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- Nciphisa ukusondelana
- Ukungalali kahle
- Izitayela zabazali ezingqubuzanayo
- Isikhathi esincane sokusondelana ngokocansi
- Isikhathi esiminyene
- Ukudla okunomsoco
- Vocavoca umzimba nomlingani wakho
- Ukwelashwa kwezingxabano zabazali
Uthanda noma ungathandi, kunezithiyo eziningi zobudlelwano nezingxabano zabazali ezintsha abazali ababhekana nazo lapho beletha inqwaba yenjabulo yabo ekhaya lokuhlala. Ngakho-ke, yiluphi uhlobo lwengxabano oluvame kakhulu?
Imvamisa lapho abazali bengavumelani ngendlela yokukhulisa ingane kuba nesimo sokungqubuzana okusobala kumandla omndeni.
Uma ubheka incazelo yezingxabano ezisobala, ingafingqwa njengombuso lapho kunengxabano eshubile futhi engapheli, nemidlalo yokumemeza ngenhloso yokungezwani.
Ukubhekana nomlingani wokuncintisana, ukungezwani kwabazali, ukubukela phansi izingxabano zabazali nezingxabano ezimbalwa zezinkinga eziningi ezivamile zokuba umzali ezilimaza ubudlelwano benjabulo yabazali abasha.
Yize ukufika okusha kungeza okuhle kuyunithi, ingane ifika kubazali isebenza ngokukhathala, ukukhathazeka, nokungaqiniseki okujwayelekile mayelana nokuthi ungaphatha kanjani umthwalo omusha ababhekene nawo empilweni.
Kwesinye isikhathi, ingane ingahle ihlose inkinga ngabalingani abafunda ukwenza isikhala futhi bazivumelanise neparadigm entsha.
Uma wena nabathandekayo bakho nibhekene nezinkinga zobudlelwano nezingxabano zomzali omusha nengane entsha, likhona ithemba.
Nakhu ukubuka konke kwezizathu ezivamile ezichaza izingxabano zabazali abasha namathiphu wokuthi ungazixazulula kanjani izingxabano nomlingani.
Nciphisa ukusondelana
Isikhathi sokondla nokulala kwengane singanciphisa kakhulu isikhathi nomlingani wakho.
Uma umama ahlala “empompa,” futhi ubaba elokhu enyakazisa omncane ukuze alale, kungahle kube nesikhathi esincane namandla asele okusondelana.
Liyini ikhambi?
Yenza isikhathi sokuxhuma. Yenza isikhala sokusondelana.
Cela usizo lwabangane namalungu omndeni ukuze ube nethuba lokuxhumana nabathandekayo bakho. Kulungile ukusuka nomlingani wakho ngempelasonto noma ngaphezulu ukwenza ukuxhumana kwenzeke. Okungenani, setha futhi wenze ubusuku besuku.
Kanye ngesonto, noma ngabe yini, wena nomlingani wakho kufanele nichithe ubusuku ukuphumula, ukukhuluma nokuxhumana kabusha.
Ukungalali kahle
Ngenkathi omncane elele kamnandi emavikini okuqala ezimpilo zabo, akusensuku zatshwala ngaphambi kokuba isisu se-gassy, amazinyo, kanye nemikhuhlane enamandla kugcine inqwaba yenjabulo phezulu ngawo wonke amahora. Ukungalali kahle kuyimbangela enkulu yohlu lwezingxabano ezintsha zabazali.
Uma i-tyke yakho encane ivukile ngaso sonke isikhathi sasebusuku, uzobe uvukile ngawo wonke amahora obusuku, futhi. Ukuncishwa ubuthongo ekugcineni kuzokwakha ubudlelwano obubuhlungu, obumuncu phakathi kwakho nesithandwa sakho.
Iresiphi yenhlekelele eseduze!
Ingabe kukhona i-anecdote kuma-blues eye droopy? Kunjalo. Yabelana ngomthwalo nomlingani wakho. Cabanga ukuthatha isithongwana njengoba uhlelo lwakho lukuvumela.
Uma uzovumela ukuzijabulisa okuncane, vumela ugogo nomkhulu ukuba bathathe omncane wakho kusihlwa. Kuzobuya ubuthongo mngani. Khalwa.
Izitayela zabazali ezingqubuzanayo
Kukholwe noma ungakukholwa, imibhangqwana ingena ezingxabanweni ezinkulu ngenxa yezitayela ezahlukahlukene zobuzali.
Uma umzali oyedwa ekhuluma ngokuqiniswa okuhle kanti omunye umzali ukhetha isheduli yemiphumela emihle, laba bobabili ekugcineni bayoshayeka futhi balimale kuholele ezingxabanweni ezinkulu zomzali ezintsha.
Ukhiye wokuzulazula ngezitayela ezihlukile zokukhulisa abantwana, ukusebenzisa amasu wokulalela asebenzayo ukudala isixazululo esibekiwe.
Kungasiza futhi ukuthi abalingani babambe iqhaza ocwaningweni olunzulu ukuthola ukuthi iziphi izindlela ezisekelwa ucwaningo lwesayensi olunamandla kakhulu.
Uma ingxabano isalungiswa, unganqikazi ukucela usizo kumeluleki othembekile.
Isikhathi esincane sokusondelana ngokocansi
Yize kungahle kubonakale kufanelekile ukuphatha ucansi ngaphansi kwesihloko esivamile sokusondelana, inkinga empeleni inemilenze yokuzimela.
Nakhu iqiniso mayelana nenye yezingxabano ezinkulu zabazali ezintsha.
Umncane wakho uzonciphisa kakhulu impilo yakho yezocansi. Lapho umatasa uzama ukubeka zonke izingcezu zempilo yengane endaweni, asikho isikhathi esincane sokwenza ucansi nomlingani wakho.
Isixazululo kuphela ukwenza isikhathi sokuthintana okusondelene. Amakhandlela, ama-lotion, nokunye okunjalo kunganikeza inhlansi oyidingayo ukuze uvuse imililo yezocansi. Lalela umlingani wakho.
Uma umlingani wakho kunguye ophethe ingane, angacela isikhathi esithile sokuvumela umzimba ukuba uvuseleleke emva kokubeletha.
Musa, ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, ungacindezeli inkinga yokusondelana uma umlingani wakho ebhekene nokudangala kokukhubazeka komzimba.
Isikhathi esiminyene
Ozakwethu abanezingane ezincane bahlala bedonswa ezinkomba eziningi.
Izingcindezi zobizo, ukuba ngumzali, nokunye ukuzibophezela kungashiya isikhathi esincane sokubamba imingcele yobudlelwano. Isikhathi sokweqiniso siyiqiniso. Kwesinye isikhathi, kuningi nje okufanele ukwenze. Ziphathe kahle. Hlonipha ukuzibophezela kanye nezibopho zomlingani wakho.
Njalo shiya isikhathi esithile sitholakalele ukuzibandakanya okunempilo nokuzivuselela komuntu siqu.
Ekupheleni kosuku, uma usho ukuthi unempilo enhle kusho ubudlelwano obunempilo kuwe nophathina wakho noma ngabe "ingane" idinga isigaba sendawo.
Ukudla okunomsoco
Lapho omncane eza empilweni yakho, ungakunaki ukunakekela umzimba wakho.
Uma ufuna ukuxhumana kwakho nomlingani wakho kuchume, ungakukhohlwa ukubaluleka kokondla umzimba wakho ngokudla okunomsoco.
Ngenxa yokwehla kwesikhathi, sivame ukufuna ukudla okulula esikhundleni sezinketho ezinempilo. Izithelo, imifino, namaprotheni anciphile kuyadingeka. Faka umlingani wakho kuzinguquko zendlela yokuphila.
Vocavoca umzimba nomlingani wakho
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wena noshade naye niqhubeke nokuhamba ngemuva kokufika kwengane. Zenzele umusa futhi utshale imali ku-stroller enhle yokugijima.
Thatha ingane nomlingani wakho nihambe naye ukuzihambela nsuku zonke ukugcina ingxoxo ichuma futhi idonsa igazi.
Unazo izinsimbi zamahhala? Pompa insimbi encane uma isikhathi sivuma. Izinzuzo zikhulu kakhulu kufaka phakathi izingxabano zabazali ezintsha.
Ukwelashwa kwezingxabano zabazali
Lapho iribhoni eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma epinki ifika emnyango, umndeni uyajabula futhi izinkinga zokuba umzali yizinto zokugcina ezingqondweni zabo. Baningi abazothokozela inqwaba manje ethatha igumbi ekhaya lakho nesihlalo esihloniphekile ezinhliziyweni eziningi.
Kepha, inqwaba ingaletha ubunzima ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Okusemqoka ukuthi uhlale ugxile ekwakheni isikhala esithe xaxa sokusondelana, isikhathi ndawonye, ukuxhumana okuvulekile, nokujula kokuzibophezela. Lapho omunye umzali edicilela phansi omunye noma ukuba ngumzali okungahambelani kuba yinto ejwayelekile, lapho-ke ukuxazululwa kwezingxabano emishadweni kuya ngokuya kube yinselele.
Kanye nalezi zeluleko ezintsha zokuxabana kwabazali, kufanele ukhethe ukwelashwa, lapho uzokwazi khona ukuthola izeluleko zochwepheshe ngezingxabano zomndeni kanye nemisebenzi yokuxazulula izingxabano emibhangqwaneni noma imisebenzi yokuxazulula izingxabano emindenini, lokho okuzokwenza ulwandle luguquke ebudlelwaneni bakho nenjabulo ephelele.
Unala maphuzu engqondweni uzobe ubulala izingxabano zabazali ezintsha ngokushesha.