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- Yini i-psychopath?
- Akukho uzwela
- Awukho unembeza
- Umuzwa okhuphukile wokuzibona ubalulekile
- Ziyabukeka kodwa azinendaba
- Ama-Psychopaths awathembekile
- Ukuhlola ubuhlobo bakho
Hhayi ukukusabisa kepha uma usebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic, kuyinto okumele uyazi. Ukuze uphile saka futhi uphephe!
Ngenkathi sibona ukuthi asitholi i-psychopath futhi ukwenza kanjalo, uzodinga usizo lochwepheshe into yokugcina ofuna ukuyenza ukuthi ube ebudlelwaneni be-psychopath ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Ngoba ezimweni eziningi ukufika sekwephuzile ebudlelwaneni be-psychopath kungaba kuhle futhi sekwephuze ngokweqile - kungaba umdlalo ophelile ngawe ukukhuluma ngokoqobo noma ngokufanisa.
Manje lokho konke kungabonakala kuthakazelisa kancane, ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuba sikunikeze izimpawu ezingakuxwayisa ukuthi ubone ukuthi ngabe ubudlelwano bakho budlelwane be-psychopathic noma cha, kufanele sazise ukuthi silisebenzisa kanjani igama elithi 'psychopath.'
Yini i-psychopath?
I-psychopath ayinayo imizwa, ayikho umuzwa wecala, isibopho noma ukuzisola, akukho uzwela, ukuqonda izindinganiso zabantu kanye nokuzizwa kwabo kuncike kakhulu ekucabangeni okukhulu (ngabo). Bayazethemba, bayabala, bahlakaniphile futhi bangakwazi (futhi bavame ukuphanga imizwa yomuntu).
Ama-Psychopaths ayakwazi ukukhanga, futhi ayazi ukuthi angadlala kanjani abantu ukuze kuzuze bona ngokuya ngezinhloso zabo okuvame ukuthi kube imigomo ehlobene nebhizinisi noma imigomo eyanelisa izidingo zabo ezivame ukusonteka noma ezonakele.
Akuwona wonke ama-psychopaths athatha izimpilo, kepha amanye amacala amabi kakhulu enziwe yi-psychopath. IHollywood ngokuqinisekile iyiveza ngokunembile i-psychopaths. Kodwa-ke, kunabesilisa nabesifazane abaningi abajwayelekile abangama-psychopaths - akubona bonke abakha amaqiniso afanele ukufakwa kwi-movie ethusayo, kepha wonke ama-psychopaths anamandla okwenza njalo uma efuna.
Cishe i-1% labantu jikelele kanye no-3% wabaholi bebhizinisi ngama-psychopaths ngokusho kocwaningo olushicilelwe kwi-Behavioral Sciences & the Law, 2010. Ngakho-ke uma uphumelele ngokweqile kodwa ungenanhlonipho njengomphathi, noma amathuba ophathina angaba yi-psychopathic .
Abantu abaningi 'abajwayelekile' mhlawumbe bangathuthumela uma becabanga ngokwabo ukuthi sebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic, kepha inkinga ukuthi, abanye ngeke bazi nokuthi bangabo!
Nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokuthi ukulobudlelwano be-psychopath.
Akukho uzwela
Uma usebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic, umlingani wakho noma oshade naye akasoze, asiphindi singalokothi sizwe uzwela lomlingani wakho.
Abanakho. Okwenza lokhu kube uphawu olucacile lokuthi okungenani ubhekene nomuntu onenkinga yokuziphatha futhi angakusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi kungani bengenza izinqumo abazenzayo ngaphandle kokucabangela usizi lwabanye (ikakhulukazi uma besebhizinisini ).
Kodwa-ke, ama-psychopaths ahlakaniphile, ayakwazi ukulingisa nokukhohlisa imizwa yabantu, ngakho-ke, kungahle kungabi lula ukubona ukuthi umlingani wakho akanakho ukuzwelana ekuqaleni. Kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ikakhulukazi uma ungabazisi ukuthi ubheke ukubonakalisa kwabo uzwela bazokushiyela izinkomba ezithile.
Bazise ukuthi ubheka noma kunjalo futhi bazothola indlela yokukuveza - kepha kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungavumeli umlingani wakho azi ukuthi ufunani futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoqala ukubona imibala yangempela yomlingani wakho .
Awukho unembeza
I-psychopath ngeke icabange kabili ngokuqamba amanga, ukukopela, ukusunduza imingcele, ukungahloniphi noma yimaphi amakhodi wokuziphatha, ukwephula imithetho nokunye.
Abakhathaleli ngoba abakwazi ukunakekela!
Impela ungahle ube ebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic ne-'e-psychopath esebenzayo 'efunde ukuthi ingazenza kanjani ngendlela eyamukelekile emphakathini, kepha masingavumeli mathambo ngakho (i-pun ehloselwe) abanendaba nalokho isimilo. Benza nje lokho okudingeka bakwenze ukufeza izinhloso zabo, futhi uma usebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic, ngokuqinisekile uzobona amafulegi ambalwa abomvu uma kukhulunywa ngemibono kazakwenu ngisho nakwizenzo zokuziphatha.
Umuzwa okhuphukile wokuzibona ubalulekile
Lesi sici sifana kakhulu nezici zomuntu obhala ngezidakamizwa. Kodwa-ke, i-narcissist idinga ukuzizwa ibalulekile ngezindinganiso zayo. Ngenkathi i-psychopath nje ibalulekile (ngokusho kwabo), futhi abanazo izindinganiso abazifunayo noma abazidingayo ukuze baphile ngazo futhi abanasidingo noma isifiso sokubaluleka. Ku-psychopath ukuzibaluleka kwabo yilokho okuyikho - akukho okunye okukuyo - noma ngabe kugcwele ngokweqile futhi akulungile ngokuphelele.
Uma ubona umuzwa okhuphukile wokuzibona ubalulekile kumlingani wakho, kanye nezinye zalezi ezinye izibonakaliso amathuba okuba unobudlelwano be-psychopathic.
Ziyabukeka kodwa azinendaba
Ama-Psychopaths ayathandeka ngaso sonke isikhathi, kanti i-narcissist ekugcineni ingase iyeke ukuqapha kwayo futhi ikhombise uhlangothi olumnyama. I-psychopath ingagcina isenzo isikhathi eside njengoba sidinga futhi okubaluleke kakhulu uma nje kudingeka.
Ama-Psychopaths ayisibonelo sempisi egqoke isikhumba semvu.
Ngenkathi bengangaze bavumele ukuqapha kwabo ngokwanele ukuze uqaphele ukuthi lokhu kuyisenzo, ungahle ubone umuzwa obandayo ngemuva kwentelezi, (okungenani ngokuhamba kwesikhathi) okuzokwazisa (kanye nezinye zalezi ezinye izimpawu) ukuthi ungaba ebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic.
Ama-Psychopaths awathembekile
Ama-Psychopaths angaba ngabalingisi abahle kakhulu kepha kungaba lula ukubona lapho bethembekile ngoba abakwazi ukuzwa imizwa njengabantu 'abajwayelekile', futhi ngoba abakwazi 'ukunakekela'.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kungaba lula ukubona lapho i-psychopath ingathembeki kufanele uqaphele ukuphefumula, ukunyakaza kwamehlo bese ufunda phakathi kwemigqa (vele ungatsheli umlingani wakho ukuthi wenzani).
Awukwazi ukulingisa lokho ongazi ukuthi udinga ukulingisa. Ama-Psychopaths agcwele ukuzethemba kuhlangene nokuntula ukuqonda kwangempela mayelana nokuthi kunjani 'ukuzizwa' kusho ukuthi bazokuthola kunzima ukulingisa ubuqotho futhi kukusize ubone ukuthi ngabe usebudlelwaneni be-psychopathic.
Ukuhlola ubuhlobo bakho
Lezi ngezinye nje zezimpawu ze-psychopath - kunezinye eziningi. Uma usebudlelwaneni be-psychopath, noma ngabe uzizwa 'uphephile' kungakuhle ucabangele ukuthi uyafuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano noma uzikhulule.
Amathuba wokuthi awutholi izidingo zakho ngokweqiniso. I-psychopath ngokuqinisekile ayinayo amandla othando noma inhlonipho (noma ngabe bangazenzisa). Uma uthatha isinqumo sokushiya kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ucwaninga ukuthi ungabushiya kanjani ubudlelwano be-psychopath ukuze wenze kanjalo ngokuphepha futhi uqiniseke ukuthi umboza amathrekhi akho - kufaka phakathi umlando wesiphequluli sakho.