okusebenzayo kanye nethemba ngekusasa kuzosiza ukukhulisa imizwa emihle kanye nomuzwa wokuhlangana nomphakathi. Sonke sikulokhu ndawonye.
10. Yiba nesineke futhi ube nomusa
Ukufundisa umusa nozwela ezinganeni zakho kuzodinga ukuba nomusa nozwela kubo nakwabanye, kepha ikakhulukazi kuwe.
Lapho ukhulisa izingane, uzokwenza amaphutha njengomzali. Indlela obhekana ngayo nengcindezi namaphutha kuzokwenza umehluko ekuxhumaneni kwengane yakho kuwe nokuthi ifunda kanjani ukuveza imizwa yayo nokubhekana nezimo ezicindezelayo.
Noma ngabe unosana noma osemusha, izingane zakho zidinga ukukubona wenza ngokuvumelana nezindinganiso ozifundisa zona. Udinga ukuba yingqwele yabo futhi ube yisibonelo ekuziphatheni okunempilo, nasekulawuleni ngokomzwelo.
Okungaziwa kungasabisa, kepha kungasebenza njengethuba elihle kakhulu lokufundisa izingane izifundo ezinhle nokuqina. Thatha lesi sikhathi ukuxhumana nengane yakho futhi uzuze kakhulu kulolu phiko oluyinselele.
Hlala Uphephile Futhi Unempilo!