Njengokungathi ukusungula nokugcina ubudlelwano obuhle, bomshado obuqinile bekungeyona inselelo enkulu kukodwa, ukuguquka okungalindelekile kwemicimbi evela ngaphandle kungacindezela ngisho nemibhangqwana ebekezela kakhulu. Isibonelo, kukhona izithandani ezivela e-Alaska engizibonile ku-inthanethi nge-Skype cishe unyaka manje, eziphonswe inselelo yimicimbi yangaphandle ebalulekile.
Nayi indaba yabo nokuthi basebenze kanjani ndawonye ekusizeni omunye wabashadikazi ukuthi anqobe ukulutha ngengozi.
UHanna noJason (hhayi amagama abo angempela), umbhangqwana osanda kweva eminyakeni engamashumi amane, unezingane ezimbili esezithombile esezishiyile. UHanna usebenza enkampanini yokuthuthukisa ama-software, kanti uJason ungumphathi womugqa wenkampani yamandla kagesi yasendaweni.
Lezi zithandani zibe nezikhathi zazo ezinhle nezimbi kodwa ingxenye enkulu, bathi basebenze ngokungaboni ngaso linye kwabo ezindabeni ezinjengemali nokubhajetha, izindlela zokukhulisa izingane, kanye nokubhekana nokulindelwe ngabasekhweni, ngempumelelo enkulu. Bona nemindeni yabo bebenza kahle impela.
Konke kwashintsha lapho uHanna ethola ucingo luvela ehhovisi elikhulu lenkampani yamandla lazisa uHanna ukuthi uJason uhlangabezane nengozi yomsebenzi, wawa esikafula, futhi waphuthunyiswa esibhedlela nge-ambulensi.
UHanna wasuka ngokushesha ehhovisi lakhe waya egumbini labezimo eziphuthumayo. Lapho ekugcineni ethola imininingwane kubasebenzi bezimo eziphuthumayo, watshelwa ukuthi uJason ulimale kanzima ehlombe lakhe, kodwa ukuthi awekho amathambo aphukile. Babefuna ukumgcina esibhedlela izinsuku ezimbalwa, bese egoduka.
UHanna wakhululeka futhi wathola uJason onokubonga lapho bekhuluma, bobabili besho ukuthi imiphumela yokuwa okubi kakhulu ingaba mibi kanjani.
Inkinga kwaba ukuthi ukulimala ehlombe kwashiya uJason ngezinhlungu ezithile eziqhubekayo. Udokotela wakhe wamnikeza uhlobo oluthile lwemithi ye-opioid okwesikhashana, kanye nokuya emtholampilo we-physiotherapy.
UJason ubengasebenzi izinyanga ezimbalwa, njengoba ukulimala kwakhe kumenza angafaneleki ukusebenza isikhashana. Akubanga isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba uJason abuyele kudokotela wakhe ekhala ngokuthi umuthi wezinhlungu awusebenzi kahle kangako nokuthi uyahlupheka. Udokotela uphendule ngokwandisa isilinganiso semithi yezinhlungu.
Njengoba amasonto edlula, uHanna uthi uJason wayeqala ukucindezeleka futhi athukuthele, aphelelwe yisineke ngezingane, futhi, ngamagama akhe "wayefana nebhere engizohlala nalo."
Ngemuva kwalokho, wathola ukuthi uJason wayezilimaza kabili futhi ephelelwa ngamaphilisi ngaphambi kokuba avakashelwe udokotela olandelayo. Wambuza ngalokhu futhi impendulo kaJason yayiwubuhlanya “Ngisezinhlungwini, futhi angikwazi ukuzibamba uma ngidinga okwengeziwe.”
UJason wayeyisisulu sokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa ngengozi.
Okubi kakhulu, uJason waqala ukuthenga amaphilisi emakethe emnyama. UHanna wayehlanya ngenxa yokukhathazeka. Wachazela uJason ukuthi lo mkhuba wawuyingozi kangakanani nokuthi awusoze wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uthenga ini noma ngabe le mithi ingamlimaza noma imbulale nokumbulala!
Ekugcineni, uHanna wafunela lo mbhangqwana umhlangano nodokotela futhi baba nengxoxo engagunci naye. Udokotela wachaza ukuthi yena uqobo uzizwa kanjani eboshiwe neziguli zakhe ezibuhlungu.
Abaningi babo babephatheke kabi kakhulu, ama-opiate ngokuvamile anezindawo zokunciphisa izinhlungu ezihamba phambili, kepha wayazi kahle ukuthi ayelutha.
Wavuma ukuhlangana noJason njalo futhi wamfaka ohlelweni lwe-corticosteroids, izidakamizwa ezilwa nokuvuvukala kanye nemithi ethile elwa nokudangala. Icebo kwakungukuthi kancane kancane uJason ayeke ama-opioid futhi amsize anqobe ukusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa ngengozi.
Le ndlela isebenze ngezinga elithile, yize uJason ekhohlise amahlandla ambalwa ngokuthola amaphilisi emakethe emnyama futhi. Njengoba uHanna azama ukubekezela nokuqonda, umshado wabo wawunezinkinga futhi babengazizwa besondelene. UJason wayezama kodwa edonsa kanzima.
Cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi lokhu bekuqhubeka kwabashadikazi, imithetho ephathelene nokutholakala kwensangu kwezokwelapha nokuzilibazisa ibishintsha e-Alaska. UHanna wenze ucwaningo nge-inthanethi futhi wanquma ukuthi lo mbhangqwana kufanele uhlangane nodokotela onguchwepheshe ekusetshenzisweni kwensangu ekulawuleni izinhlungu. Wayengazizwa ukuthi uJason ukubambe ngokuphelele konke ukumiswa kwakhe kwama-opioid.
Babona udokotela ‘wensangu’ wabe esenika uwoyela okuthiwa yi-CBD. Le yi-cannabidiol, evela esitshalweni sensangu kepha ayidali uhlobo oluphakeme lokudakwa. Wayecabanga ukuthi lokhu kungasiza uJason ekuphatheni izinhlungu, noma kunciphise ukuvuvukala kuye.
UJason wagijimisa lolu hlelo edlula udokotela wakhe ojwayelekile futhi wayegibele.
Kwesinye sezikhathi zethu eziku-inthanethi, uHanna ubike ushintsho olukhulu kuJason. Wayejabule kakhulu futhi ejabule ngokuthi wayesephumile kuma-opioid futhi wayethembele emafutheni e-CBD futhi eqhubeka neminye yemithi udokotela wakhe abekade eyisebenzisa naye.
Izinto zibukeka zibuyela esimeni esejwayelekile ngesikhathi kungena ucingo luvela kuHanna lucela ukuba kube neseshini yokwelulekwa ephuthumayo yokulwisana nokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa.
Lapho befika esikrinini se-Skype, uJason wayebukeka edangele futhi uHanna ebukeka ethukuthele. Wachaza ukuthi ngelinye ilanga wayebuya emsebenzini futhi wathola uJason egalaji kulokho akubiza ngokuthi “yifu lentuthu elinukayo.” UJason uchaze ukuthi yize ayenqoba empini yokulwa namaphilisi, wayesazizwa ecindezelekile.
Uthe uye esitolo sensangu wathenga insangu ejwayelekile, engeyona eyokwelapha, waqala ukuyibhema ngesikhathi uHanna esemsebenzini. Kwamenza wazizwa engcono ngokwenhliziyo yakhe.
“Kuhle,” kusho uHanna, “kodwa futhi kukwenza uhoxe. Awukho kimi nasemndenini uma uphakeme, futhi angikuthokozi lokho. ”
Ngabuza uJason ukuthi ubhema kangaki, wathi ubekwenza nsuku zonke. Ngambuza nokuthi uyabona yini ukuthi ukukhuphuka, yize kungathuthukisa imizwa yakhe, kumsuse emndenini nakuye uqobo.
Wavuma.
Wabe esecasuka uHanna. “Jason, ngihambile nawe endleleni yakho yokulimala, ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa ozinikezwe ngudokotela, manje usufuna ukukhuphuka futhi uhlole noma kunini lapho uthanda khona? Anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ngikulungele lokhu. ”
UJason ubuze: “Uthini, uthi uzongishiya?”
UHanna: “Angazi. Nami ngiyacindezeleka uyazi. Ukubhema intambo akuyona into engifuna ukuyibekela isibonelo sabantwana bethu njengendlela yokubhekana nezinkinga. ”
Ngabuza uJason ukuthi angathini kuHanna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyayiqonda imizwa yakhe.
“Ngiyakuthola, Hanna. Ushaye khona. Ube nami indlela yonke futhi ngiyazi ukuthi bekungelula. Vele uhambe nami kulokhu isikhashana, futhi ngizokwenza konke engingakwenza ukuze ngibe umyeni nobaba engangikade nginguye. Ngizama ukuthi isihogo sishintshe. Sicela uhlale nami,
Ngisondele lapho. ”
UHanna uthe uzozama.
Ngabuza lo mbhangqwana ukuthi ngabe bangavumelana yini kumvamisa ohleliwe wokudla kwakhe izidakamizwa, lapho uJason angabhema khona uma ethanda, kodwa ngendlela elinganiselwe.
UJason uthe uma engabhema yedwa kusihlwa ngeviki, uzoqinisekisa uHanna ukuthi uzosigcina leso sivumelwano futhi enze yonke imizamo yokuba khona kwakhe nomndeni sonke isikhathi.
Ngiphinde ngabuza lo mbhangqwana ukuthi ungabafundisa yini ngalolu daba lonke izingane zabo ngoba ngokuqinisekile bazozibuza ukuthi kungani ubaba eye egalaji kusihlwa, ngokusetshenziswa kwensangu, nangezinkinga ezinjengokudangala.
UHanna akazange ajabule ngokuphelele ngaleli lungiselelo lokuyekethisa, kodwa ngoba uJason wayekwenza kahle kakhulu ukungawasebenzisi amaphilisi, futhi ngenxa yesibambiso sakhe sokubuyela emndenini, wayezozama.
Ekulandeleni kwezinyanga ezintathu nesithupha, lo mbhangqwana ubika ukuthuthuka okuningi.UJason ubuyile emsebenzini, izinhlungu zakhe sezicishe zaphela, futhi nokubhema kwakhe insangu sekuye kwaba khona ngezikhathi ezithile. UHanna ubika ukuthi uJason ubuyile “naye” naye kanye nomndeni futhi uyajabula ukumbuyisa.
Ngincome lezi zithandani ezinesibindi ngokuzikhandla ekulweni nokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa ngengozi manje sebemise ukwelulekwa ngokwengqondo. Sizoba nesheke ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kusukela manje.
Izikhathi ziyashintsha impela, akunjalo?